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True, those signs definitely indicate I should be approaching them and trying to get their phone number. If you recall my original post, I was waiting on a dentist for a year to get my front tooth fixed.
It's only as of these last couple of months that I've had a fixed tooth, so I'm finally in a position where I'm comfortable interacting with people.
I asked you a couple of posts ago if you knew some basic lines I could tell a girl in public to get things going, but you didn't reply to that. I'm clueless on how to initiate conversation with girls who show interest.
I just need some basic guidance at this point,.
I don't feel entitled to hot women, I don't even feel entitled to average women. I feel like I should at least be given a chance by average women, but they won't even give me that (Online anyway).
My standards are so low that I almost agreed to go on a date with a woman yesterday that looked somewhat like my little sister. I almost went through with it, but after reading her profile a little closer I saw that she mentioned her current weight/height....she was 5' 6" at 185 LBS. That's 30 LBS heavier than me even though she's shorter than me.
My standards are pretty low, but not so low that I'm going to date obese/overweight women. That would only lower my confidence and self esteem, I worked myself to death in the gym these last few years....I should at least date someone only slightly heavy.
I'll check out the mentorship thing but until I have hair I'm probably just screwed.
Have you posted pics of you already? But yeah this whole thread of yours, sometimes it makes me mad and hate nature, reality, because it's a reminder how men have to work harder to get laid than women do and it's not unusual or not unheard of for a lot of guys or men to remain a virgin until later than normal.
Yes, I downloaded every dating app there is and filled them out for universal appeal as per Chris's guide. I initially had 6 really good pics, but in an attempt to hide my baldness I just have 4 now.
I'm thinking everyone in a 50+ mile radius has already seen my bald pics, so now I can't match with anyone because they know what's under the hat.
I really didn't believe being bald was such a big deal, had I known that I would have done things way differently. I just assumed that a good face/body was enough to get women interested....but it seems like hair is more important than I thought.
It sucks but I still have a smidge of hope that with hair, I'll be more successful. Also hoping that in a month or two there should be a bunch of new women making dating profiles.
Just OWN your baldness and shave it all off, or get Rogaine if your hair is salvageable.
If you live in a shit town, and if you're good looking and fit like you describe, get a job in a store with lots of women working there or a nearby factory where women work. You'll get way more action from that than swiping on the only 200 girls on Tinder in your area. When I was in a smaller city, I worked at a grocery store, lots of girls I found unattractive would always be hitting on me. There were two girls in particular who were really aggressive about it, one was like 5'1 200lbs and the other one was taller and probably 180lbs. And several others who were more subtle about it. There were also older 40+ year old women who would hit on me(I was 24 at the time). I personally never took the bait at the time due to inexperience.
Go to that nearby 100k+ town and get a job at a place with lots of women working there!!!
That, or be patient and learn a skill and wait out 2-3 years when you can afford to move to a large city. Your call.
DumpsterFire wrote: Yes, I downloaded every dating app there is and filled them out for universal appeal as per Chris's guide. I initially had 6 really good pics, but in an attempt to hide my baldness I just have 4 now.
Post the pictures you have for dating apps, not just the ones you're using rn, post them all.
Update: At this point I'm kind of afraid of becoming a meme. My original post is full of stuff that I don't want associated with my face now.
But! Aside from that, I have good news. I was finally able to get a girls phone number on the dating app.
All I did was crop my pics a little, add some tiny editing and replaced 1 with a different one.
I basically changed my profile to make it look more authentic, like I'm definitely a real person. (My camera takes suspiciously good quality pics).
I followed Chris's instructions as I messaged her, but I had to wing it at a certain point because Chris's guide doesn't match the situation at times.
She even called me out on it, hinting that she knew I was trying to be slick with her.
She put her guard up pretty high so I almost gave up, but with carefully selected words I was able to convince her that I wasn't a bad dude with nasty intentions. (She has a son, so she is pretty smart to stay safe and not trust strangers online.
I'm guessing my next move should be using Chris's guide, as my phone-call game is worse than my texting game by far!!!
Gonna be the most anxious call of my life.
Hey man I read through like 2 pages here and I definitely understand how it can get sometimes. When you can't get laid it feels like you're stuck in a box and there's nothing you can do about it. Just need to constantly adjust and keep punching the wall until theres a breakthrough.
As for the number thing(asking after like 3 texts), that isn't a 100% rule. Just try to think to yourself when messaging/texting a girl "What does this chick see me as?". Is she messaging you back because she wants a boyfriend? Does she just want some crazy sex? Is she lonely and desperate for some guy to hear her out before she gets plowed?
The reason for getting the number right away, in my opinion, shows the horny girls this guy is serious. When they don't respond bro, it just means they either A) They weren't serious about you, or they weren't comfortable enough/excited enough about you in that moment.
The other thing that gave me an advantage over other guys(I would regularly do pick-up with my local group) is I wasn't afraid to lay it down on some thick shit. Like honestly, just take something to make you really fucking horney before you try running any game and watch your standards drop to the floor. Once you're confident as to actually HAVING SEX, it will just come naturally.
With that being said, I am very blessed for what I have, even if I'm not the richest or best looking guy, I generally haven't issues like this since being introduced to Chris and the forum. Dude really laid everything out for us....even if I feel like I'm just being a copycat at times....at least the shit works.
There's been times when I'll literally tell girls I have no intentions of having sex while I'm in the process of taking their pants off. Can't trigger that ASD. That's one of the basics my man....
When I approach girls I usually just say like "So like I thought you were really cute and just had to say something to you". If they act uncomfortable ignore it and keep pulling the conversation. So say she responds "ok...?" then I'll just be like "Yea so like are you from around here or? Your earrings are absolutely beautiful btw". Then you just keep going with the conversation. If you run out of things to say, just make it obvious you're looking for sex indirectly and see if it's there.
Thank you man, that helps a lot. That's all I really needed, a basic example of stuff to say during approach.
Usually if I have a ballpark understanding of what I need to do, I can adapt pretty good.
The example of calling them cute & keeping things rolling is perfect!
Now I feel like I have something to fall back on.
This example will probably carry over to when I'm alone with them as well, nothing worse than silence/pathetic behavior in the bedroom.
Just please don't end up like this guy, I was very mentally and emotionally moved by this article, to each their own, but if I was him I definitely would have paid for sex or gone to an escort way before that:
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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