TOPIC: Losing my mind! Help?

Hey everyone, I found GLL about 13 months ago and got some really good advice + hope but I feel absolutely miserable as of yesterday.

My plan/goal was to lose my virginity before age 30, at the time I had like 15 months to go.
Now I have about 2 months left and feel completely defeated. (Still a virgin).
I spent the whole last year waiting for a dentist to fix my broken tooth, abstaining from essentially all interaction with women due to insecurity about my broken tooth. I really didn't think it would take a whole year to get it fixed, but somehow it did.....

In my mind I thought "things will work out, once it's fixed I'll jump on dating apps and be golden."
I spent a crazy amount of time collecting amazing profile pics, 6 high quality pics that are all completely different.
I kept getting reassured by members on this forum that it would work out for me, because I'm decently attractive.
The problem is, no one told me that none of this stuff really works if you're BALD!

Women simply will not reply to messages with my bald pics displayed on dating apps. Since removing them I've had a few messages but they always ghost because they likely suspect something is fishy.

I literally spent the last 2.5 years bodybuilding just for a chance at sex, and now I feel like it's all been a waste of time. I'm really muscular and women stare at me in public (with hats on), they hit on me at times but I have non-existent social skills to do anything about it. I was hoping online dating would help me build those skills once I began dating....can't even start.

I'm 100% frustrated/depressed. This is such bullcrap that I'm being overlooked for being bald, my body is great and my face is good!

It's been over a year and I'm starting to see fine lines on my face. It's only a matter of time before I look too old to date. I'm horrified at how fast my face is aging.

I live in a town of 8k people, and I'm close to a city of 180k.

What should I do? Where can I turn? This town has little going on. I don't own a vehicle.

1. Move to a large city.

2. Read this. killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/

I don't have any money saved up, I'm going to get a job in less than 2 weeks.
Even still, that all takes time. It takes forever to move to a new city, especially one that's so overly populated.
It's good advice, but not very possible right now.

I guess I'm screwed. I wasted my entire life for nothing. Can't wait to die

Then save some money up. Make it happen.

just wear a hat/beanie that fits you good and dont take it off

lower your standards

no offense but it does sound like you are making excuses

My standards are rock bottom as it is.
My only requirement is a normal BMI

I do wear a beanie/hat everywhere and in photos

These aren't excuses, these are legitimate problems. If no girls are swiping right on me then I can't even begin. Without a car my search is further limited.
I'm done making excuses at this point, I've waited my entire life for this and it's just not working. I don't get it, being ripped and good looking should be all that it takes, but it's not for some reason.

In regards to losing the V-card, in those circumstances I see nothing wrong with going for an average or even going for a girl that the guy is not really that crazy attracted to just to get it out of the way, hell even sometimes paying for it

I've literally tried every dating app out there, I'm getting zero matches. Women will stare at me in public, but they won't dare swipe right on me.

I've messaged girls I wouldn't have ever considered before and get no replies.

I've always been lead to believe that muscles would open up the world of dating, instead it just cost me thousands of dollars and 3 years of wasted life.
I'm not just trying to complain/whine about this, I've just lost all hope.
It's just not right, I'm not an old man yet but I'm being treated as such.
Getting laid was literally the only thing I've ever wanted in life. I honestly think I'm going to end my life within a month.
I can't just go on a virgin, it'll haunt me my entire life.

Is going to an escort out of the question for you? Posts like this anger and depress me because it's a reminder of how brutal and cold the game can be for many guys, many men out there. Never was a fan of the Dynamics of dating but they will never change

That's where things get kinda complicated. I have religious views on escorts, which is pretty contradictory to me trying to just have sex in the first place. I'm kind of backwards in that regard.

I'm also afraid of messing it up and getting into some kind of legal repercussion.

It just blows my mind that I can't pull this off the natural way, I've been told I'm attractive my entire life.

To each their own but I do believe paying for sex has done wonders or been a positive experience for many guys, men under these type of circumstances, found this article here:https://thoughtcatalog.com/brittany-cox/2016/11/11-people-who-lost-their-virginity-to-a-prostitute-reveal-what-exactly-happened/

Also, are you saying that you already tried lowering your standards looks wise with girls and that still hasn't worked out?

I keep considering an escort but it's a real tough call for me. I'd also know it wasn't any kind of real achievement.

Yes, I've tried messaging women who are heavier and women who are simply not attractive. No responses or they quickly ghost.

I'm going to go to bed, thanks for trying to help me out. Hopefully tomorrow is a better day