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In the last 4 years I worked really hard on my business and through a combination of luck and hard work I managed to earn high 6 figures/year in net income (after paying taxes, etc), next year i should reach 7 figures.
In all those years I neglected dating completely, my last lay was 5 years ago, I'm practically re-virginized (if that's a word). The biggest difference that now I have way more money to spend but tbh, I don't see how this could improve dating besides having a nice car and a nice apartment downtown. I have no success on Tinder...
How would you guys leverage newly acquired "wealth" for dating? What's the best thing I could buy or invest in to bang more girls?
Designer clothes are the things they might notice if you approach day/night - e.g., guess shirts, gucci anything and everything, louis vuitton suits, balenciaga shoes.
I did say "might" above - not a single girl has noticed my balenciaga's except for a Colombian model I approached in Chicago - and that wasn't until the third date.
I only have the one experience but my first date with the colombian model was at a mall and I dropped a G like it was nothing and had to leave because she was late and I had a photoshoot to get to. Ended up spending 10k on her but did end up banging.
Anyway, if you're not having any success on Tinder I'd say
1. double down - max out your style, pay for strength coaching + nutritionist to max out your physique + pay for paid photoshoots + travel and do interesting/fun stuff.
2. Start going to art galas or whatever rich people do and meet girls in person, bypass tinder. You'll also likely meet guys at those events who you might find role models amongst.
So chris talks about this in one of his videos, but money really doesn't matter much when it comes to actually getting laid. It can even hurt, like he says. A girl is more likely to see you as boyfriend material and withhold sex from you.
You're best bet is to invest all the money you have into your looks. Get a good gym membership, diet, teeth whitening, nice clothes, and some good looking accessories. Having money might help in terms of giving you more self-confidence, but besides that....not really. It's almost a requirement for retention though(like chris says in the videos).
Do you really want to be that guy that needs to throw money at girls to get laid?
Look good and find a sexually available girl(aka go to the mall/club and introduce yourself to girls). Hold their hand a little longer than usual, stick your tongue out in a sexy way while they're talking...in can literally be anything indirect that let's the girl know what's up. If a chick thinks your hot and wants dick all you really need to do is make her feel comfortable around you...then catch her in the window.
Went a little off topic there, but basically invest it all into your looks. After that all you need to do is go out and talk to girls while running basic guy game. Once you find a girl who you think is down, make her feel comfortable around you and then just set it up logistically. If you get her 1 on 1 you can even open the window up yourself if you're good enough.
As someone who grew up poor and is in the middle of building income producing assets. Also not at the point where I can lay around in a beach and not work. Whichever path you choose pick wisely because getting laid requires playfulness while getting rich is months, years of hardcore dedication. People will screw with you and take you to court.
Money buys you time, buys you cool looks, you can live interesting life, you get the apartment near the popular bar. Mindset is also important. I can tell you from experience from being in high class places you will get more looks as opposed to low class places (like the $20/month gym). Women want to be with winners. I remember when PUAs said money didn't matter but would charge 5K for camps.
However having a needy mindset is going to get you burned. Also not everybody from a rich family is a slayer. I've met such people that are working in high paying jobs but would have a hard time getting laid at a brothel.
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