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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 03:35 #330419

Kind of want to know what is what here

www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments...st_cant_take_a_hint/

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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 04:11 #330420

I don't read youtube/reddit etc. comments.
I only watched the 1st 30s, and I'd say it was obvious at least one girl wasn't interested at that point.

Real question is why are you asking what's "unacceptable by the PUA" here? This isn't a PUA forum.
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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 04:18 #330423

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I could only watch like 10 seconds in. Could immediately tell this is some pua guy. This is like a situation that has a .000001% chance of working.

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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 04:48 #330425

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Yeah they blew him off within 10 seconds. They showed zero interest and very kindly let him know he should leave. Yet he plowed forward repeatedly. It's tragically hilarious in that the guy is trying to be some suave pickup artist but he proves to a be a social moron. These 3 women will tear this guy to shreds when talking with their friends for years to come. "Remember that creepy guy at the park..."
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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 12:24 #330426

Yeah they immediately told him "we're kinda talking right now"

That's a crystal clear "leave us alone" and it was retarded that he kept trying.

The entire video all 3 of them are clearly just wanting him to leave. Their faces are blurred out, but I bet if you could see them, they'd be visibly annoyed and uncomfortable.

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I'm actually glad you posted this. I didn't realize things like this could be confusing for some guys.

I have another nitpick that isn't so much about "social acceptability" as much as technique:

Guy made a dumb move by trying to hit on all 3 of them at once. Pick a girl from the group, approach her and talk to her specifically.
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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 12:54 #330427

Ok so I watched the entire video straight through instead of just in pieces.

Damn dude, did you watch the whole thing? If you couldn't tell after watching that video that he was being VERY rude and they were VERY uninterested, I'm a little bit concerned about your ability to read social cues. I'm not sure if cold approach is a good idea if you can't tell that this was not cool.

I feel like you didn't watch the whole video or something. It's really bad.
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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 15:07 #330428

So I did watch the whole thing and the reason I asked is because I don't know what is what anymore. TBH, for me even cold approaching women seems really odd and I have had most of my success through dating apps or occasional approaches in bars and nightclubs. I noticed that the guy is Todd who used to be involved with RSD and has a dating channel where he seems to do some approaches which actually seem somewhat legit.

Back on the topic though, I am actually very lost on approaching girls during the daytime to where I barely do it. I only do it when they are next to me and I need to make small talk but I treat it as small talk than going in direct. I'd never call a girl adorable or cute.

Whenever girls tell me to go away, even at bars, I do not persist and I just tend to go away.

What's weird is that I believe the guy in the video actually sells dating courses and did so for RSD so now I wonder if this is a purposeful mess up by him to show to students he is human. I felt like this is one of those things where you have to actually try to be this bad.

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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 16:52 #330429

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Lol @ show students that hes human. I can almost guarentee that this guy gets pussy about never

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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 19:32 #330433

Back on the topic though, I am actually very lost on approaching girls during the daytime to where I barely do it. I only do it when they are next to me and I need to make small talk but I treat it as small talk than going in direct. I'd never call a girl adorable or cute.

Whenever girls tell me to go away, even at bars, I do not persist and I just tend to go away.


Sounds like you have the right idea (not bothering a girl that's clearly not interested). Have you done the AA program?
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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 19:35 #330434

I’m hoping that was a “what not to do” or “this is the worst cold approach result you could have” demonstration, because that was 50x worse than even the most horrendous approach I’ve ever done. If you don’t understand why it was bad, you either have autism (not making a joke, that’s a real possibility) and NEED to learn very basic social cues, or you’ve been brainwashed by PUAs that make you think endlessly persisting on an approach is the “right/alpha” thing to do.
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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 19:53 #330435

MarkVegas wrote: I’m hoping that was a “what not to do” or “this is the worst cold approach result you could have” demonstration, because that was 50x worse than even the most horrendous approach I’ve ever done. If you don’t understand why it was bad, you either have autism (not making a joke, that’s a real possibility) and NEED to learn very basic social cues, or you’ve been brainwashed by PUAs that make you think endlessly persisting on an approach is the “right/alpha” thing to do.


From what Calvin Klein Fine said, it sounds like it's mostly the latter.

Can you see that PUA content is actively hurting you? Not only does it not help, it's skewing your perception of how normal people act, because you're watching these weird dudes like RSD Todd do bizarre routines and act like total freaks. Over time that can start to fuck with your understanding of reality, if you're quarantined and haven't interacted with many humans in months.

It is really a bizarre video. I believe Todd has been doing this for like 10 fucking years, so the fact that he messes up this fucking bad is nothing short of impressive.

Honestly? Having done a shitload of cold approach myself, my read on this is that Todd is angry at the girls for rejecting him initially, so he continues to harass them so he feels like he "won" the interaction and was dominant. I am familiar with those feelings, although I've always been able to control them, because I'm a reasonable person.

Todd stayed until he made them leave, because doing cold approach all day long like he does can REALLY burn you out and make you hate women. He without a doubt could see none of them were interested. He was just pissed and throwing a temper tantrum.
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Did reddit freakout or was this socially unacceptable by the PUA? 21 Jul 2020 20:43 #330437

"Having done a shitload of cold approach myself, my read on this is that Todd is angry at the girls for rejecting him initially, so he continues to harass them so he feels like he "won" the interaction and was dominant. I am familiar with those feelings, although I've always been able to control them, because I'm a reasonable person."

I'm guessing you also have a lot of successful examples. I only approach in nightclubs but I remember feeling hatred and thinking "Why the fuck does he get a girl and not me?" over and over again. Ofc I controlled myself. But also when you're in a nightclub where you have pulled some girls already in the past then it's much easier :)

I can't get past the 35 second mark myself that part where he laughs randomly while spinning around lol he is fucking mad I can't watch this.

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