TOPIC: Goal: 30 Legit Approaches in 10 days

@Gravy congrats dude!

Changing the thread title since I've been counting girls who say they have a boyfriend etc rather than only the ones I ask for a number. Waffling whether hard rejections should count or not. For the moment, I'm counting them.

2 legit approaches today. Random small talk with a girl at the gym but doesn't count since I didn't ask for # or single.
First approach was a hard rejection. Although I think the 2nd one could've been too if I didn't keep talking to her.

I'm going to cut out the "how's it going?" if they're walking. And honestly, I don't care how their day is going. I care about if they're down and not crazy.

In other news I went from my last deadlift of 245 lbs feels hard to hitting 264 lbs today! Helped that my coach was telling me what to do. And the weights were all in kilos so I didn't exactly know how much I was lifting
Form broke down pretty bad. But I've got all of next month to build up the muscle memory.
www.coachseye.com/v/9d2c12342023432d833445fe9e91f732

day 2; 6/30

4 legit approaches, 1 #. Pretty cute girl I got the number from which is semi-live. Went on a date from I think a girl I approached Thursday. She's honestly kind of borderline for me, but her face is pretty cute so I think I'll go for it. But I'm not going to force myself, just see how I feel.

Spent an hour in the sun during the date and then another 30 minutes of intermittent sun approaching. Need to clean out my closet and have another date in a few. I don't know how I'll get all my calories in today. Might just have 2 (more) mega protein shakes.

day 3; 8/30

1st girl was a bit creeped out but at least I asked for her number rather than take it as a hard rejection. 2nd girl seemed chill but I was too awkward. Going to meditate (calm myself down) for 5 minutes before going out tomorrow.

day 4; 9/30
day 5; 11/30

Got a number yesterday but she might've been fat.

I definitely prefer hitting on stationary girls. Feels way more natural. My "line" recently with girls sitting on the grass / in a hammock: "that's a nice spot you've got there..."

1 girl walking today, said she was attractive, solid approach. Bf though.

Going to get as many done in my after work walk the next few days I can and then finish things off on the weekend. Should be doable.

day 6; 14/30

All 3 bfs. 1st two weren't interested at all. 3rd girl was chill. Ended up getting blisters since I decided to dress summer and only had no-show socks. Slapped some aloe on, I just won't try that again for a couple days. Maybe I'll put aloe on for prevention next time. I was only out about 30-45 minutes.

day 7; 15/30

Another bf.

day 8; 16/30

Hard rejection.

Keep up the good work mate!
What prevents you from approaching more than 1-2 girls per day?
Time?

Mission COMPLETE.

Approached 14 girls today.
2 numbers, 12 bfs

I was doing ~Hey you're cute, do you have a boyfriend or anything / are you single, so definitely biasing that reaction. Call it hard screening while physical distancing

Now I just have to finish eating my rice. I just kicked up to 3500 calories per day this weekend. Going to get HUGE!

You absolute fucking savage. Thats insane man, well done.

@Sprezza, yo I meant to reply to you yday guess I got too distracted. I'd say less time than priority. It also doesn't help that with gyms closed and office closed, the only reason I go outside most days is for my daily walk. Which is to get the approach done but also to get some sun. Whereas when I was in California I'd have a ton of opportunities naturally built in to my day: 1) way to work, 2) way to gym, 3) gym back to work, 4) work to home; sometimes 5) way to the beach/surfing; 6) back from surfing.

The other big deal though is lack of population. Summer time (+ covid) at a college town (100k) not super ideal. There were a few stores I went to yesterday that did not have any cute girls.

By priority, I mean that if it was my #1 goal like the summer I did the AA program, then sure where there's a will there's a way: if I set a goal of 10 approaches per day, I'd get it done somehow. But it's #3 or #4 on my priority list (which should really be just 2 things, I'm spreading myself thin).

@Spazdig: cheers man!

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Did my 1 approach today, married. I was going to keep increasing the target 10 approaches per set of 10 days but I've got a work deadline due in two weeks - it's going to be insane if I get that done in time. And again this isn't a priority for me now. Going to focus on work + slamming calories. My trainer has me programmed to squat 180 lbs on Saturday - that's 30 lbs heavier than my current squat PR! Let's get it

EDIT: Oh and also, all my approaches on Sunday were while wearing a mask. Still not doing handshakes either. Could've been a reason I didn't get more #s. On that point, I try to do the approaches like 8-10 feet away, but kinda annoyingly some girls walk up pretty close. But my roommate is still alive so presumably I haven't caught it yet.