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Today I approached a girl who was going roller blading. So I commented on that. She was pretty dang cute. Bad teeth tho. Anyway, no number. Said she was interested in girls. I feel like I could've said hit me up if you're ever feeling bi-curious *wink* Maybe I'll do that next time. This was the second time in a row I approached a lesbian. They both seemed pretty into the approach. I'll get lucky at some point.
This girl was sitting outside the library. She had her back to me the way I was coming from and I was at first worried she was too young because her arms were pencil thin but she was definitely 30s based on her face. Had a nice little chat. Turned out she was married.
Immediately after I ran into my stripper friend. She's actually getting better at makeup, looking a bit less like a train wreck than usual. Still psycho tho, not touching that.
There were a ton of girls in groups I saw after that. Kinda wish I approached some of the pairs of girls while I was waiting for my date to show up. It usually seems pointless but DANG some of those girls were mad cute.
Went out around 8pm. Tons of girls in pairs. Didn't approach any of them although definitely cute girls. Complimented a girl outside Chipotle. She was wearing a mask which I try to avoid. She gave a somewhat positive reaction but I was already doing an instant bail. Honestly should've stuck in there (or just asked for the #. I keep forgetting that's an option).
Felt pretty off today. There's a storm coming so I should really try to get this done tomorrow. I'm thinking of switching things up and taking my daily walk/cruise around noon. Goal is to get 15 done tomorrow since it's my day off.
Last year around the Same time of the year my absolute record was 7 in one Day. There was this girl Who looked at me weird when i talked to her.
She then saw me 2 more times at different places taking to other girls and she looked at me even weirder. It was good exposure and it became fun.
A few weeks later i stayed at one place and there was this sexy woman Who was in the Same house as me and didn't dare to make a move.
I was so turned on and frustrated. So i left the house and talked to girls. I came back and she was there again. So i left the house again and talked to more girls and then came back. And she was still there. So i again went out and talked to more girls.
I talked to 20 girls this day. This was my brezktthrough.
The following days i kept a maintenance of 10 girls a day to make it permanent rather than just a one time event.
It worked out.
Then later it was just easy and fun taking to girls. So much fun.
These were holidays and in one week i talked to the Same girl three times because each time i thought damn she's cute and forgot about her face, and the third time doubt i already talked to her, did it anyway.
I talk to group of girls too.
If you want to talk to a girl in a group, say hi/excuse me, and completely ignore the rest of the girls until you find out wether or not she's single, or unless they want to talk too.
I have an idea for you. Watch porn on the computer for 10mn and don't touch yourself, just Watch. Then go out.
Come back home, do the Same for 10-15mn and go out again.
And one more time.
Matter of fact, instead of going out once a day to talk to girls you go 2 or 3 times. I often did this because it was enough exposure for me 1-2 hours outside the house trying to talk to girls.
So i had to trick myself to get more done and it was about going out more times in the day.
Ya definitely the more time you throw into it the more girls you'll end up talking to. The most I've done was hitting on 42 girls in one day. That was in Copenhagen on vacation. Think I still did a few hours work that day but approaching was the main thing on my agenda.
I actually had the same idea of going outside multiple times to approach today. I don't doubt it would've helped. Instead I procrastinated approaching by finishing assembling the bench/squat rack I bought, working out, cleaning my room...
Finally went outside around 6:30pm. I forced myself to do it by ordering chipotle so I had to go outside. Talked to 4 girls. First one I wasn't interested in so I instantly bailed. The last one was super cute but her group was just coming out of the restaurant so I instant bailed. Should've asked for her # but I think the guy was her bf.
Did get 1# but she was kinda fat so not hitting her up. The other girl had a bf.
There were two girls I walked by I definitely could've hit on but passed for no reason.
As usual, I bet I'll hit pedal to the metal in the 11th hour. Not too concerned yet. It's supposed to storm next week so that'll make things interesting.
Next round of 10 days I'll switch to a straight up approach count. I like this method of forcing me to ask for their number (or ask if they're single) since I hadn't been pushing interactions for a while, but I'd say I'm warmed back up now.
There were SO many girls out today that I passed on or didn't stop / didn't ask for their number. I think I talked to 5+ girls, 2 of whom counted. Got 1 live number. She has a pretty face but kinda borderline weight tbh.
5 more tomorrow!
Pushups yesterday I hit 28. I've lost a TON of strength! I also think I wasn't going as low before as now.
Hit 245 lbs deadlift again today but it was tough!
3/4 approaches counted during round 1 around noon. 2/2 approaches later on. Got 3 numbers today. 2 are semi-live. # from yesterday is still alive.
Approaching the very first girl I saw helped massively. The other thing that helped massively is I didn't chase girls or worry about walking fast enough to intercept a girl. I just walked at my pace and didn't worry about girls in the distance. Very positive mindset today. Using hairs[ray the past two days to give my hair wind resistance was also super useful.
The only approach I didn't count was a girl who mumbled in response at first which I didn't hear and then she said she was busy. I should've called her cute, said I was busy too, let's get a drink later. Next time. Apparently it's finals week so maybe that's why some girls were in a rush this week.
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