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Dan from London, England here. Don't post here but I do often read this forum.
For those of you that go out at night and pull. Do you scan around looking for eye contact from dtf girls (as one of my friends does really well) or do you prefer to play the numbers game and approach every cute girl and see if they are dtf. (numbers game) I've read chris' blog where he says Scotty was a master of eye contact and looking for eye contact prevents "spam approaching". Which makes sense but at the same time GLL says hit on 10 to 15 girls a night.... Which is kinda spam approaching if you're in a night club I've pulled from both getting hot eye contact before approaching. And also without the girl even seeing me and approaching. Trying to figure out best tactics for when I go out solo at night tbh and see other guys tactics. What I should focus on when I'm out basically. P. S my looks are pretty maxed out. I'm defo a good looking loser. 28years old. Total lays lifetime around 25 lays. Should be triple that but I've been a depressed pussy and don't go out enough. Making 3 nights a week a habit now. Solo and with wings. London, UK
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Where you going out?
I used to live in Angel so would go to Shoreditch or Camden every week Regards approaching, when I was doing daytime approaches I was trying pretty much any sort of approach to make numbers but I had this concept called 'mandatory approaches' which were either insanely hot girls you couldn't skip or ones that were checking you out. In your mind you are obligated to go say hi or its rude. Motivational really. Social loser til 19
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If you get solid eye contact, great. If you don't, approach anyway.
Either way, you don't want to be waiting around for 10+ minutes hoping some girl looks at you. Eye contact is a great indicator at night, but it's not necessary. Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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Hey man. I actually was just in Angel for a date night with my fuck buddy (from tinder). I live in Kings Cross. Usually I go out in piccadilly, vauxhall or brixton. Looking to make Camden a regular spot for weekends but I prefer big clubs for night game as there are just way more girls. Shoreditch is decent but the main place I go is Cargo. What were the main clubs/bars you go to in Camden and Shoreditch. Gabeto in Camden is decent. London, UK
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Yeah I went out Friday night I pretty much did this. Looked for eye contact and even if I didn't I approached. Had a pretty decent night. Made out with a Latina but wasn't dtf. So moved on. Found a girl with a guy eye fucking me so I approached and she was on it but couldn't get away from the guy. Frustrating I didn't pull but opportunities were there.
So you're right. I'll walk around venue slow eye fucking chicks but even if I don't get. I approach anyway and see what's up. London, UK
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So I've not been home in like 2 years
In aussie atm Camden I went to Proud when it was open because my flatmate was a promoter for it. He also promoted for XOYO in Shoreditch which was ok and full of uni girls usually. Shoreditch is great if you wanna try bars over clubs. I'm a bit of a degenerate tbh so my preferred nights where Fabric, Egg and Phonox in Brixton. I wouldnt really recommend looking to pull in those venues lol Social loser til 19
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Good to see some other UK guys on the forum who know London well.
I've got to be honest I find London a very intimidating place to go out at night. > Insanely busy everywhere > Small, packed and expensive nightclubs with more men than women > Every decent bar and club is full of girls with huge egos who think they're gods gift and will reject you savagely Back on topic - I personally just go in anyway. Most women who look at me show me indicators of DISinterest (IODs) i.e. when they look at me for a split second then immediately look to the side or away. So for me I'm not going to wait for an IOI which will never come. |
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While I don't think you should wait for IOIs to approach, the overall frequency of IOIs tells you a lot about how girls perceive you in general. If like me you get none (in Europe/UK) then you can't be surprised when you get rejected more often and have less success than if you did get IOIs. You can choose then to just approach anyway, become better looking or move somewhere else. Common sense really.
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Once you go out in London alot. Its not intimidating at all. I've been going out alot more recently and when I walk into a venue I'm calm as if I'm walking into the gym lol. My wings are way more excited and flustered. It's good. I don't drink unless I have a dtf girl with me. Went out last night in piccadilly actually. Alot of hot girls in the club. I approached with no eye contact on this bulgarian chick. We danced all night. Made out hard. Her Spanish friend was looking to get dicked up and she gave me the green light for her friend which was cool. I actually think the Spanish girl fancied me as well as she said I'm her type. I did the gll thing and just complimented her loads. Funny thing is, is that all the guys that hit on the Spanish girl over the course of the night were ugly below average guys, all it would of took was a above average guy to hit on her and she would of been dtf. Anyway. Couldn't pull the Bulgarian as the Spanish friend didn't get any decent guy (she was hot and she was pissed off) goes to show. Planning to meet this bulgarian and bang her this weekend. Let's see. Night time numbers flake alot though. Are you London based? London, UK
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Yeah I'm not going to wait for iois. Went out last night and approached all girls without iois. Although I did have a fair amount of girls checking me out. My looks are fine. Just need to play the numbers and talk to more girls tbh. Building the habit of 3nights a week minimum now! London, UK
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Yep I live down near Brixton. I've got 50 lays but 47 of those came from online, the other 3 either social circle or cold approach. I just hate going out - I feel like girls in the club all resent me being there. They look at me like I just raped their cat or something. I probably should move to another country because I have a very unique look that would probably go down better in Asia as opposed to the west, but obviously I'm locked in a job here with a mortgage and it's just not practical or sensible to leave. |
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