TOPIC: SPAM APPROACH OR LOOK FOR EYE CONTACT GAME

Radical wrote: Where you going out?

I used to live in Angel so would go to Shoreditch or Camden every week

Regards approaching, when I was doing daytime approaches I was trying pretty much any sort of approach to make numbers but I had this concept called 'mandatory approaches' which were either insanely hot girls you couldn't skip or ones that were checking you out. In your mind you are obligated to go say hi or its rude. Motivational really.

Glasburgh wrote: Good to see some other UK guys on the forum who know London well.

I've got to be honest I find London a very intimidating place to go out at night.
> Insanely busy everywhere
> Small, packed and expensive nightclubs with more men than women
> Every decent bar and club is full of girls with huge egos who think they're gods gift and will reject you savagely

Back on topic - I personally just go in anyway. Most women who look at me show me indicators of DISinterest (IODs) i.e. when they look at me for a split second then immediately look to the side or away. So for me I'm not going to wait for an IOI which will never come.

Thebastard wrote: While I don't think you should wait for IOIs to approach, the overall frequency of IOIs tells you a lot about how girls perceive you in general. If like me you get none (in Europe/UK) then you can't be surprised when you get rejected more often and have less success than if you did get IOIs. You can choose then to just approach anyway, become better looking or move somewhere else. Common sense really.

danstudmuffin wrote:

Glasburgh wrote: Good to see some other UK guys on the forum who know London well.

I've got to be honest I find London a very intimidating place to go out at night.
> Insanely busy everywhere
> Small, packed and expensive nightclubs with more men than women
> Every decent bar and club is full of girls with huge egos who think they're gods gift and will reject you savagely

Back on topic - I personally just go in anyway. Most women who look at me show me indicators of DISinterest (IODs) i.e. when they look at me for a split second then immediately look to the side or away. So for me I'm not going to wait for an IOI which will never come.

Once you go out in London alot. Its not intimidating at all. I've been going out alot more recently and when I walk into a venue I'm calm as if I'm walking into the gym lol. My wings are way more excited and flustered. It's good. I don't drink unless I have a dtf girl with me.

Went out last night in piccadilly actually. Alot of hot girls in the club. I approached with no eye contact on this bulgarian chick. We danced all night. Made out hard.

Her Spanish friend was looking to get dicked up and she gave me the green light for her friend which was cool. I actually think the Spanish girl fancied me as well as she said I'm her type. I did the gll thing and just complimented her loads. Funny thing is, is that all the guys that hit on the Spanish girl over the course of the night were ugly below average guys, all it would of took was a above average guy to hit on her and she would of been dtf.

Anyway. Couldn't pull the Bulgarian as the Spanish friend didn't get any decent guy (she was hot and she was pissed off) goes to show. Planning to meet this bulgarian and bang her this weekend. Let's see. Night time numbers flake alot though.

Are you London based?

Glasburgh wrote:

danstudmuffin wrote:

Glasburgh wrote: I probably should move to another country because I have a very unique look that would probably go down better in Asia as opposed to the west, but obviously I'm locked in a job here with a mortgage and it's just not practical or sensible to leave.

Worked for me. Didn't move to Asia but moved abroad all the same. Find a way to become location independent, then rent out your apartment.