This is an opinion website that offers information of a general nature and none of the opinions should be construed as advice. Nothing contained within the site is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to Good Looking Loser. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals.
Affiliate Disclosure: At absolutely no expense to you, if you make a purchase, we may receive commissions from some links on this website. That is how our community supports itself. I don't recommend anything that I have not used personally or believe in. Thanks!
To add on to what you said Whiteknightrises, you are totally onpoint about weekdays. As a matter of fact, my wingman who is not that great looking has had most of his luck pulling girls back to the crib during those times. The bar local to my area used to be good for that in the summer on Thursdays but lately it has been a shithow. I actually went out with my wingman and found that the same bar was a shitshow sausagefest as soon as summer ended, this was only a couple weeks ago.
From what they say, certain bars are good at certain times of the year. The weekday adage holds true although the weekday I have gone out in has been Thursdays lately. My thoughts are if I can hold myself to midnight at some spots, it can prove to be fruitful.
The topic has been locked.
Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year?
15 Oct 2019 13:16 #322536
And regardless, if you DON'T have social skills, the only way to GET them is to hit on more girls. The fastest way to learn how to talk to girls is by doing it. Discussing theory only slows you down. You'll naturally get proficient at talking to women, that's the whole secret.
VERY VERY few guys are so socially retarded that they can't just learn how to talk like a normal person without a PUA teaching them. Practice, practice, practice.
Second this, I literally went from not being able to even talk to girls, to being incredibly awkward, to talking like a normal human being with girls just by talking to more girls.
It took time and A LOT of fuck ups for sure but it was well worth it.
Don't look for a magic spell, just try your best to have a normal interaction like you would with any other human and eventually you'll get there.
Also, pay attention to how normal people interact with each other if you have no clue how to go about it, I used to do that all the time and then try to mimick some of it.
I second that. Crappy interactions at first (even robotic since I was following a script) Now, even though I'm not aproaching as much, my conversations are waaay better.
Plus, as Chris has said, it takes two to be smooth. If a girl is creeped out, no amount of conversational skills will help. Yu better eject and hit another girl.
Finally those evolution guys are what's wrong with pua. Instead of reaching out to mods and finding out if they can provide value to the readers, they go "FUSRODAH" and look silly. They clearly need better copywriters for their copy, but they also need to read How to win friends and influence people.
30 years old
33 lays more than your mom (1 pre GLL)
whiteknightrises wrote: "I live in a city (NYC) that is a prime spot for nightlife, arguably the best in the US, and it seems like most bars here are straight sausagefests, couples out together, or girls out in a very large groups mixed with guys and girls."
You are going to the wrong places
Random bars in the LES (or anywhere) in NY where anyone can get in will be like that.
There are places in the city where you go in, the average girl will be an "8" or "9" and ratio will be more female than male (or ~equal). Will require table ($$) and/or connections
Also, non-weekend nights are probably better because weekends = people coming in from upstate NY/NJ/CT ("bridge and tunnel") who can fuck things up (e.g. places get stupid crowded, impossible "logistics" cuz it's a huge group and by chance the bitch you're probably talking to is designated driver, etc).
"girls out in a very large groups mixed with guys and girls."
After living abroad in various countries, this is definitely annoying about the US.
Idk how many bitches I've fucked this year, definitely not a lot, but of the ~100+ girls I've fucked in my life vast majority from clubs
You have to be a shark if you want to get laid off cold approach "nightgame"
If you decide to do an online course on the above ^ for a price, I'll buy it.
You could have a side business if you took everything you know about getting laid w/ 8+ girls in the NYC nightlife and turned it into a combination e-book and video guide.
You wouldn't even have to show your face. Just a voice over would suffice.
Temporarily unavailable as I need to focus on other areas of my life. Only focusing on no more than two goals at once. Best of luck to you guys.
The GoodLookingLoser.com forum offers visitors the ability to exchange information and thoughts. Nothing contained within GoodLookingLoser.com forum is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to GoodLookingLoser.com or of Goodlookingloser.com itself. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals. Visitors are to make their own independent inquiries before acting on any information contained within the website forum.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.