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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 14 Oct 2019 21:23 #322510

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I just looked up [name of PUA company redacted by mods] and found his site. Buddy basically ripped off RSDDerek’s 10 Commandments of Game, and repackaged it as his own "10 Commandments of Picking Up Women."

He even stole his comic book format lmao. This man’s trying to get sued.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 14 Oct 2019 22:08 #322515

Bros, you just hating. You gotta work on your verbal game™ and show her all your neat conversation tricks so she falls in love with you!!!!!!

The other day I negged™ a bitch by telling her she was a fat whore, and she legit jumped on my dick 5 minutes later. It actually would have been 1 minute but I spent 4 minutes giving her a few more negs™ so the dumb bitch knows her place.

You see, I like to screen in girls who like being manipulated by game™; I'm not really interested in girls who just like having a normal conversation like a human being. I prefer the push-pull™, 3D-chess style way of conversing, where we treat each other like the enemy, and it's a battle of wits and deception and trying to fuck each other over. I love conquering a woman, and especially love the psychopathic feeling of knowing I tricked her into getting into bed with me.

I think women are just pawns to be used - hypnotise/manipulate them into sleeping with you, and then go off and find the next target™ to game™.

I'm definitely NOT a weird cunt who can't talk to women like normal human beings.

/s
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 14 Oct 2019 23:24 #322517

KillTheInnerLoser wrote: Bros, you just hating. You gotta work on your verbal game™ and show her all your neat conversation tricks so she falls in love with you!!!!!!

The other day I negged™ a bitch by telling her she was a fat whore, and she legit jumped on my dick 5 minutes later. It actually would have been 1 minute but I spent 4 minutes giving her a few more negs™ so the dumb bitch knows her place.

You see, I like to screen in girls who like being manipulated by game™; I'm not really interested in girls who just like having a normal conversation like a human being. I prefer the push-pull™, 3D-chess style way of conversing, where we treat each other like the enemy, and it's a battle of wits and deception and trying to fuck each other over. I love conquering a woman, and especially love the psychopathic feeling of knowing I tricked her into getting into bed with me.

I think women are just pawns to be used - hypnotise/manipulate them into sleeping with you, and then go off and find the next target™ to game™.

I'm definitely NOT a weird cunt who can't talk to women like normal human beings.

/s


My whole thing is talking to women in manner thats normal. I against manipulation. "game" is not the same is its back in 2006 where dudes are using pua routines and negs, Nlp and hypnosis lol. By normal I mean a fun charismatic guy. simply "talking to women" is not good social skills bro. You can actually SUCK at it believe it or not. Talking to women EFFECTIVELY is not just doing basic guy shit and asking a bunch of boring interview mode shit, you need to be memorable. You got guys on here approach hundred of chicks without a lay, which tells you its more than just there looks that is the problem.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 14 Oct 2019 23:29 #322518

Ok
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 14 Oct 2019 23:33 #322519

KillTheInnerLoser wrote: Ok


a highly enlightening counter argument.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 14 Oct 2019 23:43 #322521

Alpha Chad is from the same PUA company.

Go away guys. No one wants you here.

Do your marketing on another website.

We don't need you. Straight up. This is not a theory forum, this is an action forum.




This next part is not for these two dweebs (I have no interest in talking to them), it's for the guys anonymously lurking the forum who are wondering what the answer to this issue is:

"You got guys doing 100's of approaches and not getting laid".

First of all no.

Some guys, yeah. But most guys do about 1/100 in year one, 1/66 in year two, and 1/33 in year three (because they're steadily improving their looks, style, and killer instinct). The ones who do hundreds without getting laid? 99.9% of the time they don't look good.

There is ONE exception I can think of, and he's got a variety of things that are interfering with his results. Otherwise, the guys that look good get laid. You think boring interview mode questions don't work, but that's just straight up wrong.

You just need average social skills. Just the ability to hold a conversation without spilling your spaghetti all over the floor.
And regardless, if you DON'T have social skills, the only way to GET them is to hit on more girls. The fastest way to learn how to talk to girls is by doing it. Discussing theory only slows you down. You'll naturally get proficient at talking to women, that's the whole secret.

VERY VERY few guys are so socially retarded that they can't just learn how to talk like a normal person without a PUA teaching them. Practice, practice, practice.

Even if you're borderline retarded, if you have great style and 10% bodyfat you WILL get laid.

I knew this guy, Trin, in high school who was literally autistic and when you talked to him he sounded like a child. But he was buff as fuck so he'd just dance with girls and take them to a room without talking much.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 15 Oct 2019 00:06 #322522

Bad Idea Bear wrote:

And regardless, if you DON'T have social skills, the only way to GET them is to hit on more girls. The fastest way to learn how to talk to girls is by doing it. Discussing theory only slows you down. You'll naturally get proficient at talking to women, that's the whole secret.

VERY VERY few guys are so socially retarded that they can't just learn how to talk like a normal person without a PUA teaching them. Practice, practice, practice.


Second this, I literally went from not being able to even talk to girls, to being incredibly awkward, to talking like a normal human being with girls just by talking to more girls.

It took time and A LOT of fuck ups for sure but it was well worth it.

Don't look for a magic spell, just try your best to have a normal interaction like you would with any other human and eventually you'll get there.

Also, pay attention to how normal people interact with each other if you have no clue how to go about it, I used to do that all the time and then try to mimick some of it.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 15 Oct 2019 02:26 #322524

@whiteknightrises

Yeah I got the feeling I was doing it wrong, whenever I have gone out to LES bars it has been a sausagefest on Saturday nights. The story is usually along the lines of large groups going out together and being clear that they want to stick with themselves, aggressive dudes looking for fights, and women being extremely cold and more there for their "friends".

I think you might be referencing some of the spots in Meatpacking where you need to be with a girl in order to get in or else you have to pay for a table, SOHO has spots like that as well. Unfortunately the issue is right now I am not making that kind of money, it is a miracle I am able to live in Manhattan and a good spot of town at that TBH.

Definitely feel you on the Bridge and Tunnel thing, from what my friends who are locals say, these are actually the people who are the hungriest for trying to be cool, taking 500+ selfies, and will turn any place into a high school popularity contest fast. Funny thing is I was at a bar this past weekend and these two Italian chicks gave me strong IOIs, even standing with their ass right next to me as I was sitting at a bar and there were a lot of other empty spots. I was just too much of a pussy to approach at that time because I was more interested in getting wasted.

One thing I have heard you can do is go to some places before a certain time of the night when it gets too packed and then stay there as they start to be packed. Anyways I will be PMing you for advice soon about this city's nightlife because LES, as hyped as it may be, is not doing it for me.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 15 Oct 2019 02:30 #322525

To add on to what you said Whiteknightrises, you are totally onpoint about weekdays. As a matter of fact, my wingman who is not that great looking has had most of his luck pulling girls back to the crib during those times. The bar local to my area used to be good for that in the summer on Thursdays but lately it has been a shithow. I actually went out with my wingman and found that the same bar was a shitshow sausagefest as soon as summer ended, this was only a couple weeks ago.

From what they say, certain bars are good at certain times of the year. The weekday adage holds true although the weekday I have gone out in has been Thursdays lately. My thoughts are if I can hold myself to midnight at some spots, it can prove to be fruitful.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 15 Oct 2019 13:16 #322536

thebull wrote:

Bad Idea Bear wrote:

And regardless, if you DON'T have social skills, the only way to GET them is to hit on more girls. The fastest way to learn how to talk to girls is by doing it. Discussing theory only slows you down. You'll naturally get proficient at talking to women, that's the whole secret.

VERY VERY few guys are so socially retarded that they can't just learn how to talk like a normal person without a PUA teaching them. Practice, practice, practice.


Second this, I literally went from not being able to even talk to girls, to being incredibly awkward, to talking like a normal human being with girls just by talking to more girls.

It took time and A LOT of fuck ups for sure but it was well worth it.

Don't look for a magic spell, just try your best to have a normal interaction like you would with any other human and eventually you'll get there.

Also, pay attention to how normal people interact with each other if you have no clue how to go about it, I used to do that all the time and then try to mimick some of it.


I second that. Crappy interactions at first (even robotic since I was following a script) Now, even though I'm not aproaching as much, my conversations are waaay better.

Plus, as Chris has said, it takes two to be smooth. If a girl is creeped out, no amount of conversational skills will help. Yu better eject and hit another girl.

Finally those evolution guys are what's wrong with pua. Instead of reaching out to mods and finding out if they can provide value to the readers, they go "FUSRODAH" and look silly. They clearly need better copywriters for their copy, but they also need to read How to win friends and influence people.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 15 Oct 2019 14:47 #322540

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whiteknightrises wrote: "I live in a city (NYC) that is a prime spot for nightlife, arguably the best in the US, and it seems like most bars here are straight sausagefests, couples out together, or girls out in a very large groups mixed with guys and girls."

You are going to the wrong places

Random bars in the LES (or anywhere) in NY where anyone can get in will be like that.

There are places in the city where you go in, the average girl will be an "8" or "9" and ratio will be more female than male (or ~equal). Will require table ($$) and/or connections

Also, non-weekend nights are probably better because weekends = people coming in from upstate NY/NJ/CT ("bridge and tunnel") who can fuck things up (e.g. places get stupid crowded, impossible "logistics" cuz it's a huge group and by chance the bitch you're probably talking to is designated driver, etc).

"girls out in a very large groups mixed with guys and girls."
After living abroad in various countries, this is definitely annoying about the US.

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Idk how many bitches I've fucked this year, definitely not a lot, but of the ~100+ girls I've fucked in my life vast majority from clubs

You have to be a shark if you want to get laid off cold approach "nightgame"


If you decide to do an online course on the above ^ for a price, I'll buy it.

You could have a side business if you took everything you know about getting laid w/ 8+ girls in the NYC nightlife and turned it into a combination e-book and video guide.

You wouldn't even have to show your face. Just a voice over would suffice.
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