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All of my lays (5 total all-time) have come straight from online dating and I wonder if that is the new normal now. I live in a city (NYC) that is a prime spot for nightlife, arguably the best in the US, and it seems like most bars here are straight sausagefests, couples out together, or girls out in a very large groups mixed with guys and girls.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year?
10 Oct 2019 11:36 #322330
5 cold (4 daygame, 1 night)
1 from social circle (I think I had sex with her this year. If not, it would have been near the end of 2018)
By the way, are you asking this question in order to come up with some excuse? I feel like you're asking because night game doesn't work for you and are looking for a way out. If night game is a sausage fest, either change location or approach during the day or start online dating.
30 years old
33 lays more than your mom (1 pre GLL)
I think it's been 6 or 7 from online this year. No daytime or bar stuff. I don't know exactly, I've been so laser focused on business and I'm in a long term open relationship anyway. I gotta say, online is way easier.
However, if I still cared a lot about getting laid, I would absolutely be hitting on 20+ girls a week from daytime approach, not bars or clubs.
Bars and clubs are great for one night stands, which I don't really like anymore. It seems like a lot of work just to sleep with a girl one time. Most girls that come home with you from a bar won't sleep with you again. To them it almost automatically is a one night stand, no matter how much they like you.
I gotta say though: you're continuing to beat your head against the wall. I guess I can't stop you from doing that, so if you wanna keep doing night game before you've got your looks and style sorted out, here's what you have to do:
The Going Out Alone At Night Program.
It's on GLL. Your problem is approach anxiety, plain and simple. If you're serious about fixing your approach anxiety, do the program.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
Lol oh no. That's all time. I missed that part of this post.
Man 30-40 girls in one year just from online dating is insane. I've been working on getting better pictures. I usually take around 20 photos every Monday when I'm doing something, and I find that getting real quality pictures is actually pretty difficult.
Thus far, I've gotten maybe 1-2 pictures that are decent from probably 200 photos. It takes a fuck load of work. Definitely something to aspire too, that's for sure.
50 lifetime is fucking awesome. Hitting on chicks out in public (not online) always felt more real to me, but at some point online dating just became so streamlined and efficient I focused all my attention on it. Maybe that's lazy, but it's hard to care when you're having bdsm 3somes and shit.
Yeah,photos are key. Just take a TONNE of photos, man. I had a huge head start by being a photographer (and the only way I got good at that was by doing a photo-a-day project for a year, which gave me a tonne of practice).
2 decent photos out of 200 photos is normal. The trick really is to take hundreds of photos (just keep spamming the shutter button) and some of them will "accidentally" turn out awesome.
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