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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 11:28 #322328

Online dating?

Day game?

Night game? (if so I'd love to read the report)

All of my lays (5 total all-time) have come straight from online dating and I wonder if that is the new normal now. I live in a city (NYC) that is a prime spot for nightlife, arguably the best in the US, and it seems like most bars here are straight sausagefests, couples out together, or girls out in a very large groups mixed with guys and girls.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 11:36 #322330

99.9999% Tinder (don't know exact number, maybe 30? 40?)
1 from cold approach
A few from my girlfriend ntroducing me to other girls and having 3somes
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 13:46 #322335

5 cold (4 daygame, 1 night)
1 tinder
1 from social circle (I think I had sex with her this year. If not, it would have been near the end of 2018)

By the way, are you asking this question in order to come up with some excuse? I feel like you're asking because night game doesn't work for you and are looking for a way out. If night game is a sausage fest, either change location or approach during the day or start online dating.
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33 lays more than your mom (1 pre GLL)
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 13:59 #322337

I think it's been 6 or 7 from online this year. No daytime or bar stuff. I don't know exactly, I've been so laser focused on business and I'm in a long term open relationship anyway. I gotta say, online is way easier.

However, if I still cared a lot about getting laid, I would absolutely be hitting on 20+ girls a week from daytime approach, not bars or clubs.

Bars and clubs are great for one night stands, which I don't really like anymore. It seems like a lot of work just to sleep with a girl one time. Most girls that come home with you from a bar won't sleep with you again. To them it almost automatically is a one night stand, no matter how much they like you.

I gotta say though: you're continuing to beat your head against the wall. I guess I can't stop you from doing that, so if you wanna keep doing night game before you've got your looks and style sorted out, here's what you have to do:

The Going Out Alone At Night Program.

It's on GLL. Your problem is approach anxiety, plain and simple. If you're serious about fixing your approach anxiety, do the program.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!

So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 15:40 #322338

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6 online, 2 from aproaching (one at festival, one at convention).
Feeding pussy to my octopussy.
3 lays on 2018
12 lays on 2019 (4 being non-legit)

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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 16:49 #322340

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50 from Day-Time
21 (?) from Online
12 from Bars and Clubs
15 or so from Parties/Social Circle

Although I'm not even close to where I want to be in terms of success with women, I'd say the best bet is to utilize all channels.

Work on your online dating profile. Hit on 1-2 girls per day. Go out 2-3 times per week.

In 2020, I plan on going hard again because at that point I should be completely self-employed through both of my blogs. Will probably make it my goal to hit 50 in one year.

This is an interesting thread, because it seems like each guy kind of has their own niche. Andy by far is the king of online dating, and then BIB and I are more Day-Time.

Personally, I love going out at night. It's a lot of fun, but the key is to have a cool wing to chill with. If you don't have a wing, it fucking sucks.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 18:00 #322342

6 Nightime
11 Social Circle (University)
Lays: 20
Goal: 25 Lays
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 19:41 #322345

Rousseau - you banged 50 girls from daytime approaches *this year*?
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 20:02 #322346

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Lol oh no. That's all time. I missed that part of this post.

Man 30-40 girls in one year just from online dating is insane. I've been working on getting better pictures. I usually take around 20 photos every Monday when I'm doing something, and I find that getting real quality pictures is actually pretty difficult.

Thus far, I've gotten maybe 1-2 pictures that are decent from probably 200 photos. It takes a fuck load of work. Definitely something to aspire too, that's for sure.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 21:26 #322349

50 lifetime is fucking awesome. Hitting on chicks out in public (not online) always felt more real to me, but at some point online dating just became so streamlined and efficient I focused all my attention on it. Maybe that's lazy, but it's hard to care when you're having bdsm 3somes and shit.

Yeah,photos are key. Just take a TONNE of photos, man. I had a huge head start by being a photographer (and the only way I got good at that was by doing a photo-a-day project for a year, which gave me a tonne of practice).

2 decent photos out of 200 photos is normal. The trick really is to take hundreds of photos (just keep spamming the shutter button) and some of them will "accidentally" turn out awesome.

My most recent photoshoot for a client, we came away with 4 good photos. I took 465 photos. Just like getting laid, photography is a numbers game.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 10 Oct 2019 21:35 #322350

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Great, thanks for the advice. I guess I just have to continue working at it. Cheers brotha.
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Poll: Where have most of your lays come from this year? 11 Oct 2019 06:17 #322367

The bar this year my one lay which I will write up at some point kinda depressing but oh well.

Rousseau what else do you want to do with girls? 50 daytime is nice. Kinda interesting only 12 from bars. But bars are rough.

Bad Idea bear so you think daytime is more fulfilling than nighttime? I agree with you there.
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