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Hey guys, so I met this chick on Bumble and we were having a good time. She was an 8/10, but I drunk called her on Saturday night after the club. Can't remember what I said but I was being really rude/arrogant which I have an issue with when I get too drunk.
Anyways - She got angry and hung up (Her friends were there with her listening in). Then the next day I texted her and she said she's "doesn't want to talk to me, enjoy my weekend". I said sounds good
How can I rebound from this? I want to text but I don't want to come across as weak with an apology or something like that..
Any way to fix it without looking weak when a girl's mad at you like this? I think her friends probably told her I'm an asshole too as they were listening to the call.
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Just go out and talk to more girls.
If you were a real asshole to her, I'd message her a few days later, say that youre a dick when drunk and ask her out. Looking for magical words to avoid taking responsibility is a, surefire way to become a lousy human
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Thanks man. Here's my reply message I was considering:
Hey, feel bad about how I treated you. Friend's birthday that night and drank too much, more than I usually ever do.
Just know that's genuinely not my personality as you seem like a massive sweetheart of a girl. I wouldn't ever treat you like that, so if your'e open to giving it another shot than I'll show you as I had a good feeling about you and still do.
If you're down, we'll talk. If not you can just ignore this. Your choice either way beautiful for the record I liked that pun you made haha
(I told her that a pun she made was lame when I was drunk hence the last part)
But I'll message her a few days later and say what you said yeah.
"I was drunk" is no excuse. If you can't behave yourself while drunk, then don't drink. You admit "which I have an issue with when I get too drunk" - this is telling you something. Cut down on the drinking if you can't control yourself.
Move on and talk to other girls - she literally said she doesn't want to talk to you. The solution to almost every problem is: go talk to more girls. If you had another fuckbuddy or two, would you be all that bothered about this girl? Probably not. Just chalk this situation up to "at least I've learned something" and move on.
You'll make a million mistakes while trying to get laid/improve yourself. That's perfectly fine - we've all done cringeworthy things a million times over. The trick is to learn when to just let sleeping dogs lie and move on to the next girl.
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Dude, just send her your apologies, it wont get you laid but it will make you a better human being
I agree w/ an addendum: send her a sincere apology without the intention of doing damage control, secretly fantasizing about picking up where you left off.
In other words, apologize if you can do so sincerely. If you fucked up, own it and move on.
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I’d keep her around, every girl is a valuable asset, especially at the beginning.
Keep saying you’re sorry/down to hang until she’s down to hangout again.
Meanwhile, don’t wait. Keep doing you player thing. But I think brushing it off that easily is a result of childish vanity, something that is absolutely not necessary at any point of your life besides if you’re having too many options that the most minor conflict is worth dropping the girl. In that case, I’d understand. But you’re not there yet so keep her around you.
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It's like Chris says: keep hitting her up until she tells you to stop.
She's explicitly asked you to stop contacting her. This is where a decent person would move on. You could apologize, although honestly I doubt she wants to hear an apology at all. She probably doesn't care that much.
Either way it would just be rude to keep buggin her
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Thanks everyone! I ended up apologising and said I'm still down to talk to her but either way its cool if not. She said she really appreciates the apology and thanks so much but she doesn't think we should talk anymore.
I said no problem and moved on.
No big deal as I am talking to a good number of girls right now - just going to avoid being an idiot while drunk and in general rude negging etc
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