TOPIC: My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ?

bloomer27 wrote:

Bad Idea Bear wrote:

Massive wrote: I think he's 1. issue is not having 20% of BF but lack of social skills, it's obvious. Have you read any game material so far? What's your success ratio?

I'm sorry but no amount of game will save you from average looks if you're doing cold approaches.

Average looking is not good enough.

Below average is even worse, obviously.

If you've handled your sex appeal (looks + style), you can literally just walk up and ask a girl for her number. Chris did that back in his looks prime and killed it without even having a conversation.

One thing I've learned from reading this forum for so long:

Everyone is SO much fatter/less muscular than they realize (I was just as guilty of this as anyone else for a while)

You simply cannot trust someone's assessment of their own looks/bodyfat without pictures.

When we actually see real pics of these guys that are struggling, they're almost ALWAYS carrying around 20-50 extra pounds of fat.

If his own assessment is that he's 20% bodyfat, in reality he's probably in abysmal shape in real life. Weight isn't enough, you can be pure fat and almost zero muscle, and still be "within your healthy BMI".

It's look good + talk to girls. It always comes back to this. Every guy that can't get results on this forum is doing one of 2 things wrong:

1. They already look great, but have serious mental health problems OR are just terrified of rejection and aren't talking to anywhere NEAR as many girls as they should be
2. They're approaching plenty and not getting any results, because they look like shit. Usually they vastly overestimate how good looking they are.

I've literally never seen a good looking guy on here do lots of approaches and not get laid. Can't think of a single case.

Reality is tough, but if you don't accept it and you keep chasing magic pills like "game" you'll never get where you need to be.

Eat that reality, dude. You have to.

Thanks, One of the things that discourages me the most is see all these infields on youtube of guys that looks worse than me supposedly slaying it from cold approach. They seem to do alot of flashy and witty shit , I actually even tried to replicate some shit I saw in some infields and I just came off as try hard and more cringe. I pretty sure there is alot of staged fake shit out there, so I try to avoid these types of vids because they give me a distorted view on what my result should be.