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Massive wrote: I think he's 1. issue is not having 20% of BF but lack of social skills, it's obvious. Have you read any game material so far? What's your success ratio?
I'm sorry but no amount of game will save you from average looks if you're doing cold approaches.
Average looking is not good enough.
Below average is even worse, obviously.
If you've handled your sex appeal (looks + style), you can literally just walk up and ask a girl for her number. Chris did that back in his looks prime and killed it without even having a conversation.
One thing I've learned from reading this forum for so long:
Everyone is SO much fatter/less muscular than they realize(I was just as guilty of this as anyone else for a while)
You simply cannot trust someone's assessment of their own looks/bodyfat without pictures.
When we actually see real pics of these guys that are struggling, they're almost ALWAYS carrying around 20-50 extra pounds of fat.
If his own assessment is that he's 20% bodyfat, in reality he's probably in abysmal shape in real life. Weight isn't enough, you can be pure fat and almost zero muscle, and still be "within your healthy BMI".
It's look good + talk to girls. It always comes back to this. Every guy that can't get results on this forum is doing one of 2 things wrong:
They already look great, but have serious mental health problems OR are just terrified of rejection and aren't talking to anywhere NEAR as many girls as they should be
They're approaching plenty and not getting any results, because they look like shit. Usually they vastly overestimate how good looking they are.
I've literally never seen a good looking guy on here do lots of approaches and not get laid. Can't think of a single case.
Reality is tough, but if you don't accept it and you keep chasing magic pills like "game" you'll never get where you need to be.
Eat that reality,
dude. You have to.
Thanks, One of the things that discourages me the most is see all these infields on youtube of guys that looks worse than me supposedly slaying it from cold approach. They seem to do alot of flashy and witty shit , I actually even tried to replicate some shit I saw in some infields and I just came off as try hard and more cringe. I pretty sure there is alot of staged fake shit out there, so I try to avoid these types of vids because they give me a distorted view on what my result should be.
1. Its like ESPN highlight reel, they only show the “good/cool” looking approaches... out of who knows how many total approaches (most of which probably werent good at all)
2. Getting a phone number doesnt mean shit. Like u could have the “best approach” and not get a reply for whatever reason (and no, not necessarily your “text game” but like she has a bf, she regretted giving her number to some random dude, etc etc)
3. Some are fake. This is understandable from 2 angles: one is they want your money. Two is it takes a lot of time (and money if they hire a camera crew) to film approach stuff, which is time and potential money that could be used on other aspects of their business.
In other words, if they spend hours filming shit and dont get anything, they lose time and maybe money in a biz.Where they prob dont make good money to begin with
Vs. hire a model or two and know youre gonna nail it one take
Former 21 year old virgin
2013: 1 lay
2014: 0 lays
2015: 7 lays
2016: 38 lays
Is your goal to actually get laid? If so, go out of the house and try to get laid.
I'm not sure what you're trying to accomplish by posting videos of other people.
Either go out and run "game" like the guys in the YouTube vids if that's what you want to do, or get laid the GLL way (look good + talk to and screen a tonne of women). Hell, I even
just wrote an article
on how to start hitting on girls. But stop talking about and posting videos of people who aren't you, because it doesn't help you one bit.
This forum is about taking action - not posting theories and fawning over other guys like a celebrity worshipper. Consider this your polite first warning - next theory post you make without showing us you've started taking action will result in a temporary suspension (timeout) from the forums.
Next steps we want to see you take: post pics of yourself in your weight loss journal for accountability. Keep hitting on girls (don't sit on here talking about other guys on Youtube).
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