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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 29 Apr 2019 11:26 #316427

20% is fat as hell.

Post pics so we can see what you look like and give you advice. Words on a computer screen aren't comparable to actual pics of you.
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 29 Apr 2019 14:05 #316431

You can ask interview mode questions all day. If the girl is sexually available and finds you attractive, it wont matter.

You literally don't have to be interesting at all. Not even a little. It's completely inconsequential.
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 29 Apr 2019 15:35 #316433

I think he's 1. issue is not having 20% of BF but lack of social skills, it's obvious. Have you read any game material so far? What's your success ratio?
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 29 Apr 2019 20:28 #316446

Post pics on here if you're serious about improving, don't PM them to me. You'll get much better advice from a variety of people on here if you do so.

You're obese and you need to lose weight as first priority. You can't expect girls to want to fuck you when you're carrying so much extra weight.

It's doable if you make it your number 1 priority. I lost 35kg myself , and tonnes of guys on here have done similar.
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 30 Apr 2019 14:49 #316472

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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 30 Apr 2019 19:43 #316481

Massive wrote: I think he's 1. issue is not having 20% of BF but lack of social skills, it's obvious. Have you read any game material so far? What's your success ratio?


I'm sorry but no amount of game will save you from average looks if you're doing cold approaches.

Average looking is not good enough.

Below average is even worse, obviously.

If you've handled your sex appeal (looks + style), you can literally just walk up and ask a girl for her number. Chris did that back in his looks prime and killed it without even having a conversation.

One thing I've learned from reading this forum for so long:

Everyone is SO much fatter/less muscular than they realize (I was just as guilty of this as anyone else for a while)

You simply cannot trust someone's assessment of their own looks/bodyfat without pictures.

When we actually see real pics of these guys that are struggling, they're almost ALWAYS carrying around 20-50 extra pounds of fat.

If his own assessment is that he's 20% bodyfat, in reality he's probably in abysmal shape in real life. Weight isn't enough, you can be pure fat and almost zero muscle, and still be "within your healthy BMI".

It's look good + talk to girls. It always comes back to this. Every guy that can't get results on this forum is doing one of 2 things wrong:
  1. They already look great, but have serious mental health problems OR are just terrified of rejection and aren't talking to anywhere NEAR as many girls as they should be
  2. They're approaching plenty and not getting any results, because they look like shit. Usually they vastly overestimate how good looking they are.

I've literally never seen a good looking guy on here do lots of approaches and not get laid. Can't think of a single case.

Reality is tough, but if you don't accept it and you keep chasing magic pills like "game" you'll never get where you need to be.

Eat that reality, dude. You have to.
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 30 Apr 2019 20:37 #316485

"If his own assessment is that he's 20% bodyfat, in reality he's probably in abysmal shape in real life."

He PM'd me pics. Hence me saying "You're obese; lose weight."

Any time a guy says "I'm a little overweight" he's actually obese.

OP, let's get you losing weight. Know how to count calories, using MyFitnessPal/etc? Eat 1600 cals a day (of any food you like, but protein will fill you up more) and see if you lose weight. Or you can do a keto diet if you prefer.
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 01 May 2019 07:58 #316513

I'm halfway through an article on my site talking about "experts" who don't actually show you any proof they get laid.

Do you have proof these less-attractive guys on YouTube get laid? Or how often they get laid? Have they ever posted proof of naked girls in their bed, like we require here on GLL?
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 01 May 2019 18:57 #316541

Yeah the problem with all those videos is they only show them "having a good time" with the girl and getting their number. (girls will give you their number for a variety of reasons, including "they feel bad about not giving it to you, because you were entertaining". That's NOT conducive to actually getting laid)

Learning tricks and routines CAN make it so girls act happy/like they're having fun around you. The problem is all that shit doesn't actually make them any more likely to actually sleep with you.

If you want to learn how to do what those guys are doing, they can teach you. But, then all you'll be doing is standing in the street spinning girls around and then they never text you back/flake on you.

The only guys you can trust are guys that show they're having sex with girls, not just playing silly games with them and having a laugh.

You're watching those videos and think those guys are successful because the girls are smiling and having a good time. Here's the problem with that:

Can birthday clowns act stupid/silly/witty and make you laugh?

Yes.

Do you want to FUCK a birthday clown?

No.

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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 02 May 2019 05:33 #316572

Do the approach anxiety program while you lose weight. By the time you finish the program, you'll be looking a hell of a lot better - and you'll be confident enough to hit on girls.
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 02 May 2019 14:23 #316582

Just a quick post-script:

If you’re Andy, you actually DO fuck female birthday clowns. But not because they’re funny :lol:
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My social skills("game") is Horrible with women, any help ? 02 May 2019 20:36 #316599

Holy fuck I forgot I fucked that Clown Girl. Dude remember when I banged 3 circus performers in the space of 2 months?
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