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Massive wrote: I think he's 1. issue is not having 20% of BF but lack of social skills, it's obvious. Have you read any game material so far? What's your success ratio?
I'm sorry but no amount of game will save you from average looks if you're doing cold approaches.
Average looking is not good enough.
Below average is even worse, obviously.
If you've handled your sex appeal (looks + style), you can literally just walk up and ask a girl for her number. Chris did that back in his looks prime and killed it without even having a conversation.
One thing I've learned from reading this forum for so long:
Everyone is SO much fatter/less muscular than they realize(I was just as guilty of this as anyone else for a while)
You simply cannot trust someone's assessment of their own looks/bodyfat without pictures.
When we actually see real pics of these guys that are struggling, they're almost ALWAYS carrying around 20-50 extra pounds of fat.
If his own assessment is that he's 20% bodyfat, in reality he's probably in abysmal shape in real life. Weight isn't enough, you can be pure fat and almost zero muscle, and still be "within your healthy BMI".
It's look good + talk to girls. It always comes back to this. Every guy that can't get results on this forum is doing one of 2 things wrong:
They already look great, but have serious mental health problems OR are just terrified of rejection and aren't talking to anywhere NEAR as many girls as they should be
They're approaching plenty and not getting any results, because they look like shit. Usually they vastly overestimate how good looking they are.
I've literally never seen a good looking guy on here do lots of approaches and not get laid. Can't think of a single case.
Reality is tough, but if you don't accept it and you keep chasing magic pills like "game" you'll never get where you need to be.
Eat that reality,
dude. You have to.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
"If his own assessment is that he's 20% bodyfat, in reality he's probably in abysmal shape in real life."
He PM'd me pics. Hence me saying "You're obese; lose weight."
Any time a guy says "I'm a little overweight" he's actually obese.
OP, let's get you losing weight. Know how to count calories, using MyFitnessPal/etc? Eat 1600 cals a day (of any food you like, but protein will fill you up more) and see if you lose weight. Or you can do a keto diet if you prefer.
Yeah the problem with all those videos is they only show them "having a good time" with the girl and getting their number.(girls will give you their number for a variety of reasons, including "they feel bad about not giving it to you, because you were entertaining". That's NOT conducive to actually getting laid)
Learning tricks and routines CAN make it so girls act happy/like they're having fun around you. The problem is all that shit doesn't actually make them any more likely to actually sleep with you.
If you want to learn how to do what those guys are doing, they can teach you. But, then all you'll be doing is standing in the street spinning girls around and then they never text you back/flake on you.
The only guys you can trust are guys that show they're having sex with girls, not just playing silly games with them and having a laugh.
You're watching those videos and think those guys are successful because the girls are smiling and having a good time. Here's the problem with that:
Can birthday clowns act stupid/silly/witty and make you laugh?
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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