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Gunslinger wrote: I am starting to believe that since you never know if you'll see them again, you're better off trying 100% to fuck them.
This is something I learned early on and I definitely took it to heart. Sometimes I felt like I “lost” girls by not trying to fuck them.
And oddly enough, the girls that wouldn’t fuck me the first time would fuck me the next time and it correlated with me trying to fuck them on the first meetup. I’m not sure if that’s the real reason but it certainly seemed that way.
Anyway, try to fuck every girl on the first date and even if they won’t put out, your killer instinct will get strong and you will have endless pussy.
Yes, thinking "if I push too hard I will lose the potential of being with her long-term" is a fallacy. You learn it very quick. For 90% of girls, if you don't fuck on date 1 you will never see her again. And if you fuck her and then never see her again, which is also very likely, you might think you lost her cause you had sex too quick, but that is almost never the case. 90% of girls will either sleep on date 1 or never see you again, no matter what you do. That's just the game.
I second everything NSA said. Always try to get laid on date 1. Also, if a girl wants to see you long-term she won't be hurt by you pushing for sex on date 1, doesn't happen, and if it does, trust me, you don't want her. Just try to have sex on date 1, it can't hurt.
The girl I am currently seeing I tried to push for sex on date 1, she refused and then we had sex on date 2 and ever since. Trying to have sex on date 1 did not hurt me at all.
You have a lot more to lose by not trying to have sex than the other way around. You gain nothing by waiting. Always to push for sex on date 1.
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Gunslinger wrote: Thanks bro, sounds good to me ! I called that first girl yesterday and it was just in my head, she still down.
Made me realize tho : since I'll never know if I'll see a girl again, I'm better off risking "scaring" her, but also banging her. At least, would make me feel better, no regrets.
NoStringsAttached wrote: Anyway, try to fuck every girl on the first date and even if they won’t put out, your killer instinct will get strong and you will have endless pussy.
In retrospect think I just need to get more experienced with girls of this caliber hence continue cold approaching and as you pointed out, develop abundance mentality with really hot girls that I like. I still see girls of this caliber a few times a week walking down the street. Therefore, it's a matter of time before I fuck and retain some on them.
Still interested in some insight from other guys if it offers some perspective on this issue.
Slow it down a little with a girl you really like and show more boyfriend potential vs get the lay 100%
Wonder what Chris would say, good chance there's no answer to this and its just complete fucking random.
I don’t think you have to “slow down” with a girl you want as a gf. I used to think the same thing until I had girls who wanted to be my gf even tho I tried to fuck on the first date.
Every girl is different. Some girls like to have a lot of sex. Some girls don’t. Some girls have rules about no sex on the first date. Others don’t.
Instead of focusing on what girls want, focus on what you want. If you want to get laid on the first date, then go for it.
There are so many girls out there who are willing have to sex casually. You just have to find them.
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