TOPIC: It's been a while, what's changed?

Haven't posted on GLL in forever. How is everyone doing? Last time I was active was probably 2+ years ago.

You guys still insecure about your looks and not fixing it or approaching enough girls?

I feel the community has got smaller but I'm really grateful for the real players still making this the best site on the planet.

Play_time_is_over wrote: I feel the community has got smaller but I'm really grateful for the real players still making this the best site on the planet.

Good to hear, GLL has always been my sanctuary of sorts. Let's continue this journey!

playtime is right.

It's gotten smaller, but people like Andy (killtheinnerloser) are really keeping this place going.

This is more like the early GLL days, which I don't mind. This place is becoming an underground community again

We texted about this, but to people who don't know, I broke up with my girl today. First time I've ever been the one to initiate the breakup.

I may start throwing up some stories again, we'll see.

Dan and Chad are single again. Let the games begin

NoStringsAttached wrote: Dan and Chad are single again. Let the games begin

Like my sister said, it's un-cuffing season, buster!

Bad Idea Bear wrote: playtime is right.

We texted about this, but to people who don't know, I broke up with my girl today. First time I've ever been the one to initiate the breakup.

u mind sharing why?

Dave93 wrote:

Bad Idea Bear wrote: playtime is right.

We texted about this, but to people who don't know, I broke up with my girl today. First time I've ever been the one to initiate the breakup.

u mind sharing why?

It's really complicated and you'd need to know so much about us to fully understand, but:

Basically she didn't do anything wrong. She's awesome, I love her, and it hurts to do this. But, we had some differences that I couldn't reconcile, and we were planning on having kids together in our 30's. Once I realized it wasn't going to last, I didn't want to waste her time. She's in her prime, and I don't want to string her along when she could be with a guy who is a better fit.

Bad Idea Bear wrote:

Dave93 wrote:

Bad Idea Bear wrote: playtime is right.

We texted about this, but to people who don't know, I broke up with my girl today. First time I've ever been the one to initiate the breakup.

u mind sharing why?

It's really complicated and you'd need to know so much about us to fully understand, but:

Basically she didn't do anything wrong. She's awesome, I love her, and it hurts to do this. But, we had some differences that I couldn't reconcile, and we were planning on having kids together in our 30's. Once I realized it wasn't going to last, I didn't want to waste her time. She's in her prime, and I don't want to string her along when she could be with a guy who is a better fit.

this is freaky, I did the exact same thing today.

Hi man. I was out for a while.

I was busy with a relationship fucking a lot. I had my first succesful fuck with her... And i liked her a lot but in the end we broke up last year, we always discussed and finally she comitted suicide in January. No, she didn't die because of my fault, her life was shitty in mosts aspects.

In the meantime I was busy working and studying. Now I have more time and I'm begining to go out to the night scene alone, by myself, starting with groups of unknown people via whatsapp (baby steps like chris says).

I'm working on my anxiety. You know, going solo is different. Feels weird at first. By exposure therapy it's going out slowly. Also I'm getting experience under my belt with dealing with females. Nice!

Iin the recent years I had paid more attention to my body since I had more time. I don't like going to the gym at all. I had injured my back. So... I was doing yoga and swimming. Now I'm doing functional too. I'm working out better. I hope to get a better body but mostly for health concerns more than chicks. Ok, for both.

So... things are going good .

I was only ever a lurker but I'm glad to see some activity on this forum again. I absorbed so much from here. This place is awesome.

In 2016 I decided fuck it, I'll try things the GLL way. I dieted HARD, got the fade haircut that everybody gets, and went tanning 2-3 a week. In like two months, my face was totally different (lean and tan). I also started doing stand up comedy and working on my own website. Within 3 months I was dating a skinny fit blonde yoga girl who loved my sense of humour and was okay with me being a broke comedian with a shitty day job.

I was born in Canada, but in December of 2016 I was offered a job in the USA so I left my shitty bachelor house and came over here. More money, more stability, and less taxes, pretty good so far. This is an actual career with good progression and decent pay.

In August 2018, I finally had enough money saved up for her to come live with me here in the states. I married her to help her with immigration. I was born a dual-citizen so I had zero issues moving here.

Well by December 2018 it was obvious that she had mental health problems, she refused counselling, she was drinking every night. Having crazy spazzouts every weekend saying she wanted a divorce and wanted to go home. So in December I sent her ass home to Canada and filed for divorce. The divorce is pretty amicable and almost over. The length of the marriage was only 4 months and we didn't buy any cars or houses during that time so there was nothing to split. I got off EXTREMELY easy compared to a lot of the divorce horror-stories I've heard. I'm not getting married ever again.

Sorry for the wall of text lolol but the TL;DR is that I'm single again and getting lean & tan for the summer to get some F R E S H T R I M.

^ Shoulda started your own thread, mate. Welcome to the forums anyway.