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I feel like writing an approach thread will make me take approaching more seriously so here's my first approach log. I've finished 50 days (over 6 weeks) of the approach anxiety program with no results to show for it yet because ive been more focused on the program. I will be starting these drills with Chris's nervous guy game that goes something like this:
"this is random and im a little nervous but can i get your number?"
Im more focused on getting dates with unattractive / average girls atm and today was my first attempt at doing this at three different plazas with no reps completed since there were no girls ugly enough for me to approach. Im giving it one more chance today and once i get one i think that im going to aim at getting at least one approach a day like what i did for the aa program.
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The school summer semester has ended so there have been absolutely no unattractive girls to talk to at the schools. Ive walked around a campus and city streets for the past few days with no girls to approach but the odd hot girl. I will keep trying because i dont really have much choice. @colorado88 with the combination of poor reactions from the last days of the aa program to insulting tinder results, i barely have the confidence to hit on girls at all. Once i hopefully get some some affirmation and experience with lesser attractive girls ill start approaching anyone like what i did earlier in the program.
Sorry gll community for my uneventful start to the approach log. I promise to get some interactions to talk about soon.
Today i finally tried my first approach outside the aa program and it turned out to be nothing more than a "hey youre cute" - "bye" drill, but its a start. The girl gave me a weird reaction where she kept eyeing my hands when i was saying the opener, so i raised my hands and assured her that i wasn't holding anything and just said bye right after. Next step is to say something along the lines of "how are you doing" after the opener.
It took me around 6 days of walking around aimlessly to finally pull off this basic rep because i have been struggling more than i should. At some point in late week 6 i started to decline in my approaching skills and as of right now it feels like i barely even did the aa program. Im positive that this is just a confidence thing since i know that i can approach, its just that i desperately need some affirmation so i feel like im not just annoying every girl who i potentially talk to. I think that this first approach will give me momentum to at least start approaching regularly now.
Ive gotten over my inital discouragement from online dating so i have been trying to use it again a few days ago. I max swiped right today on tinder and got no matches, max swiped yesterday and got one fat girl match who ignored me, and max swiped the two days before that with no matches on either day. My abysmal results aren't depressing me anymore but it probably subconsciously holds me back from approaching. Ill keep using it for now since its arguably better than nothing.
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