TOPIC: so would you consider day game much more effective than night?

So just got home from the club. Did a lot of approaches and I'm wondering if I should just give up completely on night game and chat girls up during the day.

For me it's like... I've never enjoyed being at clubs. I'd rather not fuck up my sleep patterns, the music is too loud, you can't hear shit, drunks are obnoxious, there's much more competition etc. etc. I just really don't enjoy the atmosphere. Possibly I could learn to enjoy it and be good at it, but is it worth the investment since I'm so against them to begin with? Do I really have to be good at it to feel like a real man? I'd rather just do daygame which I find much more relaxing and pleasant.

My honest opinon is that nightgame is a waste of time (IF YOU DONT ENJOY YOURSELF).

You’re much better off getting a job as a promotee, bouncer, or bartender.

You’ll get laid just as much (or more) and you’ll make money too.

At the end of the day, it's a question of volume. How often can you realistically go out in clubs to hit on girls? 3 times a week? Meanwhile, nothing really stops you from doing it everyday during the daytime.

People ask me quite often why I never try and get girls at night clubs almost as if there was something wrong with me yet some of those people snort at the idea of hitting on girls during the day,

For me and indeed for many quiet, introverted guys who often started gaming with a very low sexual market value foundation, night clubs can be an utter living hell. And I am not exaggerating. It might seem melodramatic but some of the single worst experiences in my life have been at night clubs, often when I was determined to 'have a good time.' The bouncers, the cock-blocking, the meat-market vibe, the almost unimaginable brutality and rudeness I received from women... You couldn't pay me to go to night clubs now.

Of course anyone can have the perfect excuse to opt for day game because it won't have any influence on your productivity, sleep quality and abundance, nutrition i.e. lack of alcohol and hangover food - need I go on? Also if a girl is rude to you during the day most people watching would probably agree she is the one with the problem, not you.

In the end we all do what we need to do to get laid or at least not, NOT get laid- doesn't matter how you do it but we all have our preferences. As many have said here and many more probably would say: night clubs are incredibly unproductive places to get laid. Unless you are a male 9 or are willing to work some social circle game or job (as Rousseau said) into it that is.

I spent years going out to nightclubs trying to get laid before I succeeded. The key to my success was a. not giving a fuck any more just due to a massive amount of experience b. finding the right nightclub not too far from my place and c. drunk driving. If you're new honestly I don't reccomend it. I've probably fucked 10-15 girls who I met during the daytime and ~3-4 from nightclubs. However there's something about pulling a bitch from a club taking her home and railing the fuck out of her that hits the spot.

It's like anything man it takes practice to get good. However in nightclubs you have WAY more monkey wrenches being thrown at you, I remember I pulled this girl once, we were fucking for a good 10 minutes, then she was like I need to check my phone omg omg omg, started legit SCREAMING OH MY GOD in my fucking dorm room like a crazy bitch, said she needed to get back to her boyfriend and she was sorry. Its like even when you WIN and you get the girl back you can't relax and be like I've got a piece of ass to rail for the night. There's constantly issues with friends, or other guys, etc.

I actually would do both if you want to. I don't know why its one or the other. You might progress faster than me but personally it took me about a year or two of going out most weekends until I got truly comfortable with it and had any success (not counting makeouts in the club etc. which do not matter at all but can be a confidence boost when ur a young man)

The hardest part for me was being ALONE. And when you walk up to a group of people to try and talk and shit just goes SOUTH. Fuck man. Its almost impossible to make a friend at a nightclub I realised, unless youre both on ecstasy. I could have spent a lot more time hitting on girls and probably had way more success - its always a numbers game. But you can't sleep on the mental aspect of it. You have to stay mentally sharp, and happy, and enjoy yourself at least a bit or it becomes fucking tedious. Don't force yourself to do something you don't enjoy I forced myself to go out many nights and it would lead to very awful and lonely experiences

Make it fun, bring a friend if you can, or just try speaking in a way you find entertaining. I find what I'm starting to learn now is how to be more of myself around girls and people, and not give a fuck. Whereas when I started I would be very specific about what I would say, I would match my language and character to chris in his videos, force myself to be very assertive which was not my nature and it took a lot out of me. Now I am much more assertive as a person, but I can start being more of myself, I smile more when talking to people and its more genuine. Its a hard fucking balancing act man theres so many levels to this shit like you want to be real and genuine but what if your real genuine self is a little bitch, you kind of have to cut certain weak traits you have out and install new ones. It can be a hard and aggravating process

Oh and just so you get a good idea of exactly how the conversation went with the first girl I ever fucked from the club

It was like:
"Hey whats up I'm R..."
"Hey"
"What are you up to?"
"Just hanging out with my friend"
Girls Friend: "You should fuck him"
Me: "Come with me" *grabs hand*

Did not expect it at all. Her friend was "just joking" apparently and kept blowing up her phone while we were fucking so i had to turn it off.

Take her to car. Drive home. Fuck her. The next 3 time were really basic conversation, might have been a bit different but I wasn't trying at all. Basic conversation for 2-10 minutes (I have very low attention span so I move quick). It worked with 4 girls and they were all pretty decent. So don't fucking kill yourself with "I have no social skills, I have aspergers, I'm socially incapable" and shit. All it takes is walking up to a couple girls, saying "Hey" taking them home and fucking them and now youre a success story. Negativity gets you nowhere. Its all time and place and repitition

"Be like water my friend"

I can agree on all of this.

My biggest issues so far is that i either keep intercating with wierd girls from bars and i think theres a certain curve with what you say at night which might not fall into play as what u would do in daytime

some nights are usually hit or miss in my area. funny thing is I managed to get a hot girls attention to talk and accidentally knocked over a trash can as I was walking to get closer haha. I find that clubs are usually are more competitive and some of these girls just want attention and have no real intention in going home with anyone.I noticed guys that were better looking and taller than me getting shot down so that assured me I'm not alone in the struggle. I usually have a better time at dive bars because I get a similar feel from girls as I would get in day game. I'm just going to keep working on maximizing my looks and getting more ripped regardless if I'm going to be doing day or night game.

What type of bars do usually have success with?

A lot of small local popular bars are usually the best places I have fun at. The girls are really nice and more approachable.

rapitup wrote: Oh and just so you get a good idea of exactly how the conversation went with the first girl I ever fucked from the club

It was like:
"Hey whats up I'm R..."
"Hey"
"What are you up to?"
"Just hanging out with my friend"
Girls Friend: "You should fuck him"
Me: "Come with me" *grabs hand*

Did not expect it at all. Her friend was "just joking" apparently and kept blowing up her phone while we were fucking so i had to turn it off.

Take her to car. Drive home. Fuck her. The next 3 time were really basic conversation, might have been a bit different but I wasn't trying at all. Basic conversation for 2-10 minutes (I have very low attention span so I move quick). It worked with 4 girls and they were all pretty decent. So don't fucking kill yourself with "I have no social skills, I have aspergers, I'm socially incapable" and shit. All it takes is walking up to a couple girls, saying "Hey" taking them home and fucking them and now youre a success story. Negativity gets you nowhere. Its all time and place and repitition

"Be like water my friend"

Completely agree with you on the not making excuses. I'm actually a really shy guy and kind of awkward at times but I'll still make the effort to talk girls and it amazes me how girls really don't mind and sometimes think it's cute.