TOPIC: Lessons I learn about modern dating the more hot girls I interact with

I've been going out a bit in recent months and especially in recent weeks and I've had some long convos with girls that I think at the very least are above average looking. After chatting with quite a few of them, there are some lessons I learn from what they say as well as about all of this in general.

It is simple but not easy.

Hot girls want quality guys, simple but not easy because it is so tough to be a quality guy who is also hot and cool.

The internet boards are full of angry guy who say hot girls are evil, mean, and treat normal guys with intentions of cruelty but really I think hot girls could care less if these guys exist. Like hot girls have lives to live that they are too busy living to even care about what some random dude does. Just like guys want hot girls, hot girls want hot guys or cool guys, but ideally both.

This whole idea that you have to be a millionaire with good looks and top level game to have a chance is insane but I guess miserable sexless guys are themselves some of the most sinister people on the planet.

Social media is more important than ever, you can tell a lot about a girl from her social media account.

Almost every hot girl I meet in the 18-25 age range has an Instagram and most of the times, she has well over a thousand followers as well as 300 to 500 likes on each pic. I would say it is somewhat common for a hot girl at the age of 19 to have over 3k followers and get close to 1k likes on her photos. For some reason, hot girls have a way of taking good photos on their Instagram and presenting them quite well to the world.

Yet I also find that hot girls with a smaller Instagram followers (less than 1k) are also somewhat less shallow and actually friendly. I go by hot girls I knew in college and some I meet at bars, it seems to be the case that the ones who aren't borderline social media superstars are somewhat more down to earth and personable.

A couple of hot girls I've number closed who were open to my approaches at the bar fit this profile, followers in the hundreds but not the thousands, private accounts, and not too flashy.

The guys who seem to be getting them fit that profile too.

Maybe this is what Chris meant by "Swag Factor" but it seems like the guys I meet who are bartenders at a high end bar, fratty guys with money, and the ones who have hot girls in their lives are in this world. They are the ones with flashy cool photos on IG, tons of likes, and obviously 1k+ followers. Like they are somewhere in the "know how" or just get that world they manage to make themselves a part of.

It is like they "get it", like there is this world that hot girls and these sorts of guys live in that most other people don't get to be a part of.

Continuing this later as I learn more lessons.