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Hey gller's I've been going out every weekend and working on my game. One problem that I keep running into is not having a filter, and I end up saying something offensive or "wrong". The interactions are usually downhill from that point on.
My question is, how do you guys suggest "it doesn't matter what you say to her, just say something" and yet this is what's causing my problems?
I can give specifics if needed but any answers are greatly appreciated and will be put to test
One time I fucked up at a date by making fun of a girl's job, she said she's lawyer, I noted how half of the city these days are lawyers, there's 3 lawyers for 1 doctor, or something to that regard. She got pissed and started giving me shit for not "being a gentleman".
So I know how it feels. The truth is, this will fuck it up once in a while, but in the larger scale it doesn't matter too much (unless you got Tourette's or something). The girl I mentioned was weird from the start and it was obvious it was going nowhere.
The only 2 solutions that I see :
- when going into an approach go specifically with the mindset "I will not be an asshole this time" and repeat that in your head. That is do conscious effort to control it. I noticed I tend to lower my filter when I'm tired or pissed. So try to be full of energy and good mood + try to control it. It should subdue over time
- do as Bobby as says and roll with it. There is a pretty large margin of acceptable weirdness that girls will overlook. As long as you keep a straight face and keep moving on you can get away with the most outrageous things, trust me. Again, you will have to learn to not get phased by this and just roll naturally forward without stopping, accepting that sometimes you'll be weird.
That's about it. Good luck.
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Girls say im weird as fuck all the time, but they still wanna hang out with me. I do sometimes do and say some weird shit but the girls are cool with it and just laugh - no big deal at all. I do believe a lot of it has to do with how you come across/vibe
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If it helps most girls that are in my social circles tell my friends that I have a very strong first impression but then they understand I'm a dickhead (I get in trouble very often) and guess motherfuckin' what, if I'd like I'd probably still bang some of them.
At the end of the story looks>everything and social freedom is more for you than to attract girls imo, like really not giving a fuck about anything or anyone, people are super jealous of that ability.
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