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The past few times I've gone out at night, I went out with the intention of getting laid as usual. However, I have seriously been limiting myself from talking to (screening) as many girls as I want to. And this is due to the preconceived idea that if I get rejected by a girl and immediately talk to the next girl I find attractive, she may have seen me get rejected and therefore reject me. I understand that while this fear/concern is valid, it is rather ridiculous.
I thought to myself, "Why would a girl reject me just because she saw another girl shut me down? What if the 2nd girl just happens to be into me?" And the answer I came up with was that if the girl is emotionally/mentally healthy and is interested in me, then her seeing me get rejected by someone else should have absolutely no bearing on her thoughts about me.
Also, the other issue I have is, what if the 1st girl that rejects me sees me approach another girl within let's say 10 feet of her and then tries to convince the 2nd girl that I'm a freak or something. Or she starts talking shit about me in order to fuck things up between me and the next girl? Again, an emotionally healthy girl or person would not even bother doing something so harsh/crazy. But my fear of this happening is still there. Any ideas on how to handle this? The only thing I can think of is to just go up to as many girls no matter how awkward it may be for one of the girls to witness me initial rejection and if the 1st girl has an issue, just tell her to get lost. And if the 2nd rejects me due to seeing me get rejected, then I could just take that as plain rejection and nothing more. Feel free to share your ideas with me. Thanks!
Too much text, too much over-analyzing, too much thinking. A rejection is a rejection, she wasn't into you, period. Just find the next girl that won't reject.
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Your fear is actually extremely valid, if women see you prancing around getting rejected by every girl they will shut you down. I saw one guy doing this (only ever seen one guy do it) and he did seem like a desperate loser. When no girl wants him you just assume low status things about him.
HOWEVER, it's not like you have a choice, so just do it anyway. And there are a few ways to minimize the impact to either zero or very little:
1) Go to big, dark, crowded clubs. You won't stand out, particularly if you wear low key outfits like black. You can walk to a different part of the club and no girl will know you just got rejected 20 times in the main room. If you're 6'3 or noticeably attractive like a model it's harder to get away with because people will naturally notice you. Some women may even watch you if you're really hot to them.
2) Don't approach like GLL does in some vids where he legit grabs women. That gives them the chance to shove you off and then it looks REALLLLLLY bad to other women. Best thing is just to say they're cute or whatever and if they're still talking to you, then you know they're DTF and you can be physical without her screaming and pushing you and blitzing your chances with every girl in the area.
If you make out with girls in front of others that will have an impact too. You will actually get called out by the more up front women for approaching every girl or making out with every girl srs. Them crowded venues are so much better to blend in and mass approach without any issues.
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