TOPIC: Cold Approach Freakout.

So today I witnessed a guy try and approach a girl in the middle of the street, and she fucking lost it at him.

I think what happened was that he tried to approach her in a meek manner, and she ignored him, and then he put his hand out and touched her to get her attention and she freaked the fuck out.

She started chasing him down the street screaming at him lol.

There isn't much of a point in posting this, but I thought I would discuss it a bit.

I noticed that the kid was really poorly dressed and was carrying a gay umbrella.

The thing that can be learned from this is basically:

1) If you're dressed poorly, and 2) your approach is weak, the girl will consider it to be harassment.

Versus if you look good and you're well groomed the girl will probably like it.

It's funny, because about 5 minutes after I approached a girl in a similar manner and she loved it and gave me her number. The main difference between what happened to him and what happened to me, is that I stopped this girl directly in her path, and engaged her properly, versus this other guy, who kind of did it meekly and was punished for it.

To be honest, I looked like shit today, My beard is fucking nasty and my hair is long. I just had gotten off work and was not looking good.

It really shows the importance of properly engaging the girl when you approach her.

With that being said, I'm not going to sit here and pretend like I'm above this kind of thing, because this has happened to me once before. If you're going to approach women in the street, you have to stand directly in their path and stop them. You can't call out at them from a distance, and you can't grab at them when they ignore you and try and get away from you. It looks horrible in those two circumstances.

Just some thoughts.

cool stry bro. more rousseau and his shit .woo woo game bullshit If it is real the girl responded to you because she was attracted to you physically and the other guy was ugly. she would have rejected the other guy regardless. maybe less harsh had he not grabbed he like a rapist. the whole reason she ingnored him was she was not inerested.

you even appraoched in a similar manner with the exception of stopping he directly. jesus you such RSD fanboy. game matter very little with cold approach. bitch is into you or she aint. no amount of stat pumping or pua shit will make a diffrence.

draw state from with in bro...

bump

Yes absolutely.

Almost all the times a girl immediately blows me off (a lot lately) it is because I approach weakly without conviction. A proper front stop or pass the girl then wheel round and stop her so you are 12 oclock in front of her almost guarantees she will stop assuming she has seen you coming and had time to process you before you come to a complete stop. Weakly approaching is an awful habit to get into

I don't mean to jack this thread but what does a non-gay umbrella look like? Portland is underwater again

Rousseau wrote: So today I witnessed a guy try and approach a girl in the middle of the street, and she fucking lost it at him.

I think what happened was that he tried to approach her in a meek manner, and she ignored him, and then he put his hand out and touched her to get her attention and she freaked the fuck out.

She started chasing him down the street screaming at him lol.

There isn't much of a point in posting this, but I thought I would discuss it a bit.

I noticed that the kid was really poorly dressed and was carrying a gay umbrella.

The thing that can be learned from this is basically:

1) If you're dressed poorly, and 2) your approach is weak, the girl will consider it to be harassment.

Versus if you look good and you're well groomed the girl will probably like it.

It's funny, because about 5 minutes after I approached a girl in a similar manner and she loved it and gave me her number. The main difference between what happened to him and what happened to me, is that I stopped this girl directly in her path, and engaged her properly, versus this other guy, who kind of did it meekly and was punished for it.

To be honest, I looked like shit today, My beard is fucking nasty and my hair is long. I just had gotten off work and was not looking good.

It really shows the importance of properly engaging the girl when you approach her.

With that being said, I'm not going to sit here and pretend like I'm above this kind of thing, because this has happened to me once before. If you're going to approach women in the street, you have to stand directly in their path and stop them. You can't call out at them from a distance, and you can't grab at them when they ignore you and try and get away from you. It looks horrible in those two circumstances.

Just some thoughts.

This is entirely legitimate. Entirely. Hence why drugs and alcohol affect a guy's ability to attract women/pick them up so much... Even if you approach the same amount, drugs/alcohol gives you conviction and confidence, no meek pussy bullshit.

oh gawd to many puas in this thread. GLL is now the new RSD!

GLL doesn't preach pua bullshit
All he said was that you have to go in strong, not like a pussy. That's indisputable, any guy that gets laid would agree with that.

You approached the very same girl who just flipped her shit? If so that's amazing.

Gret45 wrote: oh gawd to many puas in this thread. GLL is now the new RSD!

If you have any experience going out, and particularly with the use of stimulant drugs or alcohol in social settings, you would know the difference behavior makes. Ecstasy will do infinitely more for your ability to get laid than getting six pack abs will if you're a shy, reserved, beta, low confidence type of guy naturally.

In the OP story yes perhaps she just thought that first guy was ugly... When I took Ecstasy I got with a girl who rejected me 5 minutes before the drug hit. But I was literally a different person, night and day, my friends said it was weird, like being out with a total stranger. Though that's the natural version of myself that's locked away inside.

Mr Ugly wrote:

Gret45 wrote: oh gawd to many puas in this thread. GLL is now the new RSD!

If you have any experience going out, and particularly with the use of stimulant drugs or alcohol in social settings, you would know the difference behavior makes. Ecstasy will do infinitely more for your ability to get laid than getting six pack abs will if you're a shy, reserved, beta, low confidence type of guy naturally.

In the OP story yes perhaps she just thought that first guy was ugly... When I took Ecstasy I got with a girl who rejected me 5 minutes before the drug hit. But I was literally a different person, night and day, my friends said it was weird, like being out with a total stranger. Though that's the natural version of myself that's locked away inside.

what ever you say buddy boyo.

Appraoching a girl who blew you off again is literally begging for security to come get and throw you out. Girl either like you or not.
sounds like some RSD plowing bullshit trying to convert girls that are not interested.
I just love these bed time stories.

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