TOPIC: Good example why i don't fuck with phone #s anymore (Text pics)

Ethan wrote: I don't mean to bust your balls, but you need to work on your text game ASAP. That was pretty bad. I say that with love. I get it, texting is tough.

If she rejected your kiss at the mall then that's not a good sign that the number's gonna go anywhere, but let's work with what we have anyway.

First off all, anyone who says "pacifc" instead of "specific" I would next so fucking hard. But anyway, let's start with your opening text. ALWAYS include your name in the first text. This avoids the standard "Who is this?" response that girls always give. They know damn well who it is, but it's a power play. They want to gain the dominant position so they'll pretend like they don't even know who you are and make you explain yourself straight out of the gate. Not a good position to start from. Always include your name.

Second, "Hey you" is extremely generic. You can do better than that. Here's my go-to opening text. It's unique, funny, vaguely sexual, and gives the girl my name. "Is it too early for casual text? -Ethan"

After she asked who you were you went down the rabbit hole and started explaining yourself to her. Again, the more you explain the more power you lose. It's a dominance struggle. She's doing all of this to dominate you.

Also, lose the "LOLs". Once again you're acting extremely submissive.

Your ending text also betrays some mental stuff that you've got going on. You're acting extremely reactive when you say you'll just go out and find more girls to kiss. It's an extremely transparent attempt to not lose face. You're not fooling anyone. This is like the guy who gets rejected and says, "Yeah well you're ugly anyway!" This kind of stuff comes from a negative mindset.

That's just the tip of the iceberg. There's a lot more you need to work on. I'd highly recommend buying the book Flawless Texting ( www.flawlesstexting.com ) That book changed my texting game completely and massively increased my meetup rates. The guy who wrote it is legit and knows what he's talking about.

Mr.Calibrated wrote: @Ethan
"Buddy, it makes no difference at all to me if you get laid or not.

Once again though your attitude is very telling. You're extremely sensitive. Work on this."

How the hell does this guy have 128 thank you's and +53 karma??? This guy doesn't even help out just say's shit other people told him that doesn't even work.

Bad Idea Bear wrote: None of this matters. There was nothing OP could do to make that girl like him. She was sexually unavailable for him. Whether it's due to looks, her circumstances, or how he acted when he met her, we'll never know. We weren't there.

Side note: I am curious about Ethan. I first started coming on the forum maybe 3 years ago. Ethan, you were around back then too, but I've never seen any photos of you, or evidence that you get laid. I don't mean that as a diss, for real, I just mean I literally have never seen creep pics or stuff like that from you. If you have any, I'd like to see so we can know if you're a marketer or a player.

By nature I assume everyone is lying until I see evidence. Damn near everyone on the internet who posts about getting laid either doesn't get laid or is greatly exaggerating how successful they are with girls. For me, personally, the only thing that makes me trust someone is seeing proof.

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EDIT:

Ok so I found your old thread here:

www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/members-...ies-etc?limitstart=0

I don't know man. I'm extremely skeptical. Lots of photos from girls profiles, but no actual photos you've taken of these girls. This reminds me a lot of Sandshark. Until further shit comes to light I call bullshit.

The other thing is, a lot of guys from GLL know each other. It's a network. I know guys like ETA and Username are legit, because there are other legit guys that have told me they chilled with them in person. I don't know anyone who's mentioned you or knows you. Definitely unusual, but I could be wrong.