TOPIC: Good example why i don't fuck with phone #s anymore (Text pics)

Met some broad at the mall last Saturday. Got her on an insta-date and shit. Fast forward about an hour I try to kiss her. She rejects my kiss and tells me "I am not that type of girl" so I shake it off and I walk her to the exit of the mall and number close it.

Now here's the follow up:

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By the way this broad didn't even claim a bf when we were in person. She said her last relationship/bf was 9-10 months ago.

Also I was getting tired of all those shit tests and she was wasting my fucking time so I end the convo and went to the mall to find another broad.

I don't mean to bust your balls, but you need to work on your text game ASAP. That was pretty bad. I say that with love. I get it, texting is tough.

If she rejected your kiss at the mall then that's not a good sign that the number's gonna go anywhere, but let's work with what we have anyway.

First off all, anyone who says "pacifc" instead of "specific" I would next so fucking hard. But anyway, let's start with your opening text. ALWAYS include your name in the first text. This avoids the standard "Who is this?" response that girls always give. They know damn well who it is, but it's a power play. They want to gain the dominant position so they'll pretend like they don't even know who you are and make you explain yourself straight out of the gate. Not a good position to start from. Always include your name.

Second, "Hey you" is extremely generic. You can do better than that. Here's my go-to opening text. It's unique, funny, vaguely sexual, and gives the girl my name. "Is it too early for casual text? -Ethan"

After she asked who you were you went down the rabbit hole and started explaining yourself to her. Again, the more you explain the more power you lose. It's a dominance struggle. She's doing all of this to dominate you.

Also, lose the "LOLs". Once again you're acting extremely submissive.

Your ending text also betrays some mental stuff that you've got going on. You're acting extremely reactive when you say you'll just go out and find more girls to kiss. It's an extremely transparent attempt to not lose face. You're not fooling anyone. This is like the guy who gets rejected and says, "Yeah well you're ugly anyway!" This kind of stuff comes from a negative mindset.

That's just the tip of the iceberg. There's a lot more you need to work on. I'd highly recommend buying the book Flawless Texting ( www.flawlesstexting.com ) That book changed my texting game completely and massively increased my meetup rates. The guy who wrote it is legit and knows what he's talking about.

Hey man, don't sweat it. Lol I always aim to get that Snapchat now.

Bro as soon as she said "I don't know you", i would have left the convo and said goodbye. Why the f***would you want to spend time/fuck with someone who doesn't even remember who you are. Let it go and move on, she's not worth your time bro.

And as far as texting goes, just use it to set up a time and place to meet. If she digs you (thinks you're hot and is available), the girl WILL be down to meet up. Save the chit chat for then. If she gives you excuses, that means she is not interested and move on.

Typical girl shit

They know who you are. I've done the same thing to several girls (granted they actually deserved it...)

Dude this is dumb.

Your sample size is 1 girl... you basically tried to kiss her quickly and she wasn't DTF. You screened her out

Screw all that "text game" crap. Although you probably didn't need to get into a text argument with her lol.

Ethan wrote: I don't mean to bust your balls, but you need to work on your text game ASAP. That was pretty bad. I say that with love. I get it, texting is tough.

If she rejected your kiss at the mall then that's not a good sign that the number's gonna go anywhere, but let's work with what we have anyway.

First off all, anyone who says "pacifc" instead of "specific" I would next so fucking hard. But anyway, let's start with your opening text. ALWAYS include your name in the first text. This avoids the standard "Who is this?" response that girls always give. They know damn well who it is, but it's a power play. They want to gain the dominant position so they'll pretend like they don't even know who you are and make you explain yourself straight out of the gate. Not a good position to start from. Always include your name.

Second, "Hey you" is extremely generic. You can do better than that. Here's my go-to opening text. It's unique, funny, vaguely sexual, and gives the girl my name. "Is it too early for casual text? -Ethan"

After she asked who you were you went down the rabbit hole and started explaining yourself to her. Again, the more you explain the more power you lose. It's a dominance struggle. She's doing all of this to dominate you.

Also, lose the "LOLs". Once again you're acting extremely submissive.

Your ending text also betrays some mental stuff that you've got going on. You're acting extremely reactive when you say you'll just go out and find more girls to kiss. It's an extremely transparent attempt to not lose face. You're not fooling anyone. This is like the guy who gets rejected and says, "Yeah well you're ugly anyway!" This kind of stuff comes from a negative mindset.

That's just the tip of the iceberg. There's a lot more you need to work on. I'd highly recommend buying the book Flawless Texting ( www.flawlesstexting.com ) That book changed my texting game completely and massively increased my meetup rates. The guy who wrote it is legit and knows what he's talking about.

"Is it too early for a casual text?" is what you say man? How many girls have you banged after that? Geniune question. Can't imagine what a girls response to that would be or the point of it.

Well, I've used it on two new girls since New Years. Banged both of them.

Overwhelmingly positive reactions pretty much universally. Just glancing through my phone really quick are some responses I've gotten:
How did u get to be this witty. (I met this chick about two months ago and she hit me up again today to hang out.)
Hahaha nah never too early!
Haha HI. How's it going?
Etc.

@Ethan

"I don't mean to bust your balls, but you need to work on your text game ASAP. That was pretty bad. I say that with love. I get it, texting is tough."

I would like to see some of your text convos and see if you do better with a girl shit testing your ass the whole time. Please provide a link/s to your text convos

"If she rejected your kiss at the mall then that's not a good sign that the number's gonna go anywhere, but let's work with what we have anyway."

I agree but I wanted to see what would happen anyway and also get a reference experience from

"First off all, anyone who says "pacifc" instead of "specific" I would next so fucking hard. But anyway, let's start with your opening text. ALWAYS include your name in the first text. This avoids the standard "Who is this?" response that girls always give. They know damn well who it is, but it's a power play. They want to gain the dominant position so they'll pretend like they don't even know who you are and make you explain yourself straight out of the gate. Not a good position to start from. Always include your name.

Second, "Hey you" is extremely generic. You can do better than that. Here's my go-to opening text. It's unique, funny, vaguely sexual, and gives the girl my name. "Is it too early for casual text? -Ethan""

I bet you would next a girl who made a slight grammar error but anyway of course I should have included my name but I wanted to try a different route to get a response because lately I would text them my name and number right during/after the approach and text them the next day or so and I would get nothing. So I was trying to just get the broad to respond. That's all.It turns out it worked. About that power play shit. She was shit testing me you can't tell???

That opening text sounds corny as hell. lol Surely you can do better than that.

"After she asked who you were you went down the rabbit hole and started explaining yourself to her. Again, the more you explain the more power you lose. It's a dominance struggle. She's doing all of this to dominate you.

Also, lose the "LOLs". Once again you're acting extremely submissive."

Wtf else could I have done? send her "Hey Babe wanna meet up at my place so we could watch Netflix?". Did you expect me to send her that while she is Doing her "POWER PLAY Bullshit". Yeah right.

Lol I really want to see some of your text convos.

"Your ending text also betrays some mental stuff that you've got going on. You're acting extremely reactive when you say you'll just go out and find more girls to kiss. It's an extremely transparent attempt to not lose face. You're not fooling anyone. This is like the guy who gets rejected and says, "Yeah well you're ugly anyway!" This kind of stuff comes from a negative mindset.

That's just the tip of the iceberg. There's a lot more you need to work on. I'd highly recommend buying the book Flawless Texting ( www.flawlesstexting.com ) That book changed my texting game completely and massively increased my meetup rates. The guy who wrote it is legit and knows what he's talking about."

The likely hood of me meeting this girl was so fucking slim. I wasn't sure If I could've made a comeback from those last texts she was sending and on top of that this broad was wasting my time when I could've been meeting new/down chicks who won't reject my kiss at the mall. So I would rather cut my losses then make any more losses and not get what I want.

How do you know if that's the tip of the iceberg or not??? Interesting... I can't tell if you're trolling or not.

Mr.Calibrated wrote: Met some broad at the mall last Saturday. Got her on an insta-date and shit. Fast forward about an hour I try to kiss her. She rejects my kiss and tells me "I am not that type of girl" so I shake it off and I walk her to the exit of the mall and number close it.

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By the way this broad didn't even claim a bf when we were in person. She said her last relationship/bf was 9-10 months ago.

Also I was getting tired of all those shit tests and she was wasting my fucking time so I end the convo and went to the mall to find another broad.

Text game doesn't exist. It all boils down to how attractive you are and if the girl is available or not.

Btw you need to approach more girls/talk to more girls or do the Approach Anxiety program. When you have more experience you will care less if this dilemma occurs again.

Buddy, it makes no difference at all to me if you get laid or not.

Once again though your attitude is very telling. You're extremely sensitive. Work on this.

@Mr Q. Thank you!!! I remember when I used to follow simple pickup, lots of guys would post text threads 'what should I say' or they would post text threads of successes to show examples of how to text. From my limited experience thus far, if a girl wants to meet up with you, she'll make it easy for you. I remember reading through those 'text game' posts, and it would make me feel really anxious 'like wtf, I'm supposed to learn how to text too?'