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TOPIC: Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong?

Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 15:55 #273129

I really don't know what to do. And when we come back to my apartment it's not like the girls are really drunk. My dick is a pretty good size too (not huge, just bought a bathmate).

One thing that MIGHT be wrong is sometimes we don't have sex, but I'll get them naked and make them cum and then I'll like finish on their ass or tits or something. I sometimes don't push for the full close. Could this be part of the problem? Not actually fucking?

This is really stressing me out and makes the idea of going on more dates just exhausting.

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 16:40 #273132

Try fuking them right in the pussy next time
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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 17:02 #273135

CitySleek wrote: Try fuking them right in the pussy next time


Haha thanks man but do you think this part makes that big of a difference? And how long do you wait to contact etc after they leave your apartment? It seems like you have a lot of experience.

I'm clearly doing something wrong here and any wisdom is welcome

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 18:47 #273139

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You talking about taking them home from the bars? I've had that problem too. Almost none of the girls I brought home from the bar returned my texts and I fucked all of them. Most likely because they regret acting so "shamefully" or something along those lines and don't view you as having any relationship potential. The one girl who did return my texts was a girl who I spent the whole night with after fucking and we talked about life while listening to music and popping pills. So I guess building a connection with the girl after the sex might help
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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 19:07 #273140

Unalloyed wrote: You talking about taking them home from the bars? I've had that problem too. Almost none of the girls I brought home from the bar returned my texts and I fucked all of them. Most likely because they regret acting so "shamefully" or something along those lines and don't view you as having any relationship potential. The one girl who did return my texts was a girl who I spent the whole night with after fucking and we talked about life while listening to music and popping pills. So I guess building a connection with the girl after the sex might help


Nah, not straight from bars. Just dates. Girls I cold approach, or girls I met from online that I set up a date with. We usually meet at a bar first but I'm not picking them up there and going home same night.

In light of that info does it change what you think is going on at all?

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 19:26 #273141

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Good question, and something does not seem to be covered enough in the forum. You see guys here that post high numbers of lays, but most of those new lays don't come back. Following the GLL douchebag style will make things a little hard when it comes to retention.
I suggest you read articles from blackdragon, it complements well what we practice here.
Here's an article that is very relevant to your situation:
www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/05/09/turn-hookup-relationship/

Citysleek's answer might look silly, but it's right on point. Unless you fuck them they won't stick around. And if they don't stick around after you fuck them, at least you had sex. It happens to me all the time, I'm very impatient so I try close the deal right away. I do things to them, that most guys don't, so they feel buyers remorse after sex or after I escalate really hard(get them naked, finger and shit like that). After reading that article you'll get a better idea of what's happening to you and what you need to do.
Unalloyed is right. You need build some connection with them after you fuck them. You need to fuck them a couple of times, for them to stick around

Black Dragon system, is that of 2 dates(which I have a hard time sticking to it, cause I wanna get laid real quick), which comes down to:
first date, increase attraction through touching and sexual talk while keeping ambiguity.
Second date, fuck them
Third date, fuck them ASAP after the second date to lock them in, and avoid buyers remorse(or ASD).

Makes sense?
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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 19:43 #273146

You need to fuck them 3 times. No bs I was running into the same problem of fucking chicks 1 or 2 times and them going cold and did a Skype consultation with a guy named JMULV, 600 lay count. He was running into the same problem, spoke with other advance guys. First date, drinks and bang, 2nd date something fun like Dave and Busters and bang, 3rd date a romantic dinner and bang. After those three dates and bangs she is solid on your rotation. Implement this you will see your retention sky rocket.

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 19:55 #273147

ETA wrote: Good question, and something does not seem to be covered enough in the forum. You see guys here that post high numbers of lays, but most of those new lays don't come back. Following the GLL douchebag style will make things a little hard when it comes to retention.
I suggest you read articles from blackdragon, it complements well what we practice here.
Here's an article that is very relevant to your situation:
www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/05/09/turn-hookup-relationship/

Citysleek's answer might look silly, but it's right on point. Unless you fuck them they won't stick around. And if they don't stick around after you fuck them, at least you had sex. It happens to me all the time, I'm very impatient so I try close the deal right away. I do things to them, that most guys don't, so they feel buyers remorse after sex or after I escalate really hard(get them naked, finger and shit like that). After reading that article you'll get a better idea of what's happening to you and what you need to do.
Unalloyed is right. You need build some connection with them after you fuck them. You need to fuck them a couple of times, for them to stick around

Black Dragon system, is that of 2 dates(which I have a hard time sticking to it, cause I wanna get laid real quick), which comes down to:
first date, increase attraction through touching and sexual talk while keeping ambiguity.
Second date, fuck them
Third date, fuck them ASAP after the second date to lock them in, and avoid buyers remorse(or ASD).

Makes sense?


FUCK man that article is incredible! The comments are great too. I wish we could see some thorough discussion about that here as well. Like you said it's so important but I never ever see it touched on. Thank you so much.

Did you write that/is that your website? Your feedback is great regardless. What is your strategy for after a girl leaves your apartment? As in what exactly do you say in the follow up text or what do you do? And what is ASD?

It's great to get into the weeds about this shit. Again I really appreciate your reply. I feel relief that this is a thing that I can learn to do better with.

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 19:57 #273148



- 600 lay count

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 20:25 #273155

Also @ ETA and whoever else, in another article
on that site he recommends setting up a second date with a girl that night. In person. Do you agree with that? Every time I've tried to do that it seems like she's guaranteed to flake, even if we have banged.

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 22:10 #273167

Chad2192 wrote: Lol'd hard at the 600 lays

For me, if I fuck a girl super quick I can almost guarantee that she won't come back. Usually that goes hand in hand with me not even really trying to build a connection with the chick. If they feel used, most girls will not want to come back around.

I feel that there has to be some definite effort to build something, even if it's not meaningful, in order to get a girl to come back around.

All the girls that have come back multiple times it's because I enjoyed talking to them and they enjoyed talking to me. Really that simple


Thanks man. How often do you attempt to even see them again? And for the ones you do wanna see again, how do you go about that? As in--do you send a text the next day? Or not contact at all afterwards until you wanna bang again that night?

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Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong? 13 Dec 2016 22:13 #273168

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Oh my god fuck Black dragon.
Seriously what a faggot. Ok ok, i dont even know anything about his site, I did read a bit of it once, and the above picture further validates my feelings towards that beta piece of shit.
Hes like "hey, look like a fat average dude and use these words and mind tricks to get laid".
Like no, how about you look as good as possible and try to fuck a girl when you feel like it.
Fuck Black dragon, total liar and pussy
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