TOPIC: Can get girls home with me. But many don't return. What am I doing wrong?

CitySleek wrote: Try fuking them right in the pussy next time

Unalloyed wrote: You talking about taking them home from the bars? I've had that problem too. Almost none of the girls I brought home from the bar returned my texts and I fucked all of them. Most likely because they regret acting so "shamefully" or something along those lines and don't view you as having any relationship potential. The one girl who did return my texts was a girl who I spent the whole night with after fucking and we talked about life while listening to music and popping pills. So I guess building a connection with the girl after the sex might help

ETA wrote: Good question, and something does not seem to be covered enough in the forum. You see guys here that post high numbers of lays, but most of those new lays don't come back. Following the GLL douchebag style will make things a little hard when it comes to retention.
I suggest you read articles from blackdragon, it complements well what we practice here.
Here's an article that is very relevant to your situation:
www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/05/09/turn-hookup-relationship/

Citysleek's answer might look silly, but it's right on point. Unless you fuck them they won't stick around. And if they don't stick around after you fuck them, at least you had sex. It happens to me all the time, I'm very impatient so I try close the deal right away. I do things to them, that most guys don't, so they feel buyers remorse after sex or after I escalate really hard(get them naked, finger and shit like that). After reading that article you'll get a better idea of what's happening to you and what you need to do.
Unalloyed is right. You need build some connection with them after you fuck them. You need to fuck them a couple of times, for them to stick around

Black Dragon system, is that of 2 dates(which I have a hard time sticking to it, cause I wanna get laid real quick), which comes down to:
first date, increase attraction through touching and sexual talk while keeping ambiguity.
Second date, fuck them
Third date, fuck them ASAP after the second date to lock them in, and avoid buyers remorse(or ASD).

Makes sense?

Chad2192 wrote: Lol'd hard at the 600 lays

For me, if I fuck a girl super quick I can almost guarantee that she won't come back. Usually that goes hand in hand with me not even really trying to build a connection with the chick. If they feel used, most girls will not want to come back around.

I feel that there has to be some definite effort to build something, even if it's not meaningful, in order to get a girl to come back around.

All the girls that have come back multiple times it's because I enjoyed talking to them and they enjoyed talking to me. Really that simple