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A lot of times sleeping with multiple women (aka being a player) may cause some heartbreaks (by going cold on her because you don't like her anymore, because she might get jealous, possesive...etc) and from my experience, some women, when they get angry they can go crazy and accuse you of false complaints (i.e harrasment) which is a very serious stuff.
Tell them that you really do enjoy hanging out with them but that you don't feel like you're open/ready for a relationship and that you wanted to let them know before continuing further. I always tell girls that I have no intention of hurting or manipulating feelings, which is 100% truth. Make the choice not to hang out 100% up to them. More often than not, they'll likely think about it and choose to not hang out. If they do end up still wanting to hang out, also make it clear that while a relationship will not come of it, that you don't want the dynamics to change. At the very worst, you get a FWB situation that you can deal with every 2-4 weeks.
If you 100% can't deal with seeing the girl anymore, I'm not sure if there's a clean way without hurting feelings. The advice above does run the chance that she'll be OK with FWB.
This is a valid concern but you have to see when this might happen. The highest chance of a girl accusing you of harassment is at the very beginning, before you have fucked her. What you can do here is hone your skills of getting laid. No matter how much we write about it, you have to experience it yourself in order to learn how to calibrate. As usual, you have to maximize your looks and hit the numbers. If she finds you attractive you can escalate on her way more easily. Also, if you want to lead a life of abundance with women, you will have lower your tolerance of drama. Always watch out for crazy bitches, not worth it.
Another phase is after you have fucked her a couple of times. Chances of drama coming from her go high if you are not consistent with your behavior. If you consider her a fuckbuddy but then you go on and act boyfriendish, then back to fuckbuddy behavior, this will confuse her and you will see some drama coming from her. Any sane girl, will not accuse you of harassment if you have fucked a few times. At the very worst she will give you ultimatums about your relationship. Most girls do not stalk guys. If that happens you have every damn right to call the police on her. Overall your approach should be to avoid drama whenever arises. No arguments over texts, over the phone or in person with any girl that is not your girlfriend. Like I posted on your other thread. You do not owe her anything. Do not engage in any arguments!!!! This will only encourage her to behave that way.
Bottom line, you should train yourself to sense "crazy" and stay away from it.
From experience, no girl that I have met more than once has gone full on crazy on me.
As I think more about it, the reason that it has never happened to me is because I watch out for a girl's emotional and social IQ. As you date more often, you will understand what is normal behavior for each social setting. You will pick up on small red flags within the first date/interaction and you will be able to weed out the weird ones.
For more information on this, read Chris' articles on fuckbuddy retention as well as blackdragonblog.
You just have to have some proof that she want you. Save your texts on phone and facebook. I also have an app that record all my phone calls and you decide which one you want to record. Better safe than sorry.
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