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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 26 Sep 2016 23:25 #267405

Hi everyone I need some advice. Last 2 years I was very addicted to porn and just recently kicked the habit. I want to start dating again but I am a little confused on what to do. I plan on approaching 25-30 girls/week til the holidays but I can't have sex atm because of porn induced ED so I feel that the best I can do is get a few dates.

Because of this I am actually a little reluctant to start approaching because I am afraid by the end of it I will really have nothing to show for except for a couple of go no where dates. My self-esteem/confidence is pretty low at the moment because I have been struggling very hard to quit porn but was unable to do so until recently.

I don't know if anyone here ever had this problem or can relate to this but. Maybe I am looking at this the wrong way but I am just feeling a little confused here. Thanks

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 29 Sep 2016 00:53 #267533

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Bro, you're literally just creating imaginary problems for yourself.

I fuck a new girl or two every week and still have time to jerk off to porn probably twice a day, while on Finasteride (a potentially libido-killing drug). If I can get it up, so can you.

You don't have "porn-induced ED," you're having performance anxiety issues due to a negative mindset that can more or less be chalked up to hypochondria because you read about some dumb shit online. Make the approaches, meet the women, and fuck them if they let you. Your dick is fine, you just need to change your mindset.

I wrote a piece on how to cure performance anxiety recently, I'll drop the link below. I hope it helps.

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 02:37 #267585

Dude, go get a girl. Whole point of giving up porn is to get real pussy. I found GLL because I first said fuck this I don't want to watch porn anymore and I want a real girl. The idea of giving up porn and jerking off so that you can reach some reboot milestone is insane. Do it so you can bring the heat to some girl and saw her in half with your penis.

Marjority of guys with a porn problem can solve it by getting pussy

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 03:07 #267587

What t wolf said x100

I straight up have had days where I jacked off 5 times and then fucked a girl. No such thing as porn induced ED
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 04:02 #267591

Yeah I've never had ED from porn. Only excessive alcohol, but that's pretty much standard.

I recently stopped porn for about a week and then came after like 5 minutes with a CONDOM. Nutting with a condom is like rare for me after years of raw doggie.

For me, jacking off with a fleshlight and condom every couple days makes it so I don't come before wanting to. Don't do deathgrip barehand shit and don't jack off to porn that is out of your league for a first date hookup and your dick should be optimal. Training yourself to come with less visual/pressure stimulation than an actual girl will make actual sex that much better
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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 09:33 #267604

Bad Idea Bear wrote: What t wolf said x100

I straight up have had days where I jacked off 5 times and then fucked a girl. No such thing as porn induced ED


Just because you don't have it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I'm a horny fucking sex machine because I don't fap ever. I can barely even go anywhere because I can't stand how horny I feel around women. But when I do fap even once, I literally have limp dick for 2 days afterwards. Every fucking time.

We're all different. This is like telling an alcoholic it's fine to drink on occasion since you never had a problem with it. Very irresponsible and flat out dangerous advice.

OP would do wisely to listen to guys who have had the same issue instead of guys who never had it to begin with. The advice itself however will be the same; just go on as many dates as you can. Try to have as much sex as you can, even if you can't get it up. That's the only way to rewire your brain to start liking sex more than porn. Source: cold, hard experience.
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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 10:42 #267605

Gotta disagree with you here.

How many times has OP tried to have sex with a girl before he gave himself an official diagnosis of "porn induced ED"?

It's performance anxiety, like Tyson said.

Nearly every sexual issue is actually just performance anxiety.

The REASON why I don't get "porn induced ED" is because I don't allow self limiting beliefs like that to control my sexuality.

It's also because I have extremely low sexual anxiety. That's the only difference between you and OP vs. me and T Wolf. It always comes back to sexual anxiety (which is fixed by trying to have sex with girls, even if you "fail")

In fact, I KNOW this is OPs problem because of the nature of the question. If he was sexually confident, he would just try to fuck girls regardless of whether he thought his dick would work. The fact that he has ruled out having sex PROVES that his problem is rooted in fear. In his situation id literally just throw my limp dick at chicks because I don't care.

That's ironically also the mindset that will cure your ED, OP
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!

So long, and thanks for all the fish!

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 11:35 #267608

Thanks for the responses everyone. Let me elaborate a bit more.

Last time I tried to have sex was 2 weeks ago with 2 different girls. The first girl just wasn't feeling it and I couldn't even get a semi making out with her. 2nd girl was dtf and I had her basically naked on the couch, sucking her tits and nothing, not even a semi.

It may very well be performance anxiety as I haven't even been on dates til the last 2 for over 2 years when all I did was watch porn and jack off.

www.yourbrainonporn.com/how-do-i-know-if...ed-porn-related-test

BUT, I did the test above and I can't even get hard masturvating on my own without porn and that's def not related to performance anxiety.

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 11:43 #267609

I guess everyone can have their own opinions here , But I 100% believe porn induced ED does exist. I use to have it CRAYCRAY I highly suggest you you to read the book " Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction "

Everyone is wired differently and everyone will have a different response to an addiction problem .

I have written a long post about my experience with porn induced ED Ill post the link here http://www.naturallyhard.net/?p=184

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 11:43 #267610

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Go get a hormone panel done. If you can't get hard by yourself jerking off then it sounds like a more underlying issue than Porn induced ED.

How is your erection quality when you watch porn?

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Dating during nofap/porn rebooting 30 Sep 2016 12:19 #267612

Thx Theaverage guy I will read it

dc7 that's just the thing, I can get hard instantly with porn and stay hard. Even if I start fantasizing about the porn I used to watch it does the trick which is why I strongly believe my problem is porn related

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Probably is then. Stop watching porn and you will start slowly becoming sensitized to less visually stimulating things again.

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