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...you know there is a 95% chance it will not end well?
Please hear me out and let me explain my personal situation before jumping to yes.
I recently graduated college and moved to a new city where I don't know anyone and I currently take the bus to work every morning at the same time. Last few weeks I noticed this one girl who is literally the girl of my dreams, like a perfect 10 appearance wise, the kind I'd wifey up.
I've seen her around 4-5 times now probably and we're always make eye contact and I am pretty well socially calibrated so I pick up other subtle IOIs as well. This is a no brainer and under any other situation I'd have approached her in a heartbeat.
HOWEVER, currently I am a total fuck up on the inside. I am a recovering from heavy drug/alcohol abuse and also ED from too much porn so emotionally I am going through a really rough time and have a lot of mood swings to where I feel borderline suicidal at times. I have no family/friends for support at the moment since I moved away from college and most day I speak less than 20 words to my coworkers who are all significantly older than me. The only thing I feel I have to offer atm is my looks.
I know there's a chance she's not even single or I'd ever even see her again but I am pretty conflicted on what I should do. I also know it's not good to place too much emphasis on one girl but I see hot girls all the time and this is literally the 1 in 1000 chick I see looks wise.
The best case scenario is of course I approach her and she becomes my GF but I am realistic and the most likely outcome assuming she's single is we go out once or twice and she realizes what a fuck up I am and goes no contact on me. I also know there is a finite window for me to act, I can run into her at most twice before approaching before she loses interest because I took too long to act.
It's been 1.5 years since I cold approached so of course I am also dealing with AA.
I have considered how I'd feel down the road if I never approached this girl and on some level I'd regret it but on another I also know there are other girls like her out there, just don't know when.
Maan. YOU DON'T FUCKING KNOW SHIT ABOUT HER. May be she is more fucked up than you. So get the fuck out of your head, of this fucking forum, and talk to girl of your dreams. Whatever we say to you, wouldn't you be happier if you just approach her and figure out, may be she thinks you're guy of her dream?
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