TOPIC: Jstone says hi

Yo dudes, sorry about my lack of approaches. My schoolwork is piling up and I got some pretty big projects and exams that are currently eating up all my time and motivation. Fucking Nursing school man

Anyways, I probs wont meet my quota this week. But I'll still be getting those numbers in.
Props to all you dudes out there working on the AA program, approaching girls, and getting laid. Keep it Lit.
In other news...

Cold approach date #4:
This was the girl I met at the bus stop, the one I initially thought wasnt gunna want anything to do with me. But we chatted for a while and eventually told me she thought i was attractive and was turned on by ability to just go up and talk to her. AA program success at work boys. Anyways I meet up with girl a few days ago and we both really get along. She's really cute. We get back to her place, chill, watch netflix and make out a bit. I had good feelings about this girl, and she definitely showed interest in seeing me again. The one bugaboo is the fact she actually has a BF that she's on a break with right now. She was totally honest about it, which I respect. He is currently visiting right now and spending the weekend with her, but I'm hoping what I have to offer will trump whatever he has to their dwindling relationship (or so it appears). The fact of the matter is this guy is fat, and I mean fat, and seems like a dork. And I came along and she was complimenting a few days ago on my body and how attracted to it she was, but idk if thats enough for me to win in this situation. My fear is that this dude is somehow gunna make a move this weekend to try and rekindle their relationship or something, and I'll get the boot. I mean I initially had confidence that this dude didnt stand a chance against Jstone, but maybe their is a deep emotional connection they have that I just cant compete with. We'll found out more on monday. Any advice from you guys would be great! I'm not sweating it too much, but I definitley dig this girl

Yeah!! School is a bitch!!

Bro come on. That dude's got no chance given what you've said so far. If they're on a break from the relationship, he fucked up. The only thing he has is emotional connection on you right now. What she lacked was options, now you're in the picture. Just remain calm, treat her like any other girl and hit her up like in a week from your first date and set date number 2, if she hits you up before then, set up date number 2 then.

Hey dudes, need little advice:
The girl from date 4 is being a little shitty right now. At first things were really cool when we met up on thursday. But like i said, she has a boyfriend that shes "on a break with" right now. They met up over the weekend, we barely talked, im sure they smashed and what not. Now I'm just worried this fat bastard somehow is gunna kill my chances of seeing this girl again. Shes been acting shitty over text (stupid I know, but when you talk to enough girls you just get it), and she finally told me this morning "I really enjoyed thursday, but I just felt so incredibly guilty afterwards . So i told her back I had a good time too, and that I want to know more about what she means.
Any chance I can salvage this? I mean what could I do? I'm def better looking than her bf, but idk if thats enough. I'm already just counting my losses and preparing to move on. Its really emotionally draining knowing that putting all this effort into finding quality girls keeps on leading to flops. At least I know I'm getting stronger through this process.
Fuck yea, gunna make this a good day. Sorry kinda ranted, but any quality advice is welcome.

Jstone! Man. That sucks. Go get loose. You care alot about this. Some would say too much. I would say too much. You need to come back. In sales, there's this thing called the walkaway point. This is the point when a deal is no longer acceptable and if you cross it, you fuck yourself.

I know how that feels but you know how the game is. It's a numbers game and girls flip flop like there is no tomorrow. Yes it's draining but you only become better by putting your best foot forward everyday.

Now, with everything that was just said, just try shit man. Be selfish and make yourself as happy as you can from this situation. If the girl doesn't get it, cut it loose. No point in stressing a girl. I expect you to tell me the same when I'm losing my mind over some girl.

If you want try What are you really worried about tho?

Come on. She felt guilty. Really? Fuck that. She's fronting. No one ever says the real shit. Try to figure out whats the real.

PS - Keep approaching. I know times get crazy. Its the same for me to at times. But I notice when I don't approach much or at all, I start getting hung up on ONE girl. Like she's the only one in the world. Much love (no homo.)

Jstone I'm going to have to agree with slick. Just keep approaching brother. Don't even bother with girl 4. Text her this:

Girl, if you change your mind you have my number.

Text her that and toss her to the back of the line. Don't hit her up anymore. Leave it up to her. Don't wonder who,what, why. It doesn't matter. I have a feeling you will hear from her again. My 2nd date girl went cold on me for 2 weeks, she hit me up again a couple days ago, she wants to hang out. Girls man.

Jstone wrote: Hey dudes, need little advice:
The girl from date 4 is being a little shitty right now. At first things were really cool when we met up on thursday. But like i said, she has a boyfriend that shes "on a break with" right now. They met up over the weekend, we barely talked, im sure they smashed and what not. Now I'm just worried this fat bastard somehow is gunna kill my chances of seeing this girl again. Shes been acting shitty over text (stupid I know, but when you talk to enough girls you just get it), and she finally told me this morning "I really enjoyed thursday, but I just felt so incredibly guilty afterwards . So i told her back I had a good time too, and that I want to know more about what she means.
Any chance I can salvage this? I mean what could I do? I'm def better looking than her bf, but idk if thats enough. I'm already just counting my losses and preparing to move on. Its really emotionally draining knowing that putting all this effort into finding quality girls keeps on leading to flops. At least I know I'm getting stronger through this process.
Fuck yea, gunna make this a good day. Sorry kinda ranted, but any quality advice is welcome.

Go find yourself a new girl.

Agreed with all here, plus women are not logically inclined. She messaged she felt guilty, she means something else. What she means is, she is hinting that she wants to stay with fat ass.

Move on and do what ganso said. If she replies back, then you know it is on. If she doesn't, then I would presume there was nothing you could have done anyway to salvage it.

Yea, all good points. I know I was acting like a little bitch yesterday, but I kinda came to my senses. I'll get back to my senses and move on.
Anyways we talked a bit more and she agreed to hang out more, but doesnt want to do anymore than just making out and cuddling. Said it would "be a while" before she felt comfortable doing more. Kind of ambiguous statement haha, we'll see. Until then I'll be looking for a replacement

Went out to approach today, but not too many great opportunities.
I could have approached this one chick in a TJ max but i was being a bitch cuz other people were around and my built up AA was keeping me in head. Tomorrow I'll do better.
Cold approach girl update:
Things have been going really well. I can tell she likes me, just a little unsure of herself with her bf involved. I feel a little unsure too, and I'm not certain how far I wanna take this.
Were taking our sexual steps date by date. Like we hung out yesterday and I moved up to rubbing her pussy over her leggings and letting me see her booty (she has a great ass btw, If i seal the deal I'll try to get pics). Next time she'll be down to let me finger her, and we'll see where it goes from there.
I just think it'll be a whole different thing when we have sex though. Like idk how we'll feel about that considering she was a bf (seems like a dying relationship though), plus I'm just still looking for a fuckbuddy. But we'll take it day by day.
Ive approached approximately 90 girls, got 5 dates, one blowjob, and potential sex with this girl. I dont think those numbers are that bad for a rookie. Especially when you consider that I have a new girl with potential at least once a month.

Yo Jstone! Just caught up with your log. Is cold approach girl the same girl you mentioned a few posts back?

Also I saw your goals - I also decided to give up drinking while on heavy dosage of accutane. Sucks, especially when going out at night but whatever - it's only temporary.

What happened to you quit smoking goal? Did you succeed or is that on the back burner?
(And just a fair warning, I won't be around to see your responses until at least a week from now

Yep, same girl! things are going better, she seemed iffy at first.
Yea, I feel good about giving up drinking though, I like it not having a negative effect on my life (accutane is going really well btw)

And i gave up my quit smoking goal, kept fucking up. Decided to just quit drinking instead. I honestly only smoke if im on kratom or alcohol. the buzz from smoking (cigars mostly) goes great with Kratom. May give up kratom for a while, though I dont use it very much.

Stick around man! Miss seeing you around

Jstone have you tried looking into vaporizing nicotine instead of smoking it? It has no combustion so it doesn't have an affect on fitness and stuff like that, but you will still be addicted to nicotine though.