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So, apparently I had noticed a nice set of cleavage last week at work and mentioned it to a colleague, as she walked on by. I'm a bouncer on weekends.
I get a call yesterday - female had complained about my comment and mentioned me by name... Which is kind of odd, as it's only something I give them when I'm trying to talk a guy down from a fight or when I'm talking to a woman who actually wants to chat. My question is this... anyone smart as to what the fuck women dress up super hot for, only to get insulted when a man notices it and comments on it? What's the deal with that? Feminists pretending to dress up 'for themselves?' Lesbians? What? Copenhagen Capricorn
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tell them they should be happy they're getting attention from a man like you
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If your in the USA, you can't do that shit at work unless you are prepared to get fired. There is no defense. I don't make the rules. No business will back you up unless they want to be sued.
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That's just how it is. They want the attention but don't want it directly addressed to them. I'm not sure why you commented on her cleavage, especially at work. Regardless of what she's wearing, you gotta maintain some level of professionalism in the work place because as an employee, it's implied.
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Ah, you said something inappropriate at work, bro. Unfortunately, bouncers don't get a get out of jail free card for crazy bitches who wanna complain. It's the service industry.
On the other hand, when you aren't working, you can say whatever the fuck you want. =) It's just how work sucks sometimes. I've had this kinda shit too and it's better to be professional behind the bar, in front of the door or anywhere inside the workplace. Saves you a lot of bullshit at the end of the day. Feeling ya on this one. Returning member. Newbie level.
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LMAO! This brosef got game.
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Dave Chappelle dealt with this exact problem.
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Hahahahaha you should hear the shit virtually everyone in the service industry says to each other about customers. If she's hot/has huge tits/is a MILF/dressed like a slut/rude when they order/etc we're going to comment on it. If she orders a virgin pina colada, we're going to keep a straight face while making it then piss ourselves laughing when she walks away. This holds true for every place I've worked at.
Where you messed up is you said it where she could hear - you have to be professional in front of customers and keep the shit-talking between staff only. Bad timing/luck. |
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Mmh, it's kind of all that goes on in the long, long lulls. We shoot the shit, talk about the hotties moving around, women in general.. Pretty much a regular night, when you're two or three guys standing around with nothing to do.
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She would've passed us when we started talking amongst ourselves. And where the hell did she get my name from? I never talked to her. Complaint said I directed the comment directly at her -- nuh-uh? I may be a douchebag, but I dont cat call women when I'm working. But hell - bitch, put some clothes on, if you dont want men to look at the merchandise? Copenhagen Capricorn
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Lmao basically summarized as this
If u r attractive and stare they take it as compliment If u r not attractive and stare they think u r a weirdo Therefore the chick did not find op attractive Too bad this forum doesn't have female opinions cuz on some other dating sites the chicks literally say the same thing Edit for reference forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=171957563 Female basically says it's okay to stare if u r hot
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That explains everything. I'm an ugly fuck! That's fine, I can work with that! LMAO Notice I only talked to my colleague about her cleavage - apparently the rest didnt catch my attention very much. ![]() Copenhagen Capricorn
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