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Since we have guys doing this for various countries and there was a thread about where Americans and Canadians can do well in the world, wanted to post this.
I know that with the rise in Trump's popularity and the anger towards illegal immigrants and Muslims, it must be rubbing off in a bad way on guys that aren't White, Black, or East Asian (who I am actually seeing doing quite well in my area as of late). I find it rubbing off poorly on guys that can get mistaken for either of the brown races, no matter how assimilated they may be. I've found that girls care a lot about what their friends think, what media stereotypes are, and all of that stuff.
Black guys definitely have parts of the country they can get laid in just for being black and in the top 20% of their race and white guys can more or less do well anywhere if they have their shit together.
Some Hispanic dudes that look white or Mediterranean can easily pulled based on their race and this even applies to Middle Eastern guys that can pass for white. But for the legitimately brown looking guys like a Wilmer Valderrama (good looking but still darker skinned), it seems like there is a stigma because of the way things are right now with US and world politics.
I've managed to do alright in Chicago and Seattle, both cities were particularly kind to me. The online dating scene there was particularly friendly to me, had the most Tinder matches in Seattle but Chicago was a close runner up.
Most of my lays there were all white and not only that, they were above average looking. I also saw a good number of Hispanic and foreign looking guys with white girls in those cities which undoubtedly helped my chances because it was accepted there. Problem is Seattle is crazy expensive and I cannot deal with Chicago winters.
As much as people praise NYC, it was particularly rough for me, I hated my time there and had it the worst in that city. Even got called a few racial slurs by angry dudes when gaming in the bars in Manhattan and the women were largely unreceptive towards me.
What other cities in the USA are particularly kind to brownish looking guys with their shit together? Cities where guys that look more ethnic or brown can do quite well and pull a lot of high quality girls?
A good way to see this would probably be to ask you guys how common it is for you to meet or see guys that look "brown" (like Wilmer Valderrama) in your area having success. I saw it a good bit in Chicago and Seattle, rarely in NYC.
Fuckin A never seen a better city in America for daygame than NYC. Women are the most aggressive I've ever seen. Approaches, staring, stalking, you name it. On the street, subway, elevator. The women of NYC are the most aggressive with direct eye contact/eye fucking I've seen so far.
I barely checked out nightlife in NYC, but undoubtedly off the hook based on what I saw in the day.
If you can't pull in NYC, something is very, very wrong. The women are just as horny as the men.
As far as places go there isn't one exact place. I suppose if you're in the deep south then you may have trouble, you sound like am immigrant to me especially with your talk of being assimilated. But generally it's more of a girl thing, as in some girls are racist, just like some guys are racist. I'm friends with a guy that once told me "I don't have a problem with black people just nig*ers" and I'm a black guy.
He's a nice guy, just raised that way.
tl;dr If you feel like you can't get a date based on your race you probably aren't talking to enough girls. Some girls are open to dating guys that look like you (I'm assuming you're after the whitest of white girls) some aren't, end of story.
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I am Indian but have been confused for "Muslim" and "Mexican" before so I can offer my experience with this.
NYC is definitely rough for most brown guys and I think that any race that is facing a lot of scrutiny or bad stereotyping by the media will struggle in areas where girls are very status conscious. I have found that NYC fits the bill of the area where women are constantly chasing after guys that they can brag to their friends about, most of the times that guy is a rich white guy working in Finance/Wall Street. Local women of NYC are very closed off to going for brown guys so you're going to have a lot of issues there.
The one thing that saves this city is the amount of fresh transplants from other parts of the USA and large number of women from other countries that come as tourists. I've managed to do really well with girls from these demographics but I will repeat myself, do not expect to pull from the local Manhattan princess or the girls actually born and raised in NYC.
I've done well with midwestern girls for some reason which is great because most of the hot blondes are originally from there. Best looking blonde I ever slept with was from Ohio, she was tall and gorgeous and had a face similar to Ke$ha. I still remember that smell of honey that came from her when I woke up next to her lol. One other time my Hispanic friend and I went out to the bars to nightgame and these two hot blondes from Minnesota approached us and started dancing with us. I eventually ended up sleeping with the blonde that danced with me a few weeks later.
My friend is a Hispanic guy who bartends in Wisconsin, he has almost exclusively been with hot blondes and the white guys are okay with it, he has made some good friends and loves it there.
Florida is also very legit, I've had a lot of good experiences with girls from there who are hot and friendly.
A hot and sexy guy is a hot and sexy guy wherever he goes (with some exceptions) and especially in the USA. If you pass the threshold from Good Looking to Very Good Looking and then work hard to look Hot & Sexy (kinda what is meant by edge) then you'll clean up wherever you are. It's like the best sexual insurance you can take out. Hotness is loved by men, women, teenager and all. People love to see, talk to and fuck hot people. It's almost the number one rule of sex.
^ I don't think that necessarily applies as much if you're a brown guy, hot girls in certain areas won't get with you even if you are relatively handsome for your race. If you're a white guy in the US, you can bypass the location rule and some black guys can as well but all other races need to play attention to their location because it does factor in a lot when it comes to getting hot girls.
In some places in the USA, I literally get treated like a king. I mean I walk into a bar and have at least 3 cute girls approach me. In other areas, I can approach all night and get blown off any girl north of a 6.
Maybe it has nothing to do with my race but I rarely see brown guys pulling in these areas and some of these areas, yet I see overweight and ugly white guys with girls way out of their league a good bit.
Now if there are brown guys on this forum pulling hot girls in racist backwater states like Kansas, Georgia, or Missouri then I'd like to hear from them but location definitely matters.
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