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I'm a very unapproachable guy compared to Klbsa. I'm bald with a beard and kinda big. Some women still approach though. Usually it's with "You look angry, smile" Some girl the other night goes to her friend right in front of me "This is the guy you thought was cute, right?" Too bad neither of them were attractive. If you look close enough, you'll pick up on the signs. I catch women staring a lot. Sometimes they'll smile. Then I usually come over and say hello.
Funny, I just matched on Bumble with some chick who was out at the place I was Friday night. She just hits me with "Hey were you at <name of place> Friday night?" So in other words, she was there and wanted me to approach...I did not. She's cute/hot but not my type. Case in point: Don't rely on women to approach.
WoodisGood wrote: In my experience, girls that walk up to you and talk to you as an approach you are usually either drunk or low quality. Most quality girls are shy and wait for the guy to approach them. Your mindstate should be:
When girls "approach" they look at you and make eye contact. That's all you need for the green light to talk to them
if I was waiting for this I would wait my all life and die... never that happened to me that women would look at me and smile
This discussion is kinda interesting in that guys who are probably not in the upper league of men don't really get approached and guys that are get approached, but more often than not by women they don't find appealing (given most men in the 9 to 10 looks bracket want 8, 9, 10s, this makes a lot of sense.) Also, those that game in bars and stores seem to get approached more.
I don't think - even at my future peak - that I'll ever be approached by a girl on the street where I tend to do this. Maybe if I start going to bars? I can think of 2-4 times where girls have approached me back home and were on my level or above and 2 or more times that were in social situations where approaching was acceptable. Basically, I don't think my looks will reach the standard required.
And that's all there is to this - very high level looks and approachability in situations where approaching is normal mean approaches by girls. It's not impossible, but it's just improbable that a guy reaches a 9 or a 10 in girls eyes. They'd probably still have to approach anyway because their female counterpart (8, 9, 10) don't need to approach and usually won't if they could.
Yeah, it seems that at any sort of group social gathering, I will be approached by various people just asking me random questions or chatting me up. This happens day and night.
I had at least 16 or 17 people chat me up over the course of the past 4 days since thursday. Just really casual conversations.
do you get approached everyday? Do you have pictures somewhere?
When I go out in public I get approached frequently..... I wouldn't say every day... But often. But like I said I don't think it has as much to do with how I look as my general aura of approchability.
The only group of girls that don't approach me are early to mid twenties, but I suppose that's due to my age (39).... But teenage girls like to flirt with me, although I doubt its for any other reason than their own amusement.
Im old and have been this way for some time and would say that I disagree with Chris's idea that its bad to seem like BF material to girls..... It gets you laid just as much as throwing the man slut thing around. If you can come across as a good guy and/or a man slut it opens the door to sluts and not so slutty girls. Even the slutty ones get jealous and want me to themselves.
The truth is that its not just girls that feel comfortable talking to me. Dudes tend to chat me up too (no homo). I have a brother who is very much the same as me in his approachability as well. Again.... I think its how we carry ourselves.
I have an old pof account with some pics. Most of these pics are 2-3 years old but I look pretty much the same.... My avatar here is only a few months old.
I've been approached by 7 more women over the last couple of nights. I'd say 4 of the women were hot, the others were on the average/plain side.
I would like to approach more, but at this rate, have little incentive. The next night I go out, I am going to commit to x number of approaches, even if it's only 2 or 3 the entire night.
Off topic: at the cafe, I saw some sleazy 60 year old is trying to pick up a 20 year old, promising her $500 modeling jobs. Super creepy. Fortunately I didn't have much to eat or I would've thrown up. Actually, it was TWO 60 year old geezers trying to tag team this girl. One of them offered her a ride home, lol. WTF?
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