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Hey, I just thought of something. I know that Chris has kinda told his stories about himself on he went from "loser" to a super player in time. I know that he also talked a little bit about Scotty and how he improved his game overtime too. However, I still would like to know exactly how and when they finally came up with the ideas that actually worked. They all couldn't have been just by accident. Furthermore, a guy can accumulate all of the experience in cold and warm approaching he wants throughout his whole life and still never get any hot girls because he just wasn't able to learn well from his mistakes. Even with all of the help I've been getting from guys like Chris and others on this forum and from other countless sources along with having practiced for over a year and half I still have only gotten three lays and none of them were with any girl who was at least an 8 out of 10 in hotness.
If you're not having success, it's because you're not committed to this 100%
Ding ding ding ding!
I've been working on this stuff for almost a year now, and don't really have much to show (I got laid once last August), but that's because I've been half-assing it. Scratch that... quarter-assing it. Plus, this is my first year even imagining I can be anything but a sexless nerd. At this stage it's about
progress, not results
*. I have a lot of other stuff I'm up to (2 side projects in addition to a full time job) and I'm having a hard time following the GLL advice to stop multitasking. I've at least accepted that if I want to really get results with girls, I have to stop worrying about everything else, including career, money, friends/social life, etc. I have to dedicate a couple of years to only getting laid. I'm working out now how to wrap up the side projects and basically half-ass my career so it just keeps me decently financed (no need to get promoted right now). This is a consistent theme around here. Stop multitasking.
I started the AA program last July. Still working on Week 7. If I focused exclusively on that I would have finished it in October. Admittedly I had some other stuff (addictions, depression/anxiety) I needed to make my #1 goal to fix in the mean time (which I did, because I put everything else, including GLL stuff, on hold).
Are you in a similar boat? Have you pushed everything else off your plate and become obsessed with maxing out your sex life? It's hard to do that. At least for me. I always want to do everything at once.
The forum is riddled with examples of total transformations. dc7 is a pretty good example. So is Terminator.
*Even with scoring only once I have made substantial progress. I was always terrified to make the first move on a girl all the way back to high school. Now it's basically second nature to at least kiss a girl on the second date. Also, before I got started, I went 5 years with 0 dates. The last year I've gone out with 15+ girls on around 20 dates.
The longer you do this, the more experience you accumulate and the more you adapt and learn as to what works for you and what doesn't.
As you progress you should always actively be improving your looks, style, etc. and eventually it all culminates to the point where you know you can slay a few hotties every few weeks if you put the effort in. It isn't like something just "clicks" and you learn shit, you learn as you go. Even after reading almost every one of Chris' articles about women and watching his videos I still had to go out and approach hundreds of girls and go on tonns of dates before it started clicking for me, and I started learning what did and didn't work, and I felt comfortable doing so.
If you have been on 15 dates with one lay you need to improve your end of first date game. Getting the 15 dates is great, you just need to be more aggressive toward the end of the first date.
Even if it's a total shit date. Go for a hug at the end and transition it into a kiss. I have ended up banging chicks ( not on the first date ) after being on a date with them that I thought sucked. At the end I went for the hug / kiss and ending making out. After the making out the girl said " before the kiss I didn't think you liked me". It just goes to show, you never know what is on their mind until you make a move. If she's not down for the hug, she is probably not down for anything else and you can cross her off your list.
Get some Pheni or Red Monkey. It helps, for real. You will be smoother on the date.
If your going to take the time to go on the date, at least make it clear physically that you are into her.
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I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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