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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 15:35 #253360

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I'm putting money on your face not being that bad and you using this negative attitude as an excuse to protect your ego.

Cold approaching is tough. It involves mostly getting rejected, no matter how good you look. If you have an ego, you can't handle all the rejection. Also, if you have an ego, you can't admit you have an ego, and that you can't handle rejection. So you use negativity as an excuse to not even try.

Have you posted any pictures here so people can actually see what you look like? And when you post those pictures, do you honestly try to look as good as you can in them? When people are wallowing in negativity they tend to intentionally fulfill their own prophecy to prove they're right.

The internet is full of whiny complainers. That doesn't prove anything.

Your face would have to be pretty awful for it to be impossible for you to get to a 7-7.5/10 for most girls. Even then, it wouldn't mean you'd have no sex life, it would just mean you'd have to settle for average-looking girls yourself. I don't know, I smell a psychological problem masking laziness. Getting ripped and jacked is not easy. Developing a keen, up-to-date sense of style and being willing to stand out (and potentially mess up and stand out badly) isn't easy. Having the balls to walk up to girls and hit on them is definitely not easy.

Throwing in the towel and saying, "I'm too ugly, why bother" is really easy.
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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 15:59 #253363

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Roll Call wrote: Yes the white male is #1 everywhere

. I am in the UK right now on holiday and I see guys UGLIER than me (i am mixed race, 6'8, 204cm....) with girls who are hotter than my current GF. Most girls I see outside are not dating tall guys, muscular guys. They are dating guys who look just like you.


i don't consider myself shot, i like my height, i'm 183cm (6foot), but i m pf aranic etnicity, it's not the most beautifull race out there, i wish i was another etnicity...if you look around theres no attractive arabic guys...in fact i'm lucky because i could be a lot uglier

The fact that i have no muscle is a problem, to make muscle you have to stick with the and it's hard witg depression, sometimes i'm so depressed i don't move from couch to eat and shower, i'm getting treatment and it's working a little bit

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 16:56 #253366

maybe try getting an arabic girl?

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 17:05 #253370

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sweatervest wrote: I'm putting money on your face not being that bad and you using this negative attitude as an excuse to protect your ego.

Cold approaching is tough. It involves mostly getting rejected, no matter how good you look. If you have an ego, you can't handle all the rejection. Also, if you have an ego, you can't admit you have an ego, and that you can't handle rejection. So you use negativity as an excuse to not even try.

Have you posted any pictures here so people can actually see what you look like? And when you post those pictures, do you honestly try to look as good as you can in them? When people are wallowing in negativity they tend to intentionally fulfill their own prophecy to prove they're right.

The internet is full of whiny complainers. That doesn't prove anything.

Your face would have to be pretty awful for it to be impossible for you to get to a 7-7.5/10 for most girls. Even then, it wouldn't mean you'd have no sex life, it would just mean you'd have to settle for average-looking girls yourself. I don't know, I smell a psychological problem masking laziness. Getting ripped and jacked is not easy. Developing a keen, up-to-date sense of style and being willing to stand out (and potentially mess up and stand out badly) isn't easy. Having the balls to walk up to girls and hit on them is definitely not easy.

Throwing in the towel and saying, "I'm too ugly, why bother" is really easy.


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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 21:57 #253399

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Roll Call wrote: maybe try getting an arabic girl?


To be honest i like white girls too, maybe because i was born and raised here in italy and not in my other country! I don't blame black and asian girls who like white man though!
Last year i met one arabic girl in a club and i had sex with her, but i wasnt very attracted to her

i blame mother nature for giving some people attractivness and most others not, discrimination based on look is an important and overlooked problem

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 22:10 #253400

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sweatervest wrote: I'm putting money on your face not being that bad and you using this negative attitude as an excuse to protect your ego.

Cold approaching is tough. It involves mostly getting rejected, no matter how good you look. If you have an ego, you can't handle all the rejection. Also, if you have an ego, you can't admit you have an ego, and that you can't handle rejection. So you use negativity as an excuse to not even try.

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Sorry but i never said that rejection is painfull to me, i don't give a damn about rejection, i don't have emotional stress after a rejection
I never had girls intrested in me in my whole life, i've been rejected since i was 15...i also don't receive indicators of interest from woman...that kind of indicators of interest that EVERY cute/attractive guy receives when walking next to woman on the street, i'm talking about any guy, even the ones that know nothing about GLL and AA program

anyway i have bipolar disorder too, i take my meds, what else i can do about it? bipolar disorder is a lifelong illness

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 23:20 #253404

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Aside from that being the most homosexual article I ever read, yeah they're right about the attractiveness part. Girls lust immediately over top 5% of guys
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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 12 Jun 2016 00:05 #253407

Thrice wrote:

sweatervest wrote: I'm putting money on your face not being that bad and you using this negative attitude as an excuse to protect your ego.

Cold approaching is tough. It involves mostly getting rejected, no matter how good you look. If you have an ego, you can't handle all the rejection. Also, if you have an ego, you can't admit you have an ego, and that you can't handle rejection. So you use negativity as an excuse to not even try.

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Sorry but i never said that rejection is painfull to me, i don't give a damn about rejection, i don't have emotional stress after a rejection
I never had girls intrested in me in my whole life, i've been rejected since i was 15...i also don't receive indicators of interest from woman...that kind of indicators of interest that EVERY cute/attractive guy receives when walking next to woman on the street, i'm talking about any guy, even the ones that know nothing about GLL and AA program

anyway i have bipolar disorder too, i take my meds, what else i can do about it? bipolar disorder is a lifelong illness


Talk to TJ Goodlooking of dominatedepression.com he can help with your bipolar

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 12 Jun 2016 00:18 #253410

Thrice wrote: i blame mother nature for giving some people attractivness and most others not, discrimination based on look is an important and overlooked problem


Lol this statement is asinine, this discrimination you are talking about is females selecting mates with preferred attributes, AKA evolution, which is responsible for all life everywhere including you.

Get a grip man, you are in the same boat as 70-80% of the male population - "average looking". But any average guy can become handsome or even good-looking by: getting clear skin, having low body fat, having a nice haircut, getting enough sleep, and wearing well-fitting clothes.
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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 12 Jun 2016 00:23 #253411

Truthfully, I feel that more than anything the biggest problem you're facing is looking at the world through the lens of depression.

I've seen guys on this forum who are in better shape than me say that women don't give them signs of interest, this simply can't be true....but it can appear that way if you're depressed.

I'm glad to hear you're working on getting through the depression, when you get there you'll realize that what others in this thread have said is true: Get reasonably fit, get reasonable style, don't be weird, attract women. When you get out of your head, get some confidence, and don't have a scarcity mentality it really is that simple to be above average and have women be attracted to you.

In regard to the article, I only read the bolded parts that you posted, that part about not being instantly attractive to women if you haven't already moved to new york and became a male model is total BS, maybe the rest of the article is good but having read that part I would highly doubt it.
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