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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 10:52 #253314

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I don't want to talk to woman anymore, not with the fucking face i was born with. I've been rejected my whole life and it ruined my existence on this earth, my self esteem, my dignity.

I want to get a ripped body, a little bit muscular but i don't know if it'll work since gym doesen't change the face that much-yes low bodyfat fat changes your face but not that much-.

I wish i was born good looking, thats my biggest pain in life, i think that looks are the most precious gift that god can make to a human being

i'm 28 years, no social anxiety, lots of approaches, no girls. They simply don't like me, even if i approach them with confidence

I stumbled upon this article and i thinks it says the truth about beauty and woman desire:

observer.com/2015/10/guys-heres-what-its...-like-to-be-a-woman/

""The average guy finds the average woman at least somewhat sexually attractive.
By contrast, the average woman finds the average man sexually invisible, neutral, disgusting or repulsive. Only a tiny percentage of guys inspire immediate lust in women. And most of those guys have already moved to New York or Los Angeles to become actors or models. If you are over 18 and haven’t done that, you’re not one of those guys.

Another reason she’s not attracted to most men is that she thinks their outfits are stupid and their clothes don’t fit. Because they are and they don’t. She’s right. She also knows what your body would look like naked, and she probably thinks you’re either a lazy loser (out of shape) or a narcissistic gym rat (in too-good shape). None of this should be particularly surprising or contentious. She likes what she likes, and, statistically, the chances are you’re not it.

But they do fantasize about being sexually dominated and controlled by handsome, caring and capable men who operate secretly on the fringes of acceptable society.""


I don't if i want to try approaching for ever, i'm depressed, the fact that the chances are that low because i was born with thins face makes me feel a lot of emotional pain inside!

Sorry for my english!

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 10:57 #253315

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Personality, job and location make all the difference. I bet Sandshark can attest to notsoattracrtive guys being surrounded by interested women. I've definitely seen a few

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 11:12 #253316

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collin.bloom wrote: Personality, job and location make all the difference. I bet Sandshark can attest to notsoattracrtive guys being surrounded by interested women. I've definitely seen a few


thats not true in my life experience

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 11:26 #253317

Hey man,

Why not get a girlfriend through online dating or social circle or going out with friends and meeting girls like regular guys do? You don't have to do pick up to make yourself feel better about yourself. A cool chick that you like and likes you can make up for more than a bit.

You'll also be having more regular sex than 99% of the guys on this forum. Getting ripped, rich and happy also won't be that hard. A girlfriend can be a boon.

It's not weakness. It's a life decision and it's often the right choice.
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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 11:47 #253320

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Scott Glenfield wrote: Hey man,

Why not get a girlfriend through online dating or social circle or going out with friends and meeting girls like regular guys do? You don't have to do pick up to make yourself feel better about yourself. A cool chick that you like and likes you can make up for more than a bit.
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I live in north italy now, since i'm new here i don't have a social circle!! Thats why i was going for approaches! unfortunately when i was in my old city (south italy9 i had social circles but zero girlfirnds!

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 12:02 #253324

Its Your location bro, Girls in Italy are fuckin shallow as shit, I got a friend from there and he said woman can be brutal up there if you not top 10-20% in males. Might wanna change you location, im almost positive its the location.

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 12:02 #253325

Hmmm... hard situation. Can you do online dating? That would be a good plan.

Otherwise, you might have to suck it up and go out and approach. You can't have anything if you don't talk to women (my problem sometimes). No talk, no fun. The fact that you aren't doing well is probably related to something that you are doing. If you think it is location then go for a weekend holiday across the border somewhere and see what happens. It might open your eyes to some new possibilities.

Regardless of whether it is your appearance or not, you don't really have much choice if you can't give up or get out. You just have to keep trying, working and see what happens. There's no real way out for guys who don't want to give up.
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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 12:22 #253328

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Warrior X wrote: Its Your location bro, Girls in Italy are fuckin shallow as shit, I got a friend from there and he said woman can be brutal up there if you not top 10-20% in males. Might wanna change you location, im almost positive its the location.


i don't think that, being attracted by beautifull faces is a natural istinct that even newborn babies have, it has nothing to do with culture
Since i want to improve my english, i often read american sites like Quora and Yahoo answer, where people talk about dating in america. A lot of unattractive people say that they don't have a romantic life and they life is unhappy and unfulfilling beacause of their appearence

Black and asian male complain that woman only want cute white male, even asian woman want white male
i also read about what american woman find attractive and what type of male talk about, they only talk about beautifull handsome man

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 12:49 #253331

Based on the above have you considered getting an online trainer (Rippedbody.jp) is looking and Andy is pretty solid.

Get ripped as hell over time. Wear absolutely stunning clothing. Wear accessories on your face (glasses, hats, scarves, ear rings) and grow a beard (styled by a professional) and have a way above average hair cut.

Basically, if you think looks are it then lose the body fat, grow some muscle, get dressed and get accessories and do the basics in the hair and beard department.

Really there is a ton of stuff you can do. All it takes is the one thing that you might not want to give and that's TIME. In six months to a year you can have made up for the face in other areas. If you aren't willing to put that kind of effort in... well, you get the results that you try for.
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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 12:56 #253333

Yes the white male is #1 everywhere

BUT

Walk outside for just 30 minutes and you will see AVERAGE AS FUCK (white) guys with average-above average girls.

If that's you in the picture you are not ugly and can find at least one normal girl...

I do agree that some cultures like italy suck for dating so maybe consider moving.

. I am in the UK right now on holiday and I see guys UGLIER than me (i am mixed race, 6'8, 204cm....) with girls who are hotter than my current GF. Most girls I see outside are not dating tall guys, muscular guys. They are dating guys who look just like you.

I will never forget what I saw two days ago, I saw a chubby asian with glasses holding hands with his 6.5/7 WHITE girlfriend.

Work on your style, get to at least 12 percent bodyfat, groom yourself properly and then go out and be very social and I am sure you will get at least ONE interested girl.

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 13:52 #253343

article tldr,

but here r the authors




seems legit, no need to question anything written there

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i have the feeling this article says the truth about appearence 11 Jun 2016 13:58 #253345

Sure, cold approach is predominantly decided by how good looking you are.

If you think you really cannot get above the threshold of becoming good looking then focus your energy on other areas of your life. In the end, those skills may prove to be more useful anyways,

- be a leader
- be charming, positive, make people around you feel good.
- have something going for you - a job you love, a hobby you love. An be excellent at it.
- get a job or hobby that has a lot of women. Entertainment industry, night life, fashion photography, music, restaurant, fashion.

Easier said than done right? But at least you are not beating a dead horse if you think it's already dead lol

The short ugly guys that I see with hot girlfriends usually has some if not all of the above qualities.

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