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I agree with Rune. The analysis paralysis is probably coming ultimately from anxiety. If you're just plain scared to make a move on her, you'll want to "explain" it with all the stuff you're talking about. Because you're scared, you look for signs she's not interested. Fact is, it's always a bit ambiguous. How do you find out if she really likes you? Kiss her, and see how she reacts.
AA drills make a huge difference. When I just started them, I couldn't make moves on girls I met on Tinder. By the time I was into the latter half of it, I got a girl naked in my bed on a second date. It works.
I'm with Sweatervest.
By the way, never ask a women if you can kiss her. Just kiss her. They think your a puss if you ask. They are looking for the man to take the lead. I have been told this by women several times.
Dude she is totally into you, just ask her to watch a movie at you house, then wrap your arm around her when you are sitting on the sofa or lying on bed and start carresing her arm and hair, that turns them on big time specially with a guy they like. When you feel she is relaxed and calm lean for the kiss and take it from there. I always do this and it has done my justice so far.
Sounds your problems bigger than 1 girl, its leached its way into your lifestyle. You want a permanent solution? BABY STEPS!
You're the only one that knows yourself and your limits, what really helped me with overthinking had nothing to do with chicks, but my lifestyle in general. Take a cold shower, hit it hard in the gym and PUSH YOURSELF, do some scary shit. The only way to break the cycle is to take risks and stay out of your comfort zone. Slowly you'll feel the testosterone pumping through your body and you'll naturally take more risks. Life doesn't have to be complicated man, keeping it simple, will be your biggest accomplishment
Sounds like things are moving in the right direction. It's cool to work on girls you already know but you should meet some new ones. Especially if your going to be in places like Chicago in the summer time.
ThePoshYawdy wrote: I'll be in Miami for about a month and a half, so it can either be a summer of pussy or a summer of nothing...
There is no need to look at your sex life in such a harsh, binary way. If you make talking to girls your job for 8 hours a day, and put in enough approaches (not just 3) then you're bound to have a good time. I can see from your pic that you have a lot of positives going for you. As Chris says it's only a matter of time.
By the way, this is the perfect time for you to continue and most likely finish the AA program. No school, no job, Jesus. Sometimes I wish I was young again, lol.
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