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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 07 Apr 2016 00:25 #245487

FS-Ronin wrote:

WhiteGorilla wrote: Ronin - I was actually in that top 0.001% at one time. I once had two legit smokeshows stop in a black range rover, roll down the window, and ask for my number. Even then it wasn't THAT common.


Exactly, that is why I put the 0's in my post that I did. Girls won't approach guys unless the guy is something "out of this world"

Example: Tiphat posting a guide about how being a bouncer blew up his sex life... Dude was 6'4" 220 Lbs ++ D1 Football recruite/scholarship...

He won the genetic lottery and left the house, demonstrated some killer instinct. For the rest of us, even top 1% guys your going to be sitting around with dick in hand a long time waiting for girls to hit on you...


I followed a similar path lol. I was also overweight and made fun of when I was younger so I regretfully lacked the self-esteem i needed to be effective...at least for a while. Towards the end I of being a man-dime i figured it out. Still was a ton of work, especially the 9-10's.

Now being old and bald I'd like to think I get by on charm haha

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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 07 Apr 2016 00:43 #245488

They approach very very indirectly. For example, I was stretching on a pull up bar and some chick approach me and gave me a pointer on stretch bands for negative pull ups.
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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 07 Apr 2016 00:52 #245489

Resurrection wrote: They approach very very indirectly. For example, I was stretching on a pull up bar and some chick approach me and gave me a pointer on stretch bands for negative pull ups.


Very true! Girls will compliment me on my hair, my clothing, even my face. It's up to me (the man) to handle the rest.
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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 07 Apr 2016 05:18 #245511

Resurrection wrote: They approach very very indirectly. For example, I was stretching on a pull up bar and some chick approach me and gave me a pointer on stretch bands for negative pull ups.


^ This, it's unreasonable to think that women would approach in the same way as a man would unless as earlier said: 1.) she's not someone you'd be interested in sleeping with or 2.) you're extremely top tier in some way.

Other than that women typically 'approach' using signals of interest (IOIs for the pua crowd), it's up to you to pick up on that and approach if you're interested, that's the difference between the genders.

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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 07 Apr 2016 06:13 #245517

Stud_Muffin wrote: It's pretty rare to get approached by girls in general.

I would look for IOI thos like eye contact, standing near you, flipping hair, etc aka warm approach.

I agree it's not a girls job to approach but make it easy for a guy to approach... but like you say I never seen even these IOI's in all my life... no matter of location day or night club or mall whatever... I have been traveling to almost all European countries and myself live in eastern europe country but again this never happened never... Not a single so called IOI in all life...

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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 07 Apr 2016 06:30 #245518

this gay seems have no problem with girls approaching him :D maybe he is even tired of that.... :D

I could walk 3 million hours and that would not happen....
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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 07 Apr 2016 23:50 #245603

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Rikardo82 wrote: this gay seems have no problem with girls approaching him :D maybe he is even tired of that.... :D


I could walk 3 million hours and that would not happen....


3 hours? That's a long fuckin' walk. :)

I haven't been in NYC in a while, but it is just off the hook.

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ULTIMATELOSER360 wrote: Gentlemen, so I just re-read that article written by Chris, called "Picking Up Chicks: What Body Type Is Best?" and Chris mentioned that when he was at at 8% - 10% BF he would get directly approached at least 2 times a night. However, I have only gotten directly approached by just 2 girls in over the last 10 years ever since I was a freshman in my undergrad years. So my question is, why haven't more girls been approaching me more often?
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OK, well, the answer depends upon:

1. how Chris defines getting "directly approached." If he can chime in, great.

2. how YOU define getting "directly approached."

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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 08 Apr 2016 16:29 #245681

Tucker Max brings up very good points in his audio podcast here:http://thematinggrounds.com/qa-why-do-men-have-to-approach-women/
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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 10 Apr 2016 05:21 #245829

but ya that's why I made a thread over a year ago in which I posted there were times I felt like getting into a fight to release my anger, rage, stress, frustration, main thing I was getting at is because there are times occasionally I get angry, frustrated, pissed off that its always the mans job to approach and make the first move, be the initiator if we want to have a girlfriend, me personally I was never interested in becoming the ultimate player, a guy that sleeps or hooks up with a new girl every week or every month, no, I want relationships, girlfriends, this video right here explains it all and sums it up as to why I have felt like that at times:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91SlnIVDFso

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Why is it extremely rare that I get approached by a girl? 22 Apr 2016 06:04 #247188

Mokele Mbembe wrote: Having been 'that guy' who gets attacked by horny women because he's so good looking and has whatever sexy vibe makes girls wet, I can tell you that while it is a good thing, be glad you're learning this stuff without that advantage.

I'm gonna have to respectfully disagree here. For you, as you said

"I watched with envy and helplessness as guys with real balls and less looks than me went after the women they wanted (9s and 10s) and got them"

that is similar to what other guys without the advantage felt except for them it also included 6's ,7's and 8's. It's like a rich person complaining that they never learned how to make a lot of money because they inherited most of it as opposed to someone who lived their whole life broke and developed a passion within to earn money. At the end of the day, if you actually wanted to do/become something, you would have regardless of the benefits you were given. There's absolutely nothing to feel glad about for being at a disadvantage.

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