TOPIC: Blondes: Are they like this everywhere? How to deal with em?

The "blonde girls are bitches" stereotype is almost all in your head. It's confirmation bias. You're LOOKING for bitchy behavior from blondes because western media has fucked your mind up and made you put them on a pedestal.

The fact is that attractive girls have higher standards. Blonde bimbos aren't any different from brunette bimbos.

There's just nothing to talk about here. Do you think guys at 8% bodyfat with good style and social freedom worry about how mean blonde girls are?

I got a lot of heat for this thread but I decided to take this time out to clarify that I was not just talking about pickups, there is a lot of truth in what I said, something is up with blonde chicks.

Now I am not only talking about pickups and dating, but just in general. I don't only notice this with blondes when it comes to dating/hook ups but also when it comes to just about everything such as the service industry or any kind of job they do. Just a couple days ago I was going for a medical checkup and there were two nurses, one hot black girl and one attractive blonde. The blonde had the mean bitchface look on her while the black woman was smiles and everything.

I saw a guy got ahead of me (decent looking Korean kid) and while the blonde was supposed to get him to come in, the black woman ended up doing it and shook her head before smiling at the Korean kid. I've noticed similar things with blonde receptionists, blonde nurses, and everything.

Just a month ago I was at a Publix and the blonde working there, I wanted to know where I could find some peanut butter. Well, I ask her and she ignores me, even though she was working there! A black guy working there ended up leading me to where it was. I mean WTF.

Will I fuck a 3, 4, or a 5? No but you can bet I won't be a dick to them when I have to do my job and even if I reject them, I would reject them kindly.

But hey I get it, we're supposed to be politically correct and if I point out that most decent looking blondes tend to act like bitches, then I am in the wrong.

I will say, maybe it differs by location.

Justcountingstars wrote: I’ve seen the exact same things play out over and over again when it comes to these kinds of women. The cold demeanor, stuck up, rejecting dudes for the hell of it, and just the whole nastiness. If you’re in the USA, I can say that it is more or less the same everywhere. As a guy who used to struggle a lot with these kinds of women but has gotten significantly better results in recent months (sleeping with 2 on rotation and having one being highly interested in me), what I’ve noticed is that these women do evaluate guys a lot more differently than most women would. Chris would do amazing with these kinds of girls while your average PUA dating coach with a quirky personality would struggle a lot.

I used to wonder why they were like this but then I realized why.

These women spend hundreds to make their hair that way, get tans, and much more to fit a certain image. A lot of them are stuck in high school and trying to play the social status game, even if they’re 25. So when they’re putting so much into their own appearance, they are expecting the same from guys who they pursue. Due to this, a lot of guys you see doing well with these girls fit the mold of being an athlete, frat star, rugged bad boy type, or the kind heavily involved in scenes where appearances and image matter a lot.

My advice to guys who are serious about doing well with these types, as someone who went from doing horribly with these women to getting a few, is this:

1. Be aesthetically pleasing to the eye. If you’re naturally handsome, you shouldn’t be struggling with these women anyways. On the other hand, if you aren’t, then get in great shape and wear stylish clothes.

2. Personality and game wise, be dominant like Donald Trump. Talk big, be charismatic, take crap from no one (and I repeat no one), and learn to put people in their place. These women fall head over heels for guys who can make an example out of someone. Many of these women love being near men who they can rely on to shoo away the sleaze bag that won’t leave them alone in the clubs or bars because these women get pursued aggressively, often stalked, by thirsty and aggressive men. I would strongly recommend taking up MMA and learning how to fight.

3. Get in touch with the current fashion and media trends. I rocked the SS-cut + facial hair as an Indian dude, it got me some mad attention from these types. I’ve been doing well with them ever since then. Yes this is pandering but if you want these types, you’re gonna have to pander!

4. If you’re any kind of foreign (and I say this as an Indian guy), westernize yourself fast and as much as you can. These women are usually proud Americans and if they do go “foreign”, they like Aussies and Brits, not any kind of brown. Most of these women hold very low opinions of minorities (except for blacks) but even with that being the case, they will go for a cool Asian or brown dude. They might hate your race (very often they will) but they will still love you as an individual if you have it together.

5. Pick up gigs and side jobs that will get you these girls. I recommend male modeling, bartending, and bouncer at the popular night club. I know of one Korean guy who works as a bartender at a popular bar, the last 2 girls the guy dated were hot blondes. These girls love to party, get wasted, get drunk, do crazy shit, and be the social media princess until they are about 30 or so.

There you have it but in case I haven’t said it, I will say it again, without question the most shallow kinds of women on this planet.

Probably the most accurate post about getting blonde I've read. Does not apply to foreign blondes or even natural blondes from my experience but it applies so well to your typical bottle blonde princess. Still stuck in that high school mentality well after high school.

Justcountingstars wrote: I’ve seen the exact same things play out over and over again when it comes to these kinds of women. The cold demeanor, stuck up, rejecting dudes for the hell of it, and just the whole nastiness. If you’re in the USA, I can say that it is more or less the same everywhere.

The bitterness and racism in this post is disgusting. Read what you just posted here and tell me it is not one of the most prejudice and naive things you have ever read. This kind of thinking is not only wrong and hateful but going to get you in trouble. No wonder you think they are racist... your incredibly racist yourself... One of the most racist things I have ever read TBH.

Justcountingstars wrote: These women spend hundreds to make their hair that way, get tans, and much more to fit a certain image. A lot of them are stuck in high school and trying to play the social status game, even if they’re 25. So when they’re putting so much into their own appearance, they are expecting the same from guys who they pursue. Due to this, a lot of guys you see doing well with these girls fit the mold of being an athlete, frat star, rugged bad boy type, or the kind heavily involved in scenes where appearances and image matter a lot.

Not all hot blondes act and think that way. You are describing a girl who wants to be a barbie doll. And yes, girls who aspire to be barbie aspire to be with ken. No fucking surprise there. Most blondes don't want to be barbie though. Once again, extreme assumptions based off of prejudice (hair color)...[/quote]

Justcountingstars wrote: My advice to guys who are serious about doing well with these types, as someone who went from doing horribly with these women to getting a few, is this:

Dude, why would you even post advice on this forum? I'm pretty sure all you do is jump in on mental masturbation like this shit show.

Justcountingstars wrote: 1. Be aesthetically pleasing to the eye. If you’re naturally handsome, you shouldn’t be struggling with these women anyways. On the other hand, if you aren’t, then get in great shape and wear stylish clothes.

Holy shit look good? We already knew that dude.

Justcountingstars wrote: 2. Personality and game wise, be dominant like Donald Trump. Talk big, be charismatic, take crap from no one (and I repeat no one), and learn to put people in their place. These women fall head over heels for guys who can make an example out of someone. Many of these women love being near men who they can rely on to shoo away the sleaze bag that won’t leave them alone in the clubs or bars because these women get pursued aggressively, often stalked, by thirsty and aggressive men. I would strongly recommend taking up MMA and learning how to fight.

How do you know blonde women like guys like Donald Trump? Dude, your blind. I can just imagine some clueless dude making a fool of him self pretending to be Donal Trump... LOL

Justcountingstars wrote: 3. Get in touch with the current fashion and media trends. I rocked the SS-cut + facial hair as an Indian dude, it got me some mad attention from these types. I’ve been doing well with them ever since then. Yes this is pandering but if you want these types, you’re gonna have to pander!

We already knew this but not bad advice...

Justcountingstars wrote: 4. If you’re any kind of foreign (and I say this as an Indian guy), westernize yourself fast and as much as you can. These women are usually proud Americans and if they do go “foreign”, they like Aussies and Brits, not any kind of brown. Most of these women hold very low opinions of minorities (except for blacks) but even with that being the case, they will go for a cool Asian or brown dude. They might hate your race (very often they will) but they will still love you as an individual if you have it together.

A bit judgmental here dude. You have no idea what these women think. But yes, you should attempt to fit the culture of the women your trying to date. So this is good advice given with bitterness and prejudice.

Justcountingstars wrote: 5. Pick up gigs and side jobs that will get you these girls. I recommend male modeling, bartending, and bouncer at the popular night club. I know of one Korean guy who works as a bartender at a popular bar, the last 2 girls the guy dated were hot blondes. These girls love to party, get wasted, get drunk, do crazy shit, and be the social media princess until they are about 30 or so.

LOL... or just hit on them and not be a bozo.

And if anyone is wondering I have fucked plenty of hot blonde women in their late teens (18-19) and twenties... And honestly... none of this advice really applied (the shit I quoted above that was really bad)

Given, I am not "brown" but still.. I would think a brown guy attempting to act like donald trump and assuming these girls are these pea brained bitches is horrible advice...

Look good, hit the gym, hit on girls properly = results

My girlfriend is blonde. They're normal people with blonde hair. It wasn't her choice to be blonde. It's natural. If you classify blondes a certain way, then you're just dumb lol.

Justcountingstars. A lot of what you're saying is pretty offensive. You should check yourself.

It's not blonde girls that are mean. It's girl whose name starts with A.

They made scientific studies on this.

So my post about blondes received a lot of shit from FS-Ronin and others, well, as a guy who has gone from zero to hero with these kinds of women I have to say that I am sticking to every single part of my post. I did say exceptions exist but they are rare and most of the times it is foreign blondes or natural blondes that are good people, we were talking about majority of the blondes that you see on cheerleading squads, sororities, and the like, your suburban princess types for example. What I said was not in any way racist because blonde bimbos are not a race at all, as a matter of fact, I admire natural blondes and foreign blondes, have often found them to be classier than their American "thats like so totally rad" counterparts.

Yes, if you aren't white or black, you have to make it damn clear to these kinds of girls that you are an "American". I've seen lots of ethnic guys having success with the quirky brunettes and redheads of this country but very rarely if ever the Jenny McCarthys. Take it however you like but most of the times these kinds of girls hang out with rednecks, racist frat boy types, and the right wing nut jobs of the world. You aren't exactly in a desirable situation if you're of a more foreign minority group that Trump supporters aren't too fond of.

As for my comment about Trump, yes, you do need to put on that tough guy attitude or develop it fast. These girls fall head over heels for the douchey "in your face" trash talker types who are uber-macho. Rednecks, douchey frat bros, football players, and guys along those lines are the ones I see having a lot of luck with these kinds of girls. Most of these girls laugh when they see some guy getting bullied, it lightens up their day.

I also agree with the sentiment on this thread that these girls are in general, bitches. Even outside of pickup I've noticed countless times where they act like stuck up snobs at their job whether it is being a receptionist or a nurse. Not helping certain people, mocking their appearance, and many things of the sort. To them, everything and every situation is a high school popularity contest.

If I start meeting more exceptions then I will change my mind but for now, this is just what I have noticed over the years. One thing I can say is, does feel damn good fucking some of them....

It DOES vary a lot based on location. When I lived in the very white midwest, you met tons of amazing blondes. A lot of good ol country girl types with good personalities and kind souls.

Right now I live in a city where we have a lot of the type (blonde bimbos) and what OP described has got to be spot on from what I have observed, even in the Buckhead bar scene. The white women in the city are also very hideous on average so you get tons of 5s making their hair blonde and walking around acting like bitches. Hands down without question the most entitled and self-centered women I have ever come across.

TBH, I've never met a hot blonde with a good personality in my time in Atlanta, very fake and two faced. Quite a few take a lot of pleasure out of dissing and rejecting guys for the hell of it, embody some of the worst traits of western women. You can see the ice queen look in their eyes.

I also see them with these types of guys:

1. Former athletes/current athletes.

2. Former frat boys.

3. Bubbas and "country boy" types.

4. Thugs, usually these are ghetto black guys.

I've gotten some PMs about my posts on blondes so I just wanted to clarify, what I posted was my experience as a guy of Indian descent who went from having no success with blondes (while having tons of success with other kinds of women) to being in a situation where the past few girls I've fucked are blondes.

When I said blondes, I did not mean all girls with blonde hair, I meant girls who fit the image of the blonde club slut, blonde barbie, blonde preppy chick, blonde all American girl next door type, etc.

If anyone disagrees with me, ask yourself this, when is the last time you saw an Indian dude getting those types? Saw it? I bet that a lot of what I said on my post applied to him.

Wow, you really don't like blondes.

Are you near a party college town or something? Girls are way different in big cities than they are in university towns. Move to New York or LA. In my opinion the rest of American doesn't exist. You'll be happier there.

Justcountingstars wrote:
5. Pick up gigs and side jobs that will get you these girls. I recommend male modeling, bartending, and bouncer at the popular night club. I know of one Korean guy who works as a bartender at a popular bar, the last 2 girls the guy dated were hot blondes. These girls love to party, get wasted, get drunk, do crazy shit, and be the social media princess until they are about 30 or so.

There you have it but in case I haven’t said it, I will say it again, without question the most shallow kinds of women on this planet.

Lots of points in your post which may or may not be accurate.

As far as 5, most hot women are highly intelligent and ambitious and usually stay far away from clubs and bars, except for the occasional night out a few times a year.

The bars and clubs usually get their fair share of '8's' but the top tier girls are usually absent.

You are describing a small subset of relatively hot girls who frequent clubs and bars, but this is not a reflection of blondes or hot blondes in general.