TOPIC: Blondes: Are they like this everywhere? How to deal with em?

I tend to go out and hit the bar and club scene a lot these days, been doing so for the past few months. Now when I say blondes, I don't mean just any girl with blonde hair, I mean blondes as in the kinds you see a lot at some of the bars and clubs you visit. I think we all know the type, good looking blonde girls that typically run in crowds like sororities or crowds similar to them.

I am having issues to where even when I am not hitting on them, I end up facing problems with them. Like last week I was hitting on this brunette 8 and it was going well but her blonde friend kept cockblocking me. I had a witty comeback to something she said and the blonde gets some big buff dude to try and start a fight with me, something I turned down because I was not going to fight this dude. Swear to god though man, it is a pain in the ass dealing with them.

The thing is that I noticed a few things about them over the years:

1. They are highly sadistic towards most guys outside of the very top dogs (celebs or really buff dudes). I mean aggressively rejecting guys in bars and clubs to the point of humiliating them. Get the feeling that most of them take pleasure in humiliating guys in front of everyone by rejecting them in the most aggressive ways possible.

2. They are very drawn to the life of drugs, alcohol, and craziness. A lot of them hate the professional white collar type of guys and prefer the Breaking Bad types who are almost always on the wrong side of the law.

3. Not thankful in the slightest towards any kind acts guys might do for them. Hold the door open for them? Stink eye or the bitch face. Other girls actually thank the guys or are kind to them but man, blondes aren't like this at all.

4. Even if they aren't the party girl types, the bitch shields, rudeness, and cold behavior is always there. Whether you're with em in a professional setting, workplace, or class; the cold ruthless demeanor is still there. Even the ones I've seen as waitresses, receptionists, and nurses have had this cold stuck-up demeanor to them.

Any ideas on how to properly deal with some?

Oh and I would love to hate-fuck some of these types of icy cold bitches because I have no fucking idea why I want to hate-fuck these icy cold bitches. Any ideas on that?

Honestly, I don't care if the girl has black, red, blonde, brown hair. I just go in and approach them and do my thing. If they don't like me that's their problem. If girls are rude to me and if I feel like yelling at them to put to them place I'll do it. I don't give a fuck.

I can pretty much guarantee that you live in North America based on your post.

Go to a country where it's normal to be tall, blonde and skinny and you see that it's no big deal. It's all supply and demand.

For whatever reason, whether it's accurate or not or due to media, blonde white women are seen as the most beautiful. Basically all guys are after them. At the same time, they're the most rare women in the world. So you can see, in a place where they are not the norm, they quickly develop huge egos and then entitled attitudes. It's not really their fault. It's supply and demand issues.

The less hot white girls live in a city, the more attitude they will have due to the increased hunger and attention from men. AKA, why Toronto is where PUA comes from - most ethnically diverse city in the world. You don't hear of guys having problems with women in Russia or Poland really for example. It's mainly North America.

I haven't really noticed hot blond girls being different from any other hot white girls.

I have a feeling you're blowing a couple of incidents out of proportion.

I also have a feeling that once you're banging hot girls in general, some of them will be blonde.

Chris said he used to think the same as you but it turned out he just wasn't hitting on that many of them. Once he got his volume up consistently everything fixed itself.

granted, in my country tall hot blondes are pretty standard and I've banged a shitload of them

that being said, I recognize some of the things you describe - though not to that extent.

biggest difference I notice when I compare them with brunettes or mixed ethnicity girls is that they are usually more superficial and standof-issh (at least when you first meet them). thats probably because the media propogates them as the ideal when it comes to female beauty

no idea what the superficial stuff is about though, definitely dated some who had some 'depth' (no pun) but the are really an exception rather than the rule

Ludwig wrote: I can pretty much guarantee that you live in North America based on your post.

Go to a country where it's normal to be tall, blonde and skinny and you see that it's no big deal. It's all supply and demand.

For whatever reason, whether it's accurate or not or due to media, blonde white women are seen as the most beautiful. Basically all guys are after them. At the same time, they're the most rare women in the world. So you can see, in a place where they are not the norm, they quickly develop huge egos and then entitled attitudes. It's not really their fault. It's supply and demand issues.

The less hot white girls live in a city, the more attitude they will have due to the increased hunger and attention from men. AKA, why Toronto is where PUA comes from - most ethnically diverse city in the world. You don't hear of guys having problems with women in Russia or Poland really for example. It's mainly North America.

You are correct, I am living in the United States.

You actually raise a very good point as well that I never thought about. My area has a good bit of latinos, Asians, and black people in it. White people are clearly a minority in my area (under 50%) and among whites, we do have quite a lot of Italians and Poles which means more brunettes than blondes.

The foreign blondes I met were definitely more down to earth, less crazy, and much more receptive to approaches; not to mention that they were a lot prettier and looked less fake.

Problem right now is that with rising illegal immigration, the refugee crisis, and cheap labor, I can imagine the immigration issue becoming 5 times worse in the future to where you won't have places where there are a lot of blondes anymore. Perhaps a decent reason to consider voting for Trump, I surely am (for many other reasons as well).

The Zuberi - if you don't mind me asking, where do you live?

Latebloomerloser - There you go. Your demographics aren't ideal which is causing these issues. I think North America is on it's way out in terms of dating due to demographics issues and weight gain etc. These girls I saw in Europe were tall, skinny, blonde, educated, classy, polite etc. Just amazing. And I would see them dating the biggest loser guys. It was amazing. Like total nerd, physically unattractive guys. Even the girls told me that the guys there were super weird - either extremely shy or super needy.

I remember being in a Subway restaurant and seeing this smoking hot blonde just sitting there doing nothing. I kept wondering what she was doing. Sure enough, she's waiting for her boyfriend, who is working at Subway, to get off work. In the States, you gotta be jacked, loaded, popular, great career etc to get a girl like that.

I banged one of the hottest girls I've ever seen there within 2 weeks. Prior to that, I had a over 2 year dry spell in Toronto, and now since being back, 2 month dry spell.

My choice is to get the hell out of here for good ASAP. I don't know how possible it is for you to relocate. I'd suggest finding somewhere in the States that's good, if that exists, because moving somewhere really foreign is pretty isolating and weird. The women are fantastic, but everything else is hard.

Either that, or you do the GLL thing of maximizing everything possible so that you can get these American chicks.

Your making all sorts of self limiting beliefs based off of an incredibly small handful of observations you have made in person, or worse, read about on some keyboard jockey internet forum.

Are some girls bitches? yes.

Do some bitches have blonde hair? yes.

Beyond that there isn't much to say. Hit on girls and put in work.

Ludwig hit on something important that I want to comment on.

I live in Atlanta, GA where most of the women are black and the quality of white women is not that great. The few white women that do look above average or good looking in the city have massive egos to where they are borderline unapproachable. Blondes are arguably the worst of them all though, extremely cold and rude towards anyone outside of their immediate social circle. Even the ones that work as secretaries, receptionists, and nurses rarely do things like smiling at the clients, they give off this cold stuck up "you're below me" type of vibe. Most won't talk to the clients or customers unless they are handsome guys. A while back when I was at Publix, I saw this guy asking one of the women working there (a blonde bimbo) for help and she pretty much ignored him. I looked at him and he looked back at me, both of us went "wtf".

This past Friday night I was at a bar in Buckhead and I was just getting drinks. I see this Latino guy walk up to these two blondes who looked at him while the music was playing, shook their heads, and wagged their fingers. Felt bad for the dude but I've seen blondes here in the Atlanta area do that shit so many times.

A lot of it has to do with the fact that white guys in Georgia are obsessed with blonde women. One girl I knew came and stayed here, she was from Denmark. Whenever I would go out with her, guys would aggressively hit on her and come on to her. I am guessing this happens to the hot blondes in your area which is why they act like such cunts perhaps.

Ludwig wrote: Latebloomerloser - There you go. Your demographics aren't ideal which is causing these issues. I think North America is on it's way out in terms of dating due to demographics issues and weight gain etc. These girls I saw in Europe were tall, skinny, blonde, educated, classy, polite etc. Just amazing. And I would see them dating the biggest loser guys. It was amazing. Like total nerd, physically unattractive guys. Even the girls told me that the guys there were super weird - either extremely shy or super needy.

I remember being in a Subway restaurant and seeing this smoking hot blonde just sitting there doing nothing. I kept wondering what she was doing. Sure enough, she's waiting for her boyfriend, who is working at Subway, to get off work. In the States, you gotta be jacked, loaded, popular, great career etc to get a girl like that.

I banged one of the hottest girls I've ever seen there within 2 weeks. Prior to that, I had a over 2 year dry spell in Toronto, and now since being back, 2 month dry spell.

My choice is to get the hell out of here for good ASAP. I don't know how possible it is for you to relocate. I'd suggest finding somewhere in the States that's good, if that exists, because moving somewhere really foreign is pretty isolating and weird. The women are fantastic, but everything else is hard.

Either that, or you do the GLL thing of maximizing everything possible so that you can get these American chicks.

You know what, I think Trump getting elected might actually result in the dating market in the US getting better. With Meliania as first lady, you are going to have more girls aspiring to be attractive and putting forth the effort in it.

Probably. I also find it interesting that Trump goes for East European wives. He knows quality.

My last girl friend was tall and blonde with a banging body. She was smart and caring, but a bit crazy lol.

I saw one of her picture in the past where she had short red hair. I was hoping she would dye her hair red and cut it short so I can be f-cking a sexy red head.

Just get a brunette and have her dye her hair blonde. So many blonde are fake blonde. Even in Sweden there are a lot of fake blonde or "high lighted" blonde. For white girls hair color is so relevant. A lot of girls are shaved down below so there's no way you can verify her true hair color LOOLLlol!!