TOPIC: Calling out the guys in here who have high lay counts.

Latebloomerloser wrote: I do not think that some brown guy born and raised in the USA will be able to do that well in a country like Colombia where racism is off the charts.

Bro the two guys I went Brazil with were INDIAN. Not Native American, Indian-Indian lol. Both pulled ass just fine.

You guys gotta step out of your comfort zone lol.

I'm a decent looking, very in shape, white guy with blue eyes. So yeah, I cleaned up. But still, the big theme in this thread is overthinking. I'll go back to what I originally said:

1) Get your style on point
2) Get in shape
3) Build a social circle
4) Cold approach every girl you're interested in
5) Travel

I don't think racism is off the charts in Colombia, I know an Indian who did alright in Medellin. He also had a nice apartment he was staying at though. Perceived wealth goes a long way there.

I tried to resist replying to this thread, but I'm gonna give Silksmooth the benefit of the doubt. You may well have experience, I'm not taking any kind of stance on that. I just wanna explain to you the reason ppl have a tough time taking you seriously is because you come across as a 15-yo kid who gets butt-hurt about everyone who has a different opinion than you. Granted, not everyone has been very nice to you either, but that's because instead of actually debating this stuff you instantly swing into personal insults at people and try to provoke people into giving you reactions. It's very hard to believe someone like that could have a lay count of more than 3, let alone 100 - especially seeing as you don't post your face. Again, I'm not saying that you're not who you say you are, but you might wanna think about how you present yourself. Peace.

Wow..... This thread went bonkers. I am an older loser who can maybe shed some light on some of these opinions that have been thrown around with one thing I have..... EXPERIENCE.

Cold approach/PUA: It puts most women in a discomfort zone.... Which gives them a boost of adrenaline just like we are getting when doing it, this means it leaves an impression. It works for attractive guys, I would imagine its a very low success system for guys who are not too much above average. Add alcohol to the mix and the success rate goes much higher.

Traveling: I have traveled quite a bit in my life and being a handsome white Americn guy makes it too easy. I can only imagine how hard it is for non white guys with the EXTREME racism that 99 percent of non western countries have.

Online dating: YES it is true that dating sites give girls who are 5-7's a little too much attention and self confidence. There are plenty of 8-10's online looking to fuck....and I have fucked them. The thing is, if you are not a 8-10 yourself..... Then you will not have a shot. But remember.... There is nothing wrong with banging 5-7's...... In my experience the 8-10's are usually not as good of a fuck as the lower hotness girls.

Klbsa wrote: Traveling: I have traveled quite a bit in my life and being a handsome white Americn guy makes it too easy. I can only imagine how hard it is for non white guys with the EXTREME racism that 99 percent of non western countries have.

Yea, this is what guys who haven't traveled much aren't grasping.

In much of the world, a decent-looking white guy won't even need to approach lol. No "game" required.

Even if you're doing "well" in the U.S., your numbers are going to quadruple overseas.

That's why it behooves every young guy to figure out how to make a living online. Give yourself the option, and freedom of living anywhere you want.

Terminator wrote: I tried to resist replying to this thread, but I'm gonna give Silksmooth the benefit of the doubt. You may well have experience, I'm not taking any kind of stance on that. I just wanna explain to you the reason ppl have a tough time taking you seriously is because you come across as a 15-yo kid who gets butt-hurt about everyone who has a different opinion than you. Granted, not everyone has been very nice to you either, but that's because instead of actually debating this stuff you instantly swing into personal insults at people and try to provoke people into giving you reactions. It's very hard to believe someone like that could have a lay count of more than 3, let alone 100 - especially seeing as you don't post your face. Again, I'm not saying that you're not who you say you are, but you might wanna think about how you present yourself. Peace.

Well, I just have to respectfully disagree. Like I said before, check out what I have posted. I've helped people here through private messages but I don't try to brag or get a rep about it. I'm just straight real. And as far as provocation, look what started all the shit. Personally, I think you guys are too swayed by authority/social proof bias.

A guy asked what skyrocketed your lay rate, I felt I could help and answered honestly. Then I get dissed for my answer. No sir lol. Sorry, I don't care who it is. And you can feel how you want. That's the reason I used to keep pics of all the hot girls I banged. It felt unbelievable to myself. But, like I said before: Anyone who dismisses me is dismissing real knowledge that I'm pretty sure is shared by very few guys. And if you have a hard time believing I've layed 3 girls let alone 100, I honestly would tell you to work on your reasoning skills. The truth is easy to decipher if you just use logic.

My experience is very extensive and I'm thinking about posting about it in detail, but it sadly seems if I don't align with Ronin then I won't be believed. And the 15 year old kid thing. Come on. Look at the discourse in the conflict. Nobody was using the King's English. And as a very educated and intelligent individual I think you should rethink calling someone's communication style like a 15 year old, when 95 percent of what I write here is well articulated and communicated.

Last I'll say. The truth is in the details. Look for details in what people are telling you. When you don't get many details that's when the b.s. comes. Best of luck.

Peace.

Klbsa wrote: Wow..... This thread went bonkers. I am an older loser who can maybe shed some light on some of these opinions that have been thrown around with one thing I have..... EXPERIENCE.

Cold approach/PUA: It puts most women in a discomfort zone.... Which gives them a boost of adrenaline just like we are getting when doing it, this means it leaves an impression. It works for attractive guys, I would imagine its a very low success system for guys who are not too much above average. Add alcohol to the mix and the success rate goes much higher.

Traveling: I have traveled quite a bit in my life and being a handsome white Americn guy makes it too easy. I can only imagine how hard it is for non white guys with the EXTREME racism that 99 percent of non western countries have.

Online dating: YES it is true that dating sites give girls who are 5-7's a little too much attention and self confidence. There are plenty of 8-10's online looking to fuck....and I have fucked them. The thing is, if you are not a 8-10 yourself..... Then you will not have a shot. But remember.... There is nothing wrong with banging 5-7's...... In my experience the 8-10's are usually not as good of a fuck as the lower hotness girls.

I think you have alot of validity here. People complain about online because they complain that you need to look really good. I've been told a number of times I'm a good looking guy true enough. But like I keep saying lol. This site is called good looking loser, and the first thing they tell you to do to get laid is look better. Last thing, look at the commonality you EXPERIENCE gives you between internet and cold approach. You say if you don't look very good neither will really work out. Well... That's why I say either way..

And I will say, I will bang a 7 any day of the week. I'm not sitting around trying to find something to brag about to my friends. I like to get my dick wet. But as you stated as well. They're are alot of 8-10s looking to fuck. And I share your experience in fucking them too.

The thing with adding drinks to cold approach. From MY understanding, that's really not cold approach. That's what you call club game. Which is an entirely different discussion. And truth is, I never liked it much. But again, this site backs that up as well. Tells you if you're not connected to the party in crowd circle the girls usually have plans after.

What made me get off cold approaching is that it is fucking time consuming. You see guys posting their approach thread and it's like "I was in the mall at 2 p.m. for 3 hours and approached 4 girls because no one was there. I've been there and didn't like it. My cold approaches now come from my everyday activities (grocery stores are one of my favorite spots). Being out and about. But I don't hate on any thing that works for a given person.

Latebloomerloser wrote:

dc7 wrote: Good thing this thread has stayed on track eh. Take the shit show to PM boys.

The one thing I love about this thread other than learning how the big players do it is how it tends to expose some of the guys on here who might not be the kinds of guys you want to take advice from. I remember reading Chris's post on PUA forums a long time ago, how they have this "blind leading blind" type of thing going on.

When I post a thread like this, I feel like I am almost putting guys on the spot. Sure, you claim you are an expert in doing something and talk highly of yourself, now tell me the specifics and walk me through the process my friend. Very few can actually do this, most will resort to arguing and bickering.

I'll get a more complete guide up when I can in the mean time this is a band aide:

www.stallionlifestyle.com/forum/girls-wo...pproach-crash-course

If you need additional reading:

www.stallionlifestyle.com/forum/girls-wo...les-you-need-to-read

Thats all there is to it..

There are super hot girls online (like legit tens) and I've dated them. I was starting to really see a lot of success with online hotties right before I quit chasing girls back in January. You gotta be real hot to get them (guys on this forum to talk to about success online = tiphat, dc7, silksmooth, klbsa, probably others too)

The vast majority of my success (with the real hotties) though came from cold approach. That is likely because my online pictures were not the best

Username, my friend, I always looked up to FS-Ronin even when I first got here a long time ago. He was the first legit dude to reach out to me back before I was any good at getting laid. I always tried to give him his credit. I always viewed him as a legit slayer too

Chris has always been by far the biggest reason I got so many girls though. That has to be known. That dude knows his shit

I think Silksmooth is probably legit. He gave me some real good advice in the past. That's just an intuition though. I don't know why him and Ronin are fighting so much.

But for the OP, look as good as you can and talk to as many girls as you can. Have a masculine body and attitude. Good slightly edgy style (or very edgy if you aren't scared). Close the deal hard like a hungry salesman, women won't initiate sex often, as a matter of fact they will usually slow things down. Cast a wide net (cold approach, bar scene, social circle and online dating should all be used in conjunction to secure pussy when you're starting out).

Follow my advice and you will get laid like a chief. And hopefully it won't take you too long to realize that even the highest quality, most top shelf pussy is 100 percent fools gold

On top of what I just said, I recall Terminator sleeping with hot girls online

Not trying to get involved in the mud slinging

In Response to the OP...in order of importance (the things that help the most with your Lay Count Skyrocketing)

1) Your desire to change and improve your current situation in all facets
-Looks
-Finances
-Social Freedom
-Logistics
-Knowledge
-Lifestyle

2) Your Physical Appearance
Body Composition
Style
Hygiene
Height

3) Your Frequency of hitting on/contacting new women (Online Included...especially to start)

4) Your Logistics

5) Your Advisory Council...AKA The advice you choose to follow (Make sure its coming from a legitimate/reasonable/knowledgeable/reliable source)

This is just my personal experience...my track record and starting journey are well documented on this website


On a side note...I can vouch for FS Ronin as someone who knows what he is talking about...and who really lives the shit he says...is he perfect no? Am I perfect...hell fucking no? Is he likely one of the most legitimate sources of advice you will ever find...probab-fucking-ly...is this a one size fits all? No

I can only speak from my personal experiences but even though I did get girls online...I just found it more fruitful to meet girls in person because I was spending as much if not more time with girls online...Contact...establish mutual attraction... get info...start texting...set up a date...then POTENTIALLY get laid on said date...I just felt that by meeting girls in person I could expedite the process and have a higher frequency of hot girls...online has a shit ton of hot girls...with its own shit ton of hurdles to go through as well...I don't want to dismiss it though...not everything works for everyone...but OP we'll start with the basics of how to improve your lay count

Guys, one thing I do want to ask about in all of this is what about hobbies and lifestyle choices?

Like in college they had Greek Life and other means you could meet girls, especially through social circle game. Now in the real world, I am wonder what lifestyle choices or hobbies a guy should add to his arsenal. Sorry to say this but cold approach has seemed kinda, well, intimidating for me. I could never go all out PUA with it and the stuff Chris does in videos (calling girls "cuties") is not something that would work for me.

I have always done alright with social circle game type situations so any advice?