TOPIC: Calling out the guys in here who have high lay counts.

To the guys in here who have slept around with a ton of different women in their lives (20 or more, lets use that as a baseline), I have this question. We know that looks, cool factor, and those things matter but what circumstances would you say have led to you having such a high lay count?

Like what really clicked for you or what is that one thing in your life that you would say has contributed to your lay count skyrocketing?

I'm by no means a master at this stuff but its looks, being able to have a comfortable flirty conversation, and pulling the trigger.

I am still trying to figure out my style (I have it down but I don't own it well enough yet) but as far as that goes, unless you're dressing like a complete dweeb, having a good body is most of the style you need. I get complements on how I look in a black leather jacket with jeans, a t shirt, and boots because I'm ripped up and look good in most clothes.

Hitting on 100x more woman than the average guy.

A couple of guys I know that sleep around say that having your own place helps out big time. These are guys that probably have never read a pua article or a website like GLL. The only thing they have in common with GLL is that they spam a lot of girls til one says yes.

Having a lot of leisure time.

Before i started this GLL stuff it was CONSISTENCY that got me laid. A couple years after I started getting laid at 15, I slept with about 5 girls a year. This was because I was meeting girls through my social circle, at house parties, or at frat parties. I'd say I consistently went to one party with my buddies every other weekend for about 5 years. Every once in a while id get drunk and have the balls to actually try to fuck a girl. That led to a 30+ lay count by 23. I think I've only slept with 2 girls from online.

To be honest, it mostly came down to keeping my eyes open for girls. One time I slept with 2 girls from my apartment complex just by being around when they were drunk. I didn't think of it as a cold approach, it was more like I had just introduced myself to my neighbors.

If you go out drinking with a mixed group of guys and girls, it's inevitable that eventually one of the girls will make herself available to you. That's how most normal guys get laid.

I'm flattered that you think my 34 girls counts as a "high lay count". It certainly doesn't FEEL like a lot.

I tend to consider guys with 100+ to be high count

Being normal and not giving a fuck. The overriding theme with woman I fucked was "Wow, you're just a normal cool guy." When I was younger, I was also really good looking and in unreal shape. I didn't really know I was good looking at the time but looking back now I realize I was.

Other than that, just gotta put yourself out there. Nothing ventured nothing gained.

Things just seemed to really come together for me from the age of 23-30. They still come together for me now but I've quieted down. My lay count is somewhere up around 70.

Two words for you man. ONLINE DATING.

And I know alot of this site is about cold approaching but that's how I started out. I started out with the David Deangelo and Tyler Durden stuff, even through college. But once I found a few good sites, particularly OKcupid lately that's when I got into the teen lay count every year and eventually up to twenty, and eventually got me past 100 lays. And I mean it like doubled my lifetime lay count within ONE year.

It's just so efficient for me. Make a good copy and paste, take some pics, and you can hit on 30 girls in 15 minutes lol. And try to get them to come over as soon as possible. Works too well for me even though I'm doing more in person approaching these days. But that's the answer from me. There you have it. I even noticed it myself. I mean it dramatically increased my numbers.

I mean when you think about it, the girls are already horny. If they make a dating account, cmon, you know what they want lol.

Just to expand a little bit, I guess everybody has their nitch kind of like business, and that kind of became my thing. Especially with me never holding a consistent job and not having money to take girls out. I had to get creative. In the PUA community, they had this term called "phone game." I've even had seduction "gurus" talk shit about me having women come over for the first date or without even meeting them...

BUT, I swear, if you can get a girl on the phone like one or two times for like an hour, (not long at all when a convo is flowing) and make her think you're normal and get her laughing a few times. You can say "Why don't you come by and chill with me or have a drink?" And THEY WILL DO IT ALOT If she likes what she sees from online to in person, it's going down. That simple man. I love it lol. When I was really doing the shit or when I get going, I literally have more gilrs in my phone than I can get to timewise. I end up having some of them fall off just because I can't keep communicating with sometimes 20 different chicks...

BUT, like I said. I'm doing more in person now as well. That definitely has it's advantages as well.

The one thing that really contributed to my lay count skyrocketing...? Buying a plane ticket.

Seriously, decent-looking white guys can smash so much more poon abroad. In Thailand, you could easily do a new chick every day.

Nobody, celebrities aside, is slaying like that in the U.S or Europe.

LOL @ Some of these responses. Getting good with cold approach is what did it for me. Now, we are talking sleeping with hot girls here, not some trash from online dating. If you look like a model and do advanced steroids... sure online might work. But for those of us who are not the top 1% in looks, online is complete shit.

Get good at cold approach, learn how to pick up women properly and thats how your going to sleep with lots of hot women.

Of course you could fly to some third world country, but who the fuck wants to do that shit? LAME.

Talking to girls on the phone, getting off social media except linkedin, overbooking myself with 2-3 girls a night in case one sucks or flakes, not going out with groups of dudes (even if there are girls) but 1 homie that's looking to get laid also.

Oh and having a big d.

FS-Ronin wrote: LOL @ Some of these responses. Getting good with cold approach is what did it for me. Now, we are talking sleeping with hot girls here, not some trash from online dating. If you look like a model and do advanced steroids... sure online might work. But for those of us who are not the top 1% in looks, online is complete shit.

Get good at cold approach, learn how to pick up women properly and thats how your going to sleep with lots of hot women.

Of course you could fly to some third world country, but who the fuck wants to do that shit? LAME.

The fuck? How do you know what the girls I've slept from online look like? lol. I've smashed tons of gorgeous women from online. And how do you know what dude was hitting out in Thailand. Saying you have to get good at cold approaching is showing a huge bias. You can sell whatever your shit is without tryna downtalk shiitt

fuckoutta here

AND funny thing is, if you read this very website, Chris says point blank, getting into the party scene and social circle is the way to do it over pickup. Otherwise you're just some corny pick up artist. Then he names different types of guys he knows that fuck alot of girls through different methods and none involve pick up.

Truth is, that pickup shit is some dinosaur ass shit. Pretty dead. You really wanna fuck alot of pretty girls get in a good social circle and hit the right spots alot and get connected. Or have some kind of niche cornered. Just like in any other area of life. Watch folks tryna sell you shit.