TOPIC: POLL on LEGIT 9's/10's: Social Circle/Online/Cold Approach?

This post is geared for the senior members of the forum who have experience fucking the 9's and 10's out there. The type of girls that turn heads everywhere they go, the most popular girls in school/university, the girls that usually end up on sites like thechive. My whole point of starting this "self improvement/fuck lots of sluts" thing was to get good enough with girls to start fucking more 9's and 10's, so that I can find a 9/10 that I'm compatible with and have a relationship. So I'm posing a couple questions for the dudes that fuck a lot here.

1) How many LEGIT 9's or 10's have you fucked out of your total amount of girls fucked?
2) How did you meet these girls? (social circle/online/daygame/nightgame)
3) How/did you retain them?

At this point in time, I've fucked 29 girls. Of the 29 girls I've fucked, I would consider 3 solid, 100% 9's (2 are actually 9.5's) all the time and about 6 of them hovering between 8.5-9 depending on the day and whether they do their hair/makeup.

From the 3 girls that were 100% 9's - all three of them were from social circle. They all came when I had some sort of "status"...being the "cool older guy" since I was around 19-20 and the girls were in the 17-18 range at the time. I was introduced to them by a mutual friend every time. I had a one night stand with one of them and never saw/talked to her again after. The next one I "dated" for roughly 2-3 weeks and had sex with around 5x before she moved to LA (she's actually on TV now lol). The last one lasted a little over a month and we banged probably about 10-15x...I wanted her to be my girlfriend but she was so hot I started acting needy and she eventually got sick of me. All 3 of these girls were before I turned 21.

From the 6 girls that are sometimes 8.5s and sometimes 9s - FIVE were from Social Circle, 1 from Online.
The online girl was actually earlier this year, really sexy black girl that I banged a few times. The rest of them were social circle. My two longest relationships were girls from this category, the girl i lost my virginity to in high school we dated for a year and my most recent girlfriend which I dated for 2 years. The girl that I was dating for about 3 months at the end of 2015/start of 2016 also made the list here. So I had a pretty good record of retaining these girls.

Basically what this is saying is that from the 9 VERY VERY HOT GIRLS that I've fucked, 8 of them have been from social circle, 1 has been from online, and ZERO have been from nightgame. That's obviously a huge percentage (although admittedly a very small sample size) so I want to see what the rest of the forums numbers are like and hopefully start a discussion on this.

Another slightly worrying sign is that only 2 of the 9 really really hot girls came after I found GLL. While I've gotten much better at fucking MORE girls and fucking the girls SOONER, I haven't really made strides in quantity of GRADE A girls. Of course, my pre GLL time span consists of 8 years (I first got laid at 16 and found GLL at 24, although 3 of those years I was in a committed relationship) while I've only been GLL for barely over a year.

I need thoughts and opinions on this, preferably from those as experienced or more than I am. Cheers

Noone has any insight on this?

Solution = Hit on more 9's and 10's and get better looking

When I first started I got a couple 9's from online and 1 from cold approach in the span of a year. That number soared as I got better and better looking and simply hit on more of them.

You're overthinking it when the answer is simply you need to get better. The biggest indicator of needing improvement in the looks department is when you can't for the life of you get 9's and 10's from online. If you are a stud, you will have a decently healthy supply of 9's online. My buddy gets a new 9 or 10 every week or two almost with minimal effort on tinder and he does 0 cold approaching. I don't recommend the 0 cold approaching part at all but I'm basically saying if you aren't getting girls as hot as you want, especially in regards to online, you need to improve your looks period.

My buddy gets a new 9 or 10 every week or two almost with minimal effort on tinder and he does 0 cold approaching. I don't recommend the 0 cold approaching part at all but I'm basically saying if you aren't getting girls as hot as you want, especially in regards to online, you need to improve your looks period.

Just out of curiosity, is that rooster?

ultratyght wrote: Basically what this is saying is that from the 9 VERY VERY HOT GIRLS that I've fucked, 8 of them have been from social circle, 1 has been from online, and ZERO have been from nightgame. That's obviously a huge percentage (although admittedly a very small sample size) so I want to see what the rest of the forums numbers are like and hopefully start a discussion on this.

Another slightly worrying sign is that only 2 of the 9 really really hot girls came after I found GLL. While I've gotten much better at fucking MORE girls and fucking the girls SOONER, I haven't really made strides in quantity of GRADE A girls. Of course, my pre GLL time span consists of 8 years (I first got laid at 16 and found GLL at 24, although 3 of those years I was in a committed relationship) while I've only been GLL for barely over a year.

I need thoughts and opinions on this, preferably from those as experienced or more than I am. Cheers

Basically what you are trying to say is - social circle 'game' is easier than online / nightgame.
I would say it depends, but if you have social circle with a lot of attractive females + high status here - then YES.

BTW How many msg's you send daily using online dating?


@dc7
I wish that was that simple for me.
I can't do gear/roids - heart defect.

Regarding other stuff - hair, style - I am working on it.

I would like to say that I have had the exact OPPOSITE experience as you. I have fucked maybe 7 or so 9-10s and 3 of them were met at parties in college where I wasn't the cool guy (actually they both said they liked that I wasn't part of their social circle) and the rest were from tinder so I guess you could say the same about them.

I can think of one girl who I banged (actually the third in my life) who was a 9 or 10 and I was one of the cool guys at that party (A non star athlete on the team that owned the house. Didn't live there).

dashedhopes wrote:

My buddy gets a new 9 or 10 every week or two almost with minimal effort on tinder and he does 0 cold approaching. I don't recommend the 0 cold approaching part at all but I'm basically saying if you aren't getting girls as hot as you want, especially in regards to online, you need to improve your looks period.

Just out of curiosity, is that rooster?

No it's another buddy of mine. He's on here too but he hardly ever posts.

All of the hottest girls I have slept with have been from cold approach.

DC7 - How many 9's/10's have you fucked out of the 50+? 10? 20? more?
I'm curious to see what your friend looks like if he's banging a legit 9 or 10 from online every week.

I'm constantly trying to improve on the looks department but there's really only so much more you can do. I would rate myself as a 9 with 100% honesty...I'm 6'3 175 lbs with ~10% body fat. I'm working on getting to 185 while maintaining BF. I dress really well, have a current haircut, and a well structured face. Getting to 190 lbs would probably put me in the 9.5 category. I'm not really sure if getting better looking is the solution. Probably getting better pics would be the only thing.

Hitsu - i wasn't really trying to say that one way or the other is the way to go, mainly trying to get information. for me, my hottest girls have been from social circle, but I've only been using tinder for a year and a half now.

EDIT: Basically, 1 out of every 3 girls I bang is either a 9/10. 1 out of every 3 is a 7. 1 out of every 3 is an 8. I don't think I've ever fucked a girl below a 7. In hindsight this probably seems like a pretty great distribution and I just need to keep doing this.

ultratyght- any further insight on this?

I'm probably 1-2 years behind you, ~20 girls total from social circle/cold approach/tinder, 3 8-9s all from social circle. I've matched a few 9's on tinder in the span of several months but haven't met up with any--need better pictures and prob 10-20 lbs of muscle
The only 9-10 girls i see out with any consistency are cocktail waitresses and it's pretty hard to even get a number when they're working...texting a couple but no successes yet.

Update: I just fucked 3 girls from tinder that were 8.5+ with two of them being legit 9.5's. Looks obviously weren't greatly changed in the span of six months, and only one new picture. My findings are totally inconclusive lol

ultratyght wrote: Update: I just fucked 3 girls from tinder that were 8.5+ with two of them being legit 9.5's. Looks obviously weren't greatly changed in the span of six months, and only one new picture. My findings are totally inconclusive lol

This cracked me up

"inconclusive"

lol

I recently got the Tinder "Plus" set-up. Practically every 'really hot' girl I have Super Liked has liked me back. This used to never happen. I felt as if they never even saw me before this- because I'd never match them. I'd suggest getting Tinder Plus if you haven't already.

Now as far as fucking them, that's a different story. All of them are basically 90+ miles away from me and I'm not going near them anytime soon. (can't, really) However you gotta start somewhere and that starting place is MATCHING these hot bitches so if you're not at least doing that, getting Tinder Plus can help (in my experience for sure)



btw- yea Ultra i've checked your log and your girlies are littles hotties man. awesome stuff