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I'd say it's a good sign you at least talked to the security guys and connected with them a non threatening guy way. Good because they can communicate to the woman working there that you checked out ok and didn't go down the path of calling her the b word or appearing to stalk etc.
Once point that hasn't been mentioned is how you might have seen this coming be sizing up this woman and looking for "tells" or body language that would suggest this woman is sensitive about her personal space and having someone make a cold call on her seemingly out of the blue. She could have all kinds of issues that have to due with old boyfriends etc. There's usually some kind of indication that someone wants to remain offline or not in play. Just part of an emotional intelligence thing to work on maybe.
Also think of more subtle ways to try to break the ice, use a little more ambiguity, and possibly most importantly, develop a sense of humor or think of something kind of witty about the absurdity of life. Since she worked there she might have thought you would continue approaching other women in the store and she saw the situation as one where you are actually driving away customers and it's more of a business thing.
Yeah it's gotten a lot better since I did that "hit on at least 1 girl per day" 4-week project. That was at the very beginning where I had never done approaches solo before.
So, I'm not sure if you've "discredited me" because of one of my previous exchanges but I think I can offer some help. From waaay back in the day in "the community" before THE GAME. There was thing called the "3 second rule." I used it and it really helped. It takes some balls but is fun because it pushes you. But basically the rule is if you see a girl you want to talk to you walk right up to her and open her in 3 seconds flat. Doesn't matter what you say. Just get in and get talking. Like other guys have said, following around 2 hours is out there man.
If you have a buddy that you can do pickup with me and some guys I knew (can't even remember now) used to play a game called "holla for a dolla" lmao typing this. But you'd take turns pointing at a hot girl for your friend to approach and if he didn't approach he'd have to give you a dollar. That was when we were kids though. Obviously, as grown ups something like 10 would probably make more sense. But you get the point. Forcing yourself in there.
Or of course, there's always the AA mission. Keep at it man.
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