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Dude if you have to insult something that I typed (I was drunk); that says a lot about you.
1) Max out your looks
2) Hit on chicks
3) If they are not into you still, relocate.
Can a mod close this thread? This guy is just here trying to argue with people. I think he should get banned too. I foresee long thread featuring this guy trying to argue with everyone. Even though we don't even know if he has ever seen a vagina in his life. Also he creates 2 separate posts just to call attention on himself. What do the mods and veterans think about this? Lmk.
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
In all honest, Indian guys are some of the smartest guys I've ever met. Not just book smart, but eloquent speakers despite their accents, massive memory capacity for knowledge, and the ability to synthesize and process immense amount of information.
SmoothOperator wrote: In all honest, Indian guys are some of the smartest guys I've ever met. Not just book smart, but eloquent speakers despite their accents, massive memory capacity for knowledge, and the ability to synthesize and process immense amount of information.
I can practically say the same for most Asian guys too, but unfortunately we're in the United States where if you want to get hot girls, that kind of shit works against you. It is part of the reason why I have seen Asian and Indian men do well with white girls who were from Europe as opposed to white girls from the USA. Even the white guys I knew who did well with White American girls were typically the douchebag confrontational types as opposed to the eloquent renaissance man types.
Guess it is a tough pill to swallow for most but if you want to do well with "white girls", you're going to have to drop the sophisticated gentleman act.
Location matters in all of this because your typical California girl is used to seeing the "nerdy" Asian and Indian guys so when one approaches her at a bar, she immediately dismisses him. Now in a place like Texas, Florida, or states with a much lower Asian and Indian population you actually have some exotic appeal and girls don't hold this same degree of prejudice like they would in California.
My thread is no doubt controversial but other guys have sent me PMs telling me how they have had similar experiences. I took all of this into account before posting my thread because I know that this forum is not some politically correct feminist hivemind. What I said is politically incorrect, controversial, and no doubt stuff you would refuse to talk about in real life but it is something that matters.
I hate to say it but the game isn't fair when it comes to race, white guys have the advantage of being able to do well anywhere in the USA. Now we could talk history, social science, and that stuff all day long; but I wanted to give advice and present another aspect of the game that guys of minority groups would need to be aware of.
I even said on my thread in the OP, first and foremost, make sure you're doing everything GLL has said and after all of that the things aren't working out for you, it might be time to move. If that hurt's Username's feelings then I don't know what to really say.
Race is a convenient excuse. Its very easy to blame your lack of success on something out of your control.
Logistics can be a very real problem. If you think your logistics are the problem then its time to plan to move to a big city. If your already in a big city, then I'm not sure what to tell you.
I know "Indian guys" in Cali that get laid. I trained them... I know "Indian guys" on the east coast that get laid... I trained them.
I will say that "Indian guys" do very well working with me because they are often highly intelligent but not very socially calibrated. I've had a lot of success with these kinds of guys. Collectively they have posted 12 lay reports on my forum in the last few months. You can create a username and check for yourself.
I put "Indian guys" in quotes because I am an uncultured American and I don't know if they are actually Indian, but that's the word that comes to mind.
The only real stereotype you face is that of having a small penis. I'm not saying "Average" but small. If your on the smaller side start PE. If your over 5" in length then your fine but make sure the girls know you don't have a tiny penis. When I ask my girlfriends about ethnic guys that is their major concern being 100% honest with you.
Also, I will throw this out there. The East coast is less superficial than the west, from what I have seen.
East coast = less steroids, less cosmetic surgery, etc. When I was on the west coast I was really surprised by the huge increase in these things, lots more fake plastic women and dudes pinning the shit out of themselves.
Rousseau wrote: Best piece of advice for minority groups:
Get jacked, get healthy, get style, get friends, get money, approach girls, then shut the fuck up.
Guess what? If you're a whiny faggot in southern california you're going to be a whiny faggot in the phillipines to. I guess you'll get to fuck some average filipina girls, but you'll still be a fucking faggot so what did you really win in the end?
I live in LA. I'm a brown Mexican and I have been with white girls, Persian girls, Asian girls, Eastern European girls, etc.
While the East Coast might come off as less superficial on appearance, race clearly plays a big role in some of the areas (especially southern states). You get fat and average looking white guys with hot girls due to being white while guys of minority groups do generally have a tougher time.
East coast is a different kind of shallow than the west coast, less based on physical appearance and more based on family name, tight social circles, and that sort of thing. If you're a minority, you're a lot better off on the west coast, especially the northwest states where I have seen dudes from all minority dudes kill it.
I don't know who said it about Middle Eastern men having it easy in the USA but I haven't noticed that no matter where I have gone. The only Arab dudes I knew who were doing well were those who were loaded, jacked, and had some serious social circle connections by which they usually met girls. Gotta admire them for trying really hard to get white girls though, do not see the same sort of desperation for white pussy among any other minority group out there.
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