TOPIC: Important piece of advice for guys of minority groups still struggling.

Unless you're a minority who has had a ton of success (in that case share your story) you can stay out of this discussion because your input is not welcome. These generic "just lift bruh" posts are so fucking useless and have absolutely no place on this thread which has excellent advice to give. Why don't you just write a guide on how everyone can be a fucking billionaire?
While you're at it, write a guide on how to get surgery to be a white guy so racism doesn't matter anymore.

According to that logic, fuck this site, everyone lets just be PUAs and spam approach a million girls until one bites.

I am a minority, I've struggled and I've had times in my life where I was getting laid like there is no tomorrow so I know what I am talking about. I have been with hot girls of different races and this is personal to me. Your generic bullshit you can do anything you set your mind to advice is garbage, solves nothing, and helps no one so get that garbage out of here.

My advice is the difference between that muscular and wealthy Asian guy fucking ugly bitches because he happened to be in the wrong location versus that same dude fucking 8s and 9s because he was in the right one. If you disagree, you have no idea of what you're talking about so maybe you should bet he one who needs to shut the fuck up.

So I'm a brown guy and honestly all I can say is if you have rock solid confidence and you're good looking then youll be fine. Most of you it's not the looks it's your inner game. Your self confidence. I never even think about my race when dealing with girls. If you think about that it shows in your personality that you have some sort of chip on your shoulder and its not attractive. Be better than that.

OP u just said white people in california are racist to indian/asians.. that is very very wrong most of them are chill.. these race/hate threads belong on rooshv not GLL

Khyber Pass wrote: OP u just said white people in california are racist to indian/asians.. that is very very wrong most of them are chill.. these race/hate threads belong on rooshv not GLL

Maybe the whites in California aren't yelling "go back to your own country!" but the fact of the matter is that white girls from California do see Asian and Indian men are being inferior. They might have Asian friends (aka white-washed Asian girls that hate Asian men) or they may eat Asian food but they are not open minded about going for some Asian dude.

The whole Asian and Indian men are an inferior species to women concept, it crawled out of California. California is where the highest concentration of Asian, Mexican, and Indian guys are at.

Compare that to some of the girls in Florida who will actually find a higher value Asian, Mexican, or Indian dude (one that lifts and is not an FOB) to be exotic. What I am saying is that non-black minorities have a very high ceiling in Florida when it comes to girls while in California, their ceiling is pretty low.

CuriousGeorge wrote: So I'm a brown guy and honestly all I can say is if you have rock solid confidence and you're good looking then youll be fine. Most of you it's not the looks it's your inner game. Your self confidence. I never even think about my race when dealing with girls. If you think about that it shows in your personality that you have some sort of chip on your shoulder and its not attractive. Be better than that.

Again, all about your location, I bet you live in a location where you can leverage your ethnic appearance as something exotic rather than "oh look another brown guy".

If you feel your ethnicity is such a hindrance move to another country where you will be considered exotic and stand out more. America ain't what it used to be.

I just wish that before people reply, they would at least read the fucking thread, I talked about how results vary dramatically based on state.

It takes me back to Chris's post on PUA forums, you have these imbeciles who likely have no success with girls giving out advice and underestimating the importance of looks. Well, you kinda have the same shit going on over here too. You have guys who have likely never had success with girls or are white and entirely oblivious to the struggles of men that aren't white attempting to give advice. Sometimes, it is better to listen or just realize that your perspective doesn't help anyone. Nothing frustrates me more than to see some white guy come into this thread, preach some self-help motivation bullshit, and give his sob story when this thread quite specifically was meant to discuss the issue of race. Sometimes, your viewpoint is quite literally not welcomed.

Now I am a minority, I've struggled despite following Chris's advice down to the tee (almost getting into fights in some cases) and I thought it was my game or swag factor. Problem is that I was just in the wrong fucking part of the country.

You can't use game and looks to explain shit if you see overweight white guys with cute girls in your area, you really can't.

It doesn't have to do with just getting laid either, it is life threatening shit.

There are areas of the country where guys of minority groups risk getting into a lot of trouble for talking to cute white girls, and I know the whole "why not stick to your own kind" crowd wants to come in about this but it is the truth. You risk making enemies with some angry white guys who likely have a lot of pull in society and that can make your life hell.

So really, I am trying to open a relevant and useful discussion while those who have absolutely no fucking business giving advice are making generic nonsense posts.

Minority here and I feel you fam. I'm good looking and only do well in certain places in California, it has become a trend. People who disagree with you are delusional/ not a minority (understadable). When I went to vegas white girls from mineapolis were really into me and it tripped me the fuck out. There is something to be said about locations to get laid. Also I don't care for white girls I don't know why guys are so into them, I like asian girls. But also we have to understand that it's hard for people to move out to look for a place in which minorities do better with a certain race. Perhaps that frustration can be directed to the gym and looks.

I think Aaron sleazy would call these places "warm environments" but he def talks about stuff like this.

We cannot trust Gll for everything regarding getting laid. It's a puzzle if you are not Chris (brought up rich, tall etc...). I've learned a lot from this website but also I've learned a lot from Aaron sleazy like warm environments, fit in with in certain venues etc... I've learned that you can seduce a woman through ronin (I'm not talking about any PUA shit and no he is not creating attraction but it's hard to describe) who I had as a teacher.

GLL chris and scotty are not the only ones who get laid. People on this forum should start listening to people who are more experienced than them (sleazy, ronin, shit even leopard)

Ya, there's no doubt that your location and ethnicity plays a role in your results.

My comment was more so an expression of the fact that all too often guys use their ethnicity and location as an excuse not to get results and take action. I was attacking that notion, rather than OP's message.

I pretty much defended my take on white girls, the reason I emphasize them is if you can get hot white girls in a given area then you can more or less get other kinds of girls in a given area. A hot white girl by your arm is the ultimate social proof, especially to women of other races. The same Asian girls that hate Asian men will happily go for one who can get a hot white girl.

On your point about Minnesota, I've been there and the place is definitely an outlier. I saw Mexicans, Blacks (well that's the case everywhere), Indians (a good amount too), and Asian guys with some white girls that seemed to be above their league. I am talking tall good looking blondes with average looking Latino guys, guess Scandinavian women do have a thing for darker men. Now granted, these guys weren't fat or geeky looking but the truth is, in California they would have been fighting for scraps of their own races.

I just think that for minorities, this is the key thing, location location location.

Username, what parts of CA do you struggle in? What race are you?

Rousseau wrote: Ya, there's no doubt that your location and ethnicity plays a role in your results.

My comment was more so an expression of the fact that all too often guys use their ethnicity and location as an excuse not to get results and take action. I was attacking that notion, rather than OP's message.

Because in some cases they just can't, that is the harsh reality of the matter. With location, I would do a simple test, see if an above average looking guy of that race can have success in that location and if so, then you have no excuse. Hell, take a pic of an above average looking dude of a certain race, spoof his tinder to various locations, and see how it goes.

I have tried tinder and spoofed locations, my results vary dramatically based on the location I am at.

It's just white chicks tbh but asian girls/ latina girls dig me its just that asian girls from San Jose are more into me and white chicks from San Francisco do like me. And no, having a white chick doesn't mean shit there are hot girls of every single ethnicity. White chicks just think they are superior and honestly minorities who get rejected by all those white chicks should love themselves enough not to suplicate to those entitled hoes.

Yes rossou that's what I meant, minorities should focus on their foundamentals and then move somewhere else if the situation is bad. Minorities should only bitch if they are maxed out in looks/ coolness.