TOPIC: Important piece of advice for guys of minority groups still struggling.

This piece of advice goes to all guys of minority groups out there, especially those that are more foreign (Asian, Mexican, Indian, and Middle Eastern), who are pushing themselves in the game. The ones who have been hitting the gym, seeing results, applying what GLL says on his blog, and after all that are still not seeing much success. My experiences are only limited to the USA so I cannot say much for other countries, even though I understand that we have quite the bit of international crowd on here.

So if you truly feel like you're in the top 20% of guys from your race, or top 10%, and after all of that are still not seeing results with women then it might not entirely be your fault.

Now I know lots of guys on this forum have a lot of animosity towards guys of minority groups chasing white girls but I have found that "white girls" can also stand for girls of minority groups who have completely assimilated into American culture. For example, a lot of white washed Asian girls who hate Asians and same with Indian and Arab girls who go through that process. In a way, I think that it is important for a guy of a minority group to be able to do well with some of the more attractive white girls because:

1. They're the majority and you will have to deal with them whether you like it or not. The richer you get, the more you run into them here in the USA.

2. Girls of minority groups who want to assimilate into American culture are following them meaning that your typical Asian or Indian girl being raised in the USA is going after almost the same kinds of guys as her white friends are. I have known a few cases to where Asian and Indian girls who normally wouldn't go for men of their own race changed their minds because that Asian or Indian guy could pull cute white girls.

But here you are trucking along and still not seeing results with cute girls.

Well, here is the truth that no one wants to accept but has to accept, your location might be screwing you over.

After living in various parts of the USA, I have found that in some areas it is not that out of the ordinary to see a cute white girl with a guy of a minority group. On the other hand there are also parts of the USA (even some major cities, Atlanta is a good example) where a cute white girl with a guy of a certain minority group will turn a lot of heads because men of that minority group have a low status in that area.

I have found that it isn't one size fits all either for guys of minority groups, it differs. For example, black guys might do amazing in a place like California while Asian, Indian, and most non-black guys of minority groups will often struggle there. On the other hand, I've found that a higher value Asian or Indian dude can absolutely clean up in places like Florida.

See this is the disadvantage of not being white, your location matters that much more compared to some white guy who can do well just about anywhere in the country.

So if you are still struggling after putting in so much work, it might be time to consider a move if you want to have a better sex life.

Get status brah

Location is everything even if you are a white guy.


Source : I am a white guy (180cm) in a white country and girls hate me here. I simply change country and I get laid left, right and center.

Location is a valid point, I noticed this aswell. Some places I get jack-fucking-shit and in others I'm like a demi-god or something

as for being the minority, I think it REALLY depends on your persona AND environment. For example, I know an extremely ugly ginger and an ugly black guy (short, maybe like 160cm tops) but both kill because they live an awesome life, have status and a I dont give a fuck attitude. Sometimes it almost seems that they are more attractive because they are more human, real, and approachable so to say.

take the short ugly black guy (good friend of mine actually). awesome peronality. does kitesurfing at semi-pro level, wa a competitive thai boxes, is a salsa instructor and can cook like one of those fat italian grandma's you see in commercials. in addition to that, he is just a very funny and awesome guy.

because of his 'bad starting point' he managed to completely turn his situation around by becoming a fucking badass. for that reason I still believe even 'minority' guys can kill, IF they become legenday and PERHAPS change their environment.

Even as a minority man i struggle with my own race.

It fucking sucks. The language barrier is there,
But working the gym should help.

Yo Zuberi,

it's "sorority girls" man, not "fraternity girls", your sig is a bit off with that one bro.

You're right.If minority guys want to do well then they better look like a model. Their main priority would have to be the gym and have above average style like Chris said.That's the only option.

Remember the better you look, the more leeway you'll have with girls even though you're a minority.(I'm a minority myself)

^ that is not what I said at all, read my post again

I know two Asian guys who destroy it in SoCal. Both of their lay counts are at a few hundred. You wouldn't be able to tell just by looking at them, however.

One has elite confidence and a juggernaut mentality/attitude. The other is good looking and has very, very tight verbal game. Although they're completely aware of the challenges minorities go through, you wouldn't hear them talking about changing locations just to get laid. That sounds pretty weak man. Because they make it happen here. And they are successful with women.

And they'll admit, there's other minoritys out there that pull more than they do (I believe them, but it's pretty hard to believe).

I don't agree entirely with your post because even though there is truth to it, there's "minorities" that fucking crush it in LA and NYC. And there not that much ahead of you or me.

And iv winged with white dudes here in SoCal, and they don't have it all that much easier. They put in the work and effort, too.

@saturday - can you describe these 2 Asian guys? Looks, personality, interpersonal skill? Are we talking about cold approaching?

If we are talking about status, lifestyle, social circle. That's a totally different beast.

Most guys talking on this thread are unknowns not knowing what they are talking about.

We all heard the "but I know an ugly fat guy that get laid left right and center !" That's bullshit.

Changing location is not weak. That's like saying to someone trying to cultivate vegetables in the desert that he'd better change location and find some arable land. That's actually pretty smart.

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