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Been approaching consistently for the past few days (save today). I did 5 approaches 2 days ago and one approach yesterday. Nothing is really sticking but a lot of it has to do with my looks.
Going to get a hair cut on Friday and get back to it. The Egyptian girl has gone cold. In hindsight i should have just spent the night at her place and tried to fuck her in the morning. I don't see her wanting to come out again. On to the next one. Current: 19 lays
Goal: 100 |
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Why do you think that its your looks?
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@Dekk --> I feel super at ease approaching now. Approach anxiety isn't the issue. That really leaves looks/girls availability as the reason. I can't do anything about the girl's availability but i think i can improve my looks. Not that they are bad by means, but there is room for improvement.
Starting style my hair different to cover my receding hairline. Also improving my wardrobe a little bit. 2017-01-13 Got some more approaches in today. I had a tough day at work and i didn't feel like approaching. I decided to go for a walk and just give a call my dad who i haven't seen in a while. It actually made me feel way better just getting someone on the phone. I was immediately a little more social. 1) Asian chick - I go up to this girl and tell her she's cute. Total fob asian. She said "no, sorry". I literally couldn't stop laughing at her response. She apologized which made no sense. I've noticed I'm getting a little more horny for Asians lately. #HairyPussyExploration. 2) I hit the local mall and approach this chick who looked really hot from far. Once i got closer her face looked pimply as fuck. She was french which gave her a few extra points for me. She wasn't interesting. It's funny how just by the tone of the girl you can tell in the first sentence if she's into you or not. 3) I approach this white chick in the subway. Super cute so i tell that she's super cute. She smiles and holds up the ring. Fuck. 4) I approach this hot ass Venezuelan chick while waiting for the subway. There were a bunch of other chicks which gave my ego a nice little boost (even though i know it shouldn't). She was smiling and laughing but she was seeing someone. Grab her instagram. I did 2 more approaches today but i can't remember them atm. That brings the total weekly count to 19. Need to at least hit 16 more before the week ends. It's funny how relaxing approaching is for me. It's like the gym in a weird way, just helps my mind get off of work. Current: 19 lays
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Chick off tinder ended up flaking on me so i was out with a vengeance today after work. I approached 7 chicks in total.
I was a little in my head but i realized some important shit. For one thing I approach 5 chicks a day and then quit. I make myself approach during a time frame and don't do it at all outside of that time frame. I miss out on good opportunities because this. Need to be a lot more consistent and make this more of a habitual thing. 1) Older Chick in the mall - old mom that ended up being good from far but far from good. Still rejected 2) Chick on escalator - pretty hot with a huge ass. Wasn't interested. 3) Brown chick - not interested and I was almost felt insulted. I have a serious problem with brown girls turning me down....idk why 4) cute ass chinese chick - ended up being engaged but i yelled at her to turn around and come to me....she listened lol wtf. 5) Chick in the subway - fourth year student that was entering law school. Something seemed off about this chick....a little dark and quiet. Kind of like myself lol. I grabbed her instagram but we'll see if it goes anywhere. 6 and 7 I do not remember at the moment. Current: 19 lays
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I have a big sense of entitlement with brown girls, too.
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Hi eryone,
The approaching has been consistent over the past few weeks. I've been doing at least 1 set a day on my worst days but usually around 4-5. I had 3 dates lined for this past week, 2 of them flaked, and i got head from the one chick that showed up (met her on tinder). I've have been making progress over the past few weeks but it's hard for me to stay in the positive mindset since I haven't gotten laid just yet (been nearly 2 months). This is a helluva cold streak but I know I'm getting closer and closer. Just have to stay on course and keep approaching. Pc, Chocolate Thunder Current: 19 lays
Goal: 100 |
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Bro, love this journal. You still doing approaches?
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No more cold approach (actively going out for the sole sake of cold approaching). Getting lays of tinder but not focusing on it so much. Will update soon.
Current: 19 lays
Goal: 100 |
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Bro, good to hear from you again.
Why did you quit cold approach? How many bangs from Tinder this year? |
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Lay: Iceland Girl - Alisha
I was in Iceland recently with my brother and a bunch of friends (t'was a fucking blast!). On one of my last nights there I was leaving the hostel to go a hike up a mountain before realizing I forgot my keys in my room. I go back to my room and I see this cute chick. I say "what's up". She says "not much". I immediately recognize the accent and I ask her if she's Canadian. She says yeah. We banter back and forth and I grab her number for later. Later in the evening I ask her if she wants to go see the northern lights with me and my friends. She agrees and we head over to watch them. My buddies are taking up the front seats, with me and the girl in the back seat. We eventually get to our destination and stop. Me and the chick hop out and chill on a nearby log. One thing leads to another and we start making out. Couldn't really do much else but this set the tone for later on. We eventually get back to the hostel and start partying with a bunch of people there. I take the girl back to my room, which is (mostly) empty, save one Armenian dude who didn't really give a fuck. I bang the girl and the night ends. We continue to bang for the next few days until I leave for Morocco. Current: 19 lays
Goal: 100
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Been a long time since I posted here.
I'll keep it short but the last two years have been crazy. My cold approach days came to an abrupt end when I started working a regular desk job with a 2.5 hour commute. I also moved back in with my parents with terrible logistics which meant no pussy. It was terrible and I was miserable. I stayed in it for 2 years before realizing that my life was going down the toilet. I quit my job 9 months ago, started an online business in attempts to travel the world. The last 9 months have been pure hustling but the business is going well now, and I have enough saved up where I can travel. Best of all I'm in a position where my logistics are a lot better and I can cold approach like I used to. I'm currently in Montreal, Canada in their downtown core so prime pussy everywhere. Time to get the shenanigans going again. Will be approaching regularly everyday and will be posting my sets here (lay or non-lay). Any lays I get I'll post in my sister blog over at: www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/lay-repo...south-asian?start=12 . While I get into the swing of things it's fun posting on here and getting support and feedback from you guys. I'll eventually just posting my lays to save time because it's tough when you're approaching all the time. Good to be back, Indian Loser. Current: 19 lays
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Trying to get into the swing of things again and BOOM forgot about the good ol' approach anxiety lol.
I managed to tell one girl I thought she was cute after she helped me out with some directions. Today my goal was to go up to 10 people under 5 minutes and just ask them for directions. Not the greatest thing ever but it's helping me warm up again. I'm going to use the approach anxiety program to help me get back into the swing of things for the first week or so. Once I get momentum I'll be okay. Cheers, Chocolate Thunder Current: 19 lays
Goal: 100
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