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Only got one approach off today but it was a nice long interaction. I'm pretty sure this chick wanted to me to pull her right then and there but unfortunately I had other things I had to do (couldn't get out of it). This chick was hot but had zero personality (or, more likely, was to insecure to let me get to know her more).
Had another opportunity in the evening but I let it slide. Really need to capitalize these moments.
Sandshark wrote: If you're Indian I probably wouldn't do a beard. Either clean-shaven or stubble. Plays into stereotype too much I think. That's probably why you get more eye contact without it.
Good news on the apartment.
Not necessarily. I have definitely been getting more eye contact and compliments since I grew my beard. You just have to make sure you maintain it well and have a stylish cut. I think not having a beard plays more into the nerdy stereotype that Indians like us(I am not Indian but that's what people assume) tend to be boxed into so it's important to have have a physique and style to break away from that and a stylish beard helps that.
I think a stylish cut is a key. i dont think having a sikh beard would help with getting laid.
beard with a muscular build looks good instead on a skinny person.
Grabbed her # but doubt she'll respond at this point. Interaction was great but definitely missed a key opportunity.....she nearly walked me to my apartment. It had same day lay written all over it in hindsight.
(1) girl outside of subway - engaged, not interested
(2) Girl on subway - politely/akwardly smiles and puts headphone back in (everyone in subway is staring, lol)
(3) Girl sitting down on rock. She's waiting for someone and definitely not interested
(4) Girl on the way to gym. Receptive but taken. Compliments me on my approach and tells me to keep doing it
(5) Girl at street light. It's slightly dark outside. She's creeped the fuck out. lol. Didn't think that would play out too well before doing it.
Only got two approaches off today. I was pretty in my head and nervous so I had a hard time doing the rest
Had a pretty key realization though. I'm too hard on myself when I feel nervous or insecure. This usually makes it worse. I'm way too attached to this "player" identity. I often have to remind myself that it's okay to be nervous and vulnerable....you're not some untouchable, overly confident ladies man...nor should you try to be
Been a while since my last post. Been hitting up at least one set a day which is good. I managed to hit 3 so far today and I'm happy to say the anxiety is mostly gone.
1) Waitress on subway - attracted but boyfriend.
2) Nerdy hipster girl on subway - attracted but boyfriend
3) librarian outside of library (lol) - hot but not responsive/not interested. Usually this type of chick would make me feel like a creeper. Today I felt like a creeper but really didn't give a shit lol.
I'm semi-regularly seeing the chick with the short hair (see my lay logs) but I don't think it's enough to say we're fuck buddies just yet. This chick is a freak and the sex is hot. Sort of getting one-itis for this girl so I have to do a lot more approaches to get myself out of it. Hopefully I can land another lay before the end of the month but I gotta put my effort into approaching.
I've been on a massive cold streak for the last few weeks. Can't really explain it but no new chicks coming in. I haven't been laid in almost 3 weeks which isn't too bad of a problem to have in hindsight, haha.
I think one of my bigger sticking points right now is to lower my standards and not go for only 8's and 10's. I need consistent sex right as I'm super horny so I don't even mind sleeping with 6's and 7's (possibly a 5).
Sticking to my 5 sets per day but moving forward I'm going to make it a point to approach girls that I don't initially find attractive. I'll try to find something sexually appealing in all girls that walk by me.
This should be an interesting theory to test out but hopefully it yields positive results. I'm also jumping back onto tinder which I've been absent from for the last little while (i was getting fed up with chicks just wanting attention). Will report back.
1) slightly chubby chick - flattered but has boyfriend
2) brown chick - "sorry I don't date"......yeah. that's what she said.
3) Asian chick - giggling and laughing. pulled her towards me but she ran away. lol
4) chubby chick outside of shoppers - smiled but walked away and said she wasn't interested.
5) supposed hot cougar - turns out she's not a cougar but a lesbian lol
1) Hot blonde on subway - boyfriend
2) Hot white chick off subway - single, grabbed number quickly without much of an interaction, we'll see where it goes
3) Chick on bus - indirect conversation opener. Didn't really hook (i'll count this as an approach to give myself a break
4) Chubby chick outside subway - she was waiting for friend; this made me nervous cause I didn't want her friend to come in while I was speaking with her. She seemed kind of uneasy about it to. Went for a quick coffee date/number. Not interested...cool
5) Hot uni undergrad smoking on bench - not interested/boyfriend
6) Chick in tim hortons - half ass approach in all honesty. I opened her but expected her to do the work. In the future I need to tell the girl what to do. I can't expect her to do anything for the interaction to move forward.
I started using tinder again as well. Lets see if I can set something up for this Friday/Saturday.
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