TOPIC: Indian Loser's Approach Log + Lay Reports

Last week was slow but I bounced back strong yesterday with 5 solid approaches. Got one number but it didn't go anywhere. I noticed I'm getting a lot more eye contact while clean shaven. I think it's because my body fat is getting much lower and facial features are a lot more distinguishable.
Back at it today with a minimum 5 approaches but I'm sure I will end up doing more.

Also landed a full time job which means I will be able to stay in downtown Toronto longer and get my own room. This is absolutely awesome because it means I will have access to lots of hot girls long term (lease was going to end in June which meant I was gonna have to move back in with my parents). Super pumped.

pc

Five approaches today

1) French girl from Quebec - approached her right off the bus. Was wearing some sexy heels so I had to open her. She was flattered and attracted but boy friend.

2) White girl outside of subway - flattered, attracted, but taken. Fuck. While I was approaching this girl I noticed I was eyed by another girl. Always go after the girl that checks you out in the future.

After this girl I almost approached this chick but realized she wasn't that attracted. I quickly asked her for directions and she literally walked me to the place I was pretending to go haha.

3) Mercedes - opened a chick with a nice ass. Shook her hand and held on a bit. Asked her for her number but she said she was seeing someone. But to be honest I think I should have carried this conversation a little longer before asking for the number. Also I should really push an instant date more frequently as it's always yielded good results in the past. (instant dates moving forward before settling for the number)

4) Married chick outside subway - i was on the phone with my father and saw a cutie. I quickly ended the conversation and went and opened this chick. She was flattered, but married.

5) High School chick (oops) - approached a chick in the subway. She loved the attention and was eyeing but turned out to be a mature looking 12th grader. I apologized and left lol. Nothing to apologize for though. Not like I did anything illegal.

Pc

Yo,

Haven't posted in a while but I have been approaching consistently. My goal right now is 5 sets per day minimum and I'll go for more if I have time or I see a really pretty girl. I'd like to hit on 35-40 girls per week.

I had a date last night. Grabbed drinks with the chick and invited her to my place for drinks afterwards. She said "no, not on the first date". I couldn't even feign interest at this point. I kinda stopped caring and dropped her off at the subway with no intention of texting her back.

Girl 1: Saw a chick on the subway. Tapped her and told I thought she was cute. She starts nodding her head furiously and tells me thank you but I'm engaged. Everyone's watching me approach and shut down, pretty awesome lol.

Girl 2: I get off at a crowded subway stop and see a girl walking down the stairs as I go up. I turn around and follow after her. Tap her and tell her she's cute. Boyfriend but she compliments my confidence.

Girl 3: Turned out to be an older lady but I would still hit it. She says thanks but no thanks and leaves. I didn't get a chance to speak with her but it was obvious she wasn't interested.

Girl 4: Approach a girl on a street corner. She was cute but her teeth were a little messed up. But hey, who the hell am i to judge, not like I'm anything perfect. I ask for her number just for practice but she says no thanks.

Girl 5: Approach a hot white chick on the way to the grocery store. She's flattered but she said she's running to catch an exam. =(

Girl 6: Open a girl in the grocery store. Tell her she's cute and we chat about Frank's red hot sauce. I go for the insta-date and she has a boyfriend.

That's it for today. Will post more consistently from here on out.

CT

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Sandshark wrote: If you're Indian I probably wouldn't do a beard. Either clean-shaven or stubble. Plays into stereotype too much I think. That's probably why you get more eye contact without it.

Good news on the apartment.

Not necessarily. I have definitely been getting more eye contact and compliments since I grew my beard. You just have to make sure you maintain it well and have a stylish cut. I think not having a beard plays more into the nerdy stereotype that Indians like us(I am not Indian but that's what people assume) tend to be boxed into so it's important to have have a physique and style to break away from that and a stylish beard helps that.

Only hit 4 sets today but definitely missed a few golden opportunities. Didn't hit minimum 5. Need to be more proactive.

Set 1: Chick on subway. Engaged and thus not interested

Set 2: Chick at subway stop. Massive ass. Slightly startled when I tapped her. Probably thought I was going to push her into the subway track. Need to think some of these through, aha. She definitely wasn't interested.

Set 3: Walking towards the gym I opened a red head. Super cute chick. She pretty surprised I approached her the way that I did but she was in town to visit her bf so I peaced. Ah, hot red heads are so rare

Set 4: Absolute rocket in a bus stop. I tell her "i thought you were cute, wanted to say hi". She says "thanks" but she has the "i have a boyfriend look" on her face. I call her out on it and she laughs and says " yeah i do, sorry". I say no worries and peace to the gym.

Back at it tomorrow. Need to up this but ever since starting a new job my time is limited. Need to capitalize on my available time and maximize this! 10 sets/day on non-workout days is definitely possible.

PC

Yo,

dropped by the local mall to do some approaches after work

Approach 1: Brown girl. Approached her but she was not interested, just walked past me. I could possibly be more aggressive with the stop.

Approach 2: White chick with red lipstick. "thanks but I have a boyfriend"

Approach 3: Thick-ass girl. Grabbed her hand. Definitely attracted to initial approach. Got physical. She was half-in half out. Should have taken the time to talk to her more. She was playing hard to get but wanted to see how much effort I was willing to put in. I could have really done a better job with this by putting in more effort and forcing her to stop and talk to me. She gave me her number but didn't respond (surprise)

Approach 4: white girl maryion. She was flattered and thanked me profusely for stopping her, but she has a boyfriend.

Approach 5: chick with a buzz cut. Hooked. Grab her hand and take her on an instant date to a nearby coffee shop. We chat for about 1.5 hours. Cool girl. Grabbed her number. Drinks on Friday. Will report back.

Pc for tonight. Back @ it tomorrow

thanks man. My approach was solid but I was nervous throughout the date for some reason. Probably a lack of experience. Took me a while to get into it but the chick was really understanding about it.

Yo,

Got off work a bit early which left more time for approaches. Today was interesting because I had really good conversations with some of the chicks. I know it's not going to get me laid but I've always struggled to have long conversation. Today I felt like I was being 100% myself and the girls were responding better.

1) Opened girl in street car. She had a boyfriend but I chilled and talked to her for a while. Really awesome conversation that felt natural. She is an ambitious chick that has her own business. Cool stuff

2) Leanne - half chinese half greek chick that I opened on the way to the gym. Slight mustache but if this chick cleaned herself up she could look like a supermodel. Got her number but i doubt I'll follow up. She was a bit young and inexperienced. Sex is doubtful unless I play the long game (based on my experience of course, could be wrong to generalize)

3) Red head - boyfriend but super into basketball. We had a few arguments about who the best player in the league is ( I said lebron and she of course said Steph curry lol)

4) Chick outside of the bar. Creeped her the fuck out by saying hi. Some people are just weird and nervous around strangers. All good though

5) Victoria - Macedonian chick outside of subway. Chatted for a bit. Grabbed her number and set up a date for the later in the week which probably won't go down because she never responded to my text, haha.

Till Tomorrow,

Pc

**LAID**

Yo,

1) Approached a chick on a subway. She was into it at first but then she said she had a boyfriend. Kind of funny. I think a lot of these girls like me approaching at first before they remember they have a boyfriend. Then their face gets serious and they stop talking/responding as much lol.

Didn't do any more approaches as I had a date a bit later. I ended up having sex with this girl i met a few days back (buzz cut girl). Check out my lay reports for the full story (link to lay reports in signature below).

yo,

My phone completely shut down on me yesterday and I lost some phone numbers. I was pretty bummed out about it and only got around to doing two approaches. Decided to call it a day early.

Girl 1: I approached a chick in the subway. She seemed uncomfortable with it so I asked "are you uncomfortable?". She said "yeah, kinda. This is weird". I said "no worries" and left. First time I didn't feel like a creeper after a girl was clearly creeped out. I think she was insecure and couldn't take a compliment, so whatever.

Girl 2: Hot blonde outside my apartment. She ended up being engaged but appreciated the compliment.

pc

Yeah for sure, it's normal for you and i

But who knows the stuff she's been through. Maybe she's been molested by some random guy. Maybe some other pua dude tried picking her up and it left a bad taste in her mouth. You can never really know. I'm better now at accepting and moving on without any hard feelings regardless of the girl's reaction. It leaves me happier overall.