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Did a total of 4 approaches today which is great and definitely better than doing 0 approaches (didn't hit the 12 approaches I wanted to). One chick ended up being a lesbian, two were blowouts, and one chick gave me her number but didn't screen too well (probably isn't dtf). I'll work on the number but it seems like it will be a few dates to get anywhere....but i'm sure talking to girls as much as possible at this point will be a good thing. I'm getting a little impatient but I should be happy with the results I'm getting since they are far ahead of anything I could have hoped for a few months back. Going to keep chipping away at it one step at a time.
I finally got a part-time job in security, so I can pay to get my ears pierced (I think this will put me further along in the look/style category). Gym is going well as well but diet needs to be a bit more on point. I've also decided to go back to school in September for HR so I'm excited about all the big decisions as of late.
So yesterday was a fun day. I decided to go to a local mall to do some day game. I was really really nervous at the start but I fought through it. My third approach was a complete blow out which almost made me quit but I said I would do at least one more approach before leaving so I didn't feel like a bitch. I ended up sticking around for longer and did a total of 7 approaches which was great. I got a total of 3 numbers but I deleted 2 right away as I didn't feel the girls wouldn't really respond (they were more pity numbers to get me to go away). None the less these were great interactions because they really helped my confidence build. By the 6th and 7th interaction I was confident as fuck. I approached a 9/10 white chick and had her giggling instantly. Unfortunately she had a boyfriend but, hey, it makes me feel good to make a girl laugh. She completely melted when I approached her. This is something I didn't even think was possible.
I noticed that girls have two responses to guys approaching: One for nervous dudes which will be a blow out or a creeped out response and, the second response is for a confident-ass motherfucker (they'll usually giggle and say they're taken or they'll have a conversation with and be interested); i had a combination of both yesterday.
Anyway, I got one number towards the end up the day while I was walking back to my place. It was more of a formal interaction (stiff handshake, small talk etc) but I got the number. I will message and try to go for a meet up!
Funny enough I approached a chick on Saturday just to get warmed up. Her teeth were gross and she wasn't very attractive so I decided not even bother messaging her. She messaged me yesterday out of the blue lol. A little bit of an ego stroke....didn't see it coming lol.
And finally I took out Euro-chick yesterday to grab some drinks. I took her back to my place and we drank some wine and talked. We made out but she was adamant that she didn't want it to go any further. I didn't mind because I actually enjoyed her company [usually when the girl is annoying i go for broke and keep pushing since I know I dont' have the patience to see her again (see my last date with yoga chick)]. I asked her to hang out again and she said she was down (I wanted to go to the porn convention with her but she wasn't down, haha). I'll give her a few days before I message again.
Other than that life is pretty good. I'm getting noticeably bigger. The only think not on point in my life right is career but I'm trying to put that on hold for a little while and give gaming everything I got. I know I won't forgive myself if I don't try to do this properly for a period in my life and so far my decisions are paying dividends.
Great day today for approaches. Main mission today was to hammer out 10-12 in as little time as possible. I did 10 approaches in about 1 hour and 15 minutes. The reason for this time restriction is because once I start working full time I won't have hours to wander around and approach. I need to learn how to get momentum going as fast as possible, pick up some confidence and do some great approaches.
I had a great opportunity today which i squandered in one of my approaches. I approached a relatively hot chick and had an opportunity to instant date her while she waited for her dad. I got nervous and didn't go for, settled for the number and left. This chick had a completely open schedule and would totally come down to see me had I made an effort to take it further. Big lesson. Just fucking do it. I've never had a bad outcome after an instant date (1 lay and 1 make out session).
The other sets were good too. A lot of boyfriends or not interested chicks but I managed to have a decent interaction with a first year university blonde. I was kind of nervous in the interaction. I can approach and open well a lot of the time but I tend to get nervous a few minutes in. Something to keep pushing moving forward.
Trying to line up dates for next week. Hopefully I'll have some luck during day game tomorrow.
Went out and approached in Toronto today. I did about 7 sets in an hour. First set was the best. The chick hooked hard and I had her hand in my hand the entire time. She said she's seeing someone but was still really down with the sexual touching. I should have dragged this chick to a local coffee shop. I gave up on this set way too easily. Good experience though.
Other than that all the other sets were no go's (either uninterested chicks or with boyfriend). I definitely missed some prime opportunities on the street today. I find myself shying away from approaching single girls that are walking around in big groups. I have a fear of getting rejected in front of other people. I'm sure it will go away after a while.
I went out yesterday afternoon and did only 3 approaches. I looked like a slob though to be fair. My hair was unkempt and my beard was long. Decided to cut approaching time a bit and just get a hair cut. Approaches went good but nothing stuck. One hot ass blonde chick was single but just wasn't feeling me at all. Still, I'm glad I approached attractive white girls (slowly losing my fear of them).
I didn't have a very screening mentality today. When a girl blew past me I felt I had to chase after them to change their mind. Gotta remember that for next time.
I won't be approaching for Sunday but I'll be back at it come Monday. Still looking for a part-time gig though as my security job fell through.
Haven't posted in the last little while but things were definitely a bit slow this week in terms of approaching. I was in Toronto for only a few days and I managed to do a total of roughly 20 approaches over 3 days. Definitely no where close to last weeks total. I've come up with a few new goals that I want to aim for this year.
2016 goal: 12 new lays (1/12)
Weekly goal: 1 date per week
Will update once I'm back in Toronto which will hopefully be today at a local mall. I'm also going to start following harder on tinder which I've been slacking on the last little while.
Finally got my ears pierced and I'm liking the look. I'm also back downtown so I decided to hit up a few sets.
I did one yesterday just to get warmed up and I did 3 today. Today was definitely tough as the first approach was a complete blow-off in a crowded intersection. The blowout had me in my head and I walked around aimlessly for a while. I decided to step the fuck up and I managed to get two more approaches in afterwards. Proud of myself for bouncing back after a harsh rejection.
I thought I was over approach anxiety but I guess not...a really bad blowout will still get me in my head. I have a job interview tomorrow so hopefully it goes well. It's an overnight which sucks in a way, but it will allow me to stay in Toronto long-term as I'll have enough rent money!
This is a report from last week Friday. I was hitting my usual 5 sets and things were going well. Each chick was interested and I wasn't nervous in the least. On my way home from the gym I saw a hot blonde checking me out. I tapped her and told her "i know this is random but you're really attractive". She was really formal and shook my hand very stiffly (almost like a business meeting). It turns out she's from Sweeden and has been in Canada for a 7 years. I tried to get her to come grab a coffee with me but she had to meet a friend. I took her number with hopes of setting up a date later in the week.
Two hours pass by and I get a text from Swedish girl asking me if I'd like to hang out because her friend bailed on her early. I say sure, and tell her I'll meet her in ten minutes at an intersection near my house. I meet her and we grab drinks. She was pretty nervous and that's why she shook my hand so formally when we first met. She's a bit awkward but I liked that about her because I'm also like this a lot of times around attractive girls. We get some wine and she starts loosen up and we have a great time at the bar. A lot of people are the bar are checking us out.
I invite her to drinks at my place and its on after that. We make out in front of the elevator. Get to the room...I show her the balcony and start making out with her again. We jump in the bedroom and I undress her perfect body. She has a faint ab line, long silky blonde hair, cool blue eyes, and long beautiful legs. I eat her out and make her cum several times with my tongue (shouldn't have done this in hindsight). We fuck all through the night and she comes multiple times with my dick inside her. Her body is literally shaking in pleasure after I fuck her.
This is the ideal "blonde chick" that I never thought I was good enough to get as an Indian youngster. And she was nervous around me. A real alpha. This is also the white, blonde girl that most Indian guys think they can't get. Confidence is like a drug for chicks, gents.
@Sandshark....I live in downtown Toronto so all I have to do is go outside and there are hot girls walking around. I've also lowered my standards to a degree. For example, I had a lay about a month ago with a chick that was a 6/10 at best but the blonde from a few days back was a 8/10 easy. I have no problem sleeping with girls that 5 or 6/10. So they don't necessarily have to be drop dead gorgeous for me....at least not this early in the game.
Got 4 approaches done today. All chicks were relatively hot, and one was a mom lol. Wasn't able to get the really hot ones to stop and speak to me.
One chick that seemed interested and was responding to my physical advances. But she said she had a boyfriend so I bailed early after that. I'm not sure if she was saying that just to get me to leave but either way I took as a sign of her not being down.
Another important thing is to avoid approaching girls on street corners with a lot of people watching. It puts a weird pressure on the girl I find. Back at it tomorrow. Going to hit at least 5 approaches and try to schedule it in my day as I'm going to and from meetings, gym and work.
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