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Chocolate_Thunder wrote: Definitely one approach. The inivtation was there but I'm coming from a place of fear. I still deep down inside don't want to the girl to come with. I don't think I'm good enough. It's kind of messed but something I have to get work on otherwise everytime i get in set i'm going to want to eject and not take it as far as I can
Bro, you are good enough. If a girl is willing to take time out of her day and spend 30 mins talking to you...you are more than good enough. Don't allow self-doubt, apprehension or hesitation stop you from having experiences some guys can only dream about. I mean if you are able to get instadates which is not something everyone can pull off..why would you question your adequacy ? There has to be something about you for you to have gotten to this point (of success).
Chocolate_Thunder wrote: Don't really think about it. I don't like going indirect at all because I think it's code for being too much of a pussy to actually tell her how you feel. Why not just tell her how you feel and you're attracted to her. It's a compliment and it cuts through all the bs.
I get your point but some girls are wary of a direct approach....as they see it as too aggressive. For others, they know that they're attractive and being told so for the millionth time (by a random guy) gets to the point of annoyance. "Oh, great another guy telling me that I'm hot/attractive.....I've never heard that before." I guess there's pluses/minuses for both direct
Chocolate_Thunder wrote: I've had 5 legitimate numbers from insta-dates. I could have fucked all 5 if i was coming from a place of confidence and not fear.
Were these insta-dates here in Montreal ? I would have thought that just getting them would have been a source of confidence...as most guys cannot get beyond a simple conversation ...let alone getting someone they just meet to
agree to spending time with them.
I'm going to start up this blog again just because life is going pretty good. A lot has changed in the past few year. Last time I posted was a year ago when I was living in Montreal.
I moved to South America as of January 2019 - Currently in Peru but I was in Colombia prior to being here. I've been smashing tonnes of latin pussy which has been great. I've simultaneously lost my taste for North American girls.
Anyway, up until this point most of my results have been off of tinder just because it's more time effective. I've been able to use the free time and channel it towards my business. But that stops today.
I'm going to start doing my usual 5 approaches per day just because I know I can smash hotter pussy in person. I also miss cold approach. Gaming off of tinder just isn't as rewarding. Cold approach makes me feel alive.
I'll be posting again in this journal because it helps me stay accountable, and makes me feel like I'm not doing this alone. So hopefully you guys enjoy my escapades and it inspires you to take action as well.
I'm still trying to get 100 lays before I hit 30 years of age.
I'm at 29 lays right now and I'll be 28 years old in August.
My stretch goal is to hit 40 by the end of this year (2019).
3 years ago I was in a miserable desk job ready to kill myself. I'm (semi) successfully running an online business right now and traveling the world.
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